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  • YOBcc106: Nhat the Storyteller, from Haunted Houses to “Life on Side B”!
    2026/09/04

    Nhat’s a former theater kid, and he loves telling stories. We explore his many storytelling pursuits, from working at a haunted house, hosting his own horror magic show, finding redemption messages in horror movies and other genres, and most recently becoming one of the new cohosts of the Life on Side B podcast!

    LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
    • Nhat’s first YOB ConvoCast on mixed-orientation marriage
    • Nhat’s first Life on Side B episode on living with HIV
    PODCAST VIDEO
    • Watch on YouTube
    PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
    • YOB Convocast 106
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    FOLLOW THE CAST
    • Tom's blogs
    • Nhat’s podcasts
    GET IN TOUCH
    • Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009
    • Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
    • Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
    SUPPORT YOF
    • General giving (for non-members)
    • Giving toward membership in YOB
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    MUSIC CREDIT
    • "Feel it All" by sød ven; 100% clearance through Musicbed

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    44 分
  • YOBcc105: Ryan’s Launching a Singleness Conference!
    2026/08/21

    Our other brother Ryan is launching a singleness conference in Raleigh, NC! Learn the details of his one-day event, Oaks, along with his heart for thriving singleness in the church, regardless of one’s sexuality or life stage. Do you have any questions or wish to submit a liturgy or reflection on singleness for the conference? Get in touch with Ryan; he’d love to hear from you!

    LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
    • Register for Oaks!
    • Ryan’s email: ryan@theredremedy.com
    PODCAST VIDEO
    • Watch on YouTube
    PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
    • YOB Convocast 105
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    • Apple Podcasts
    • Spotify
    FOLLOW THE CAST
    • Tom's blogs
    • Ryan’s blogs
    GET IN TOUCH
    • Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009
    • Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
    • Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
    SUPPORT YOF
    • General giving (for non-members)
    • Giving toward membership in YOB
    • Giving toward membership in YOS
    FOLLOW YOF
    • YOF: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
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    • YOS: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok
    MUSIC CREDIT
    • "Feel it All" by sød ven; 100% clearance through Musicbed

    you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

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    38 分
  • YOF004: Gender Minorities, Part 2
    2026/07/19
    What now? Last episode, we defined who gender minorities are, people inside the Church and out who don’t fit typically into the gendered binary, answering some “dumb questions” about their lived experience. But how do we love gender minorities well, including welcoming them in “Side B” spaces like Your Other Family? Join us for Part 2 of this important conversation as Tom, Erin, and Jesse address the questions, concerns, and fears from our YOB and YOS community members who submitted anonymous feedback. Some of this feedback is uncomfortable. Unknowns are often uncomfortable. We want to enter into healthy conflict with one another and explore the unknown with curious empathy. We hope you enter our discussion with your spirit open, ready to receive whatever Jesus has for you as we all navigate, reclaim, and integrate the complexities of our faith, sexuality, and gender. Together. LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE YOFcast 003: Gender Minorities, Part 1YOBcast 078: Masturbation“Shoot Christians Say” from Tripp & TylerTrans resource page from KaleidoscopeGender incongruence course from EquipResources/seminars on trans ministry and identity from Posture Shift“A Letter to My Cis Side B Family” from Logan on The Matchbook Collective“On Being ‘Socially Legible as a Woman’” with Odessa the Barefoot from New Kinship“Gender-Queer and Gospel-Centered” with Lesli Hudson-Reynolds from Theology in the Raw with Dr. Preston Sprinkle“Gender Dysphoria, Church Hurt, and Enduring Hope in Jesus” with Remington Rathjen from Theology in the Raw with Dr. Preston Sprinkle PODCAST EPISODE PAGE YOFcast 004 RATE/REVIEW US Apple PodcastsSpotify GET IN TOUCH Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.orgEmail Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.orgMail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802 SUPPORT YOF General giving (for non-members)Giving toward membership in YOBGiving toward membership in YOS FOLLOW YOF YOF: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | YouTubeYOB: Facebook | Instagram | TikTokYOS: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok MUSIC CREDIT Intro/outro theme: “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy WilliamsBenediction theme: “The Breast of Mercy” by John Luca ft. Andy Squyres100% clearance through Musicbed you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home
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    2 時間 4 分
  • Trailer: Your Other Family Podcast Network
    2026/07/03

    Welcome to Your Other Family Podcast Network! A collection of shows from the nonprofit ministry of Your Other Family, which includes our communities of Your Other Brothers and Your Other Sisters. We share authentic stories of faith, sexuality, and gender as LGBT+ or same-sex attracted people following Jesus with a historic sexual and marriage ethic, increasingly regarded as a “Side B” theology.

