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  • So you want to quit? Why you only fail if you get off the bus

    So you want to quit? Why you only fail if you get off the bus
    2026/06/21
    Hi! You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we are discussing my new favourite quote: 'You only fail if you get off the bus' Let me know what you think in the comments, make sure you're following me on social @mailfrombella, and promise me you'll send this to someone who wants to quit. Love, Bella 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    17 分
  • Why I've never had a 5 year plan....

    Why I've never had a 5 year plan....
    2026/06/14
    Hi, you've got mail from me, Bella 💌 This week, we're talking about something that might sound a little controversial: why I've never had a five-year plan. For as long as I can remember, I've had ideas, dreams, and directions I thought my life might take, but I've never had a detailed roadmap. Instead, I've tried to trust my instincts, stay open to opportunities, and remind myself that future me is allowed to change her mind. In a world that constantly asks us where we see ourselves in five years, it can feel overwhelming if you don't have the answer. So in this episode, I'm sharing why not having everything figured out has actually brought me more freedom, confidence, and unexpected opportunities than any rigid plan ever could. If you're feeling lost, behind, or anxious about where your life is heading, I hope this conversation helps you breathe a little easier. Come say hi on socials: @mailfrombella Love,Bella 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    18 分
  • How to Set Monthly Goals That Actually Make Your Life Better

    How to Set Monthly Goals That Actually Make Your Life Better
    2026/06/07
    Hi! You've Got Mail from me, Bella 💌 This week, we're talking about the importance of actually living your life. Not constantly thinking about how to maximise your productivity. We're chatting about recognising that your life is happening right now, finding joy in the everyday, prioritising the things that make you feel alive, and why creating a monthly bucket list might be one of the simplest ways to make more memories and have more fun. Make sure you're following along on social media @mailfrombella, and if you enjoy the episode, I'd love it if you shared it with a friend. I can't wait to catch up with you next week. Love, Bella xx 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    20 分
  • Feeling Behind in Life? Why the Long Road Is Often the Better One

    Feeling Behind in Life? Why the Long Road Is Often the Better One
    2026/05/31
    HI! 💌 You've got mail from me, Bella. This week, we're talking about the beauty of the long road. The jobs that took longer to land, the dreams that didn't happen overnight, and the lessons that only come from waiting. If life isn't moving as quickly as you'd hoped, consider this your reminder that slow doesn't mean wrong. Make sure you're following me on Ig and TT @mailfrombella Love Bellla Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    18 分
  • Is the 9-5 that...bad?

    Is the 9-5 that...bad?
    2026/05/24
    Welcome back to You’ve Got Mail 💌You’ve got mail from me, Bella, and this week we’re talking about the villainisation of the 9–5, the reality of being a content creator, and why I honestly think there are pros and cons to both. In a world where everyone online seems to be chasing freedom, soft mornings, and self-employment, I wanted to have a more honest conversation about work, ambition, stability, burnout, and the pressure to build a “dream life.” We talk about: the less glamorous side of content creation why more freedom doesn’t always mean more happiness the emotional trade-offs of both career paths and learning to build a life that actually works for you As always, this episode feels like a chat with a friend, and I’m so happy you’re here. Make sure you’re following me on Instagram and TikTok @mailfrombella 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    19 分
  • the best piece of productivity advice I've ever been given

    the best piece of productivity advice I've ever been given
    2026/05/17
    Hi! You've got mail from me, Bella, and this week we're chatting about the best piece of life advice I've ever been given. Specifically, it's productivity advice that's genuinely changed how I approach my to-do list: if you have time now, just do the thing now, because you don't know how your time will look in the future. Make sure you're following me on Instagram and TikTok @mailfrombella, and I can't wait to catch up with you next week. Love, Bella 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    15 分
  • Why failing my chemistry A-level was a good thing

    Why failing my chemistry A-level was a good thing
    2026/05/10
    Hi! You’ve got a voicemail from me, Bella, and this week I am exposing myself and chatting about why failing my A-level chemistry and having to go through clearing was actually the best thing that has ever happened to me. It has led me on a path that I would never have chosen for myself, but a path that has brought me so much joy. Make sure you’re following me on Instagram and on TikTok @mailfrombella, and if you want to write into my advice column please email dearbellaadvice@gmail.com. Love, Bella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    22 分
  • Can long distance relationships actually work?

    Can long distance relationships actually work?
    2026/05/03
    Hi! You’ve got mail from me, Bella 💌 This week, we’re talking all about long-distance relationships. After someone wrote into my Substack advice column asking for help, it reminded me just how hard they can be. I see so many people starting long-distance, and just as many people ending things because of it—but not nearly enough stories about making it through. So, as someone who’s now living with her once long-distance boyfriend, I wanted to bring a bit of honesty and hope into the conversation. We’re getting into what makes long distance so challenging, what actually helps, and whether it’s really worth it. If you’re in one, thinking about one, or healing from one—this episode is for you. Make sure you’re following me on Instagram and TikTok @mailfrombella, and I can’t wait to catch up next week Love,Bella 💌 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    19 分