In this episode, we're diving into one of the most personal—and sometimes controversial—topics we've ever discussed: religion. We share how two very different religious upbringings shaped us, from Ryann growing up in a Reform Jewish family celebrating traditions and holidays to Julie's experience with Southern Baptist churches, church camp, and navigating a faith that never quite felt like the right fit. Looking back as adults, we reflect on what we believed, what we questioned, and why both of us ultimately stepped away from organized religion.

We also talk about the differences between Judaism and Christianity, what it was like growing up with religious traditions, and how our views evolved over time. Along the way, we discuss everything from bar and bat mitzvahs, church camp, and holiday celebrations to tattoos, questioning religious teachings, and why curiosity has become more important to us than certainty. We also explore the positive role religion can play in building community while acknowledging the harm we've seen when faith is used to judge, exclude, or control others.

Finally, we have an honest conversation about how religion has personally affected our LGBTQ+ family—from family members who chose not to support our marriage because of their beliefs to how we're raising our own children to explore different faiths and come to their own conclusions. Whether you're deeply religious, no longer practice your faith, or are still figuring out what you believe, this episode is an invitation to ask questions, stay curious, and lead with kindness.

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