    Listen to our extensive podcast archive, explore our links below, and reach out to us any time!

    OUR SITES
    • Your Other Family
    • Your Other Brothers
    • Your Other Sisters
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    • Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009
    • Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
    • Email Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.org
    • Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
    SUPPORT YOF
    • General giving (for non-members)
    • Giving toward membership in YOB
    • Giving toward membership in YOS
    FOLLOW YOF
    • YOF: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
    • YOB: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok
    • YOS: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok
    MUSIC CREDIT
    • “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams (100% clearance through Musicbed)

    you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

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    3 分
  • YOF003: Gender Minorities, Part 1
    2026/06/12

    Does everyone fit neatly into male and female? Where do many queer/SSA people experience an uncomfortable gender incongruence with their culture, and where do some experience a deeper gender dysphoria? Tom and Erin welcome YOF board member Jesse to share their experience as a gender minority in Your Other Brothers. We answer honest questions from our YOB+YOS members as we start a long overdue conversation with curiosity and empathy for gender minorities who are nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, and transgender.

    LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
    • Jesse’s Barbie podcast
    • Jesse’s Enneagram One podcast
    • Jesse’s demisexual podcast
    • Revoice
    • Kaleidoscope
    PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
    • YOFcast 003
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    • Apple Podcasts
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    GET IN TOUCH
    • Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009
    • Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
    • Email Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.org
    • Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
    SUPPORT YOF
    • General giving (for non-members)
    • Giving toward membership in YOB
    • Giving toward membership in YOS
    FOLLOW YOF
    • YOF: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | YouTube
    • YOB: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok
    • YOS: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok
    MUSIC CREDIT
    • Intro/outro theme: “Wilderlove” by John Mark McMillan ft. Joy Williams
    • 100% clearance through Musicbed

    you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

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    1 時間 36 分
  • YOS003: Queer Representation in Media
    2026/06/05

    Erin welcomes back Ashley and introduces Tangle for a discussion inspired by conversations from the Life on Side B and Your Other Brothers podcasts. So much can be said about queer representation in the media, especially as more queer stories have been told in the last couple years. Join us as we discuss our favorite TV shows and movies, including how queer characters have impacted them, and what we would like to see in future queer media productions. We end our episode with a lightning round of guessing the sexualities of cartoon villains from our childhood!

    LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
    • Curious about the Hays Code?

    • Follow Erin on Letterboxd!

    • Why are Disney Villains Queer Coded?

    • Tangle’s animation project

    • Ashley’s Charmed blog: “The Sisters Who Happened to be Witches”

    • Ashley’s favorites: Warrior Nun, Dead to Me, League of Their Own, Lioness, Supergirl, Fried Green Tomatoes

    • Tangle’s favorites: Arcane, Warrior Nun, The Owl House, Atypical

    • Erin’s favorites: Hacks, Saved!, But I’m a Cheerleader, The Children’s Hour (disclaimer: not a feel-good film), Wake Up Dead Man (bonus for great Christian clergy representation)

    COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

    What are your favorite TV shows and movies that feature LGBT characters? What character or character dynamic made you feel seen while watching? What stories would you like to see be told via movie or TV show?

    PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
    • YOScast 003: Queer Representation in Media
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    • Erin’s posts
    • Ashley’s posts
    • Our other contributors
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    • Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009
    • Email Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.org
    • Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
    SUPPORT YOF
    • General giving (for non-members)
    • Giving toward membership in YOS
    • Giving toward membership in YOB
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    MUSIC CREDIT
    • “Be More” by Linden Hope, used with permission.

    you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

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    53 分
  • YOB113: Non-Sexual Nudity
    2026/06/01

    Ten years of the YOBcast and not a single nudity episode?! Until now. Join Tom, Ryan, Matt, and a special guest to discuss this important intersection of nudity, body image, and vulnerability with other men. How did our familial and peer upbringings shape our relationship with nudity as adults? How have we – or haven’t we – entered nude environments like doctor’s offices, locker rooms, and Korean spas? We share stories of how appropriate, non-sexual nudity has initiated deeper brotherhood, and also stories of insecurity or lack of desire to be nude with other men.

    Wherever you fall on this “nudity desire spectrum,” we hope this episode helps you reconsider your relationship with your own body, as well as your embodied relationships with the men around you. We also discuss Sam Allberry’s resignation and the impact on our community.

    LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
    • Sponsor a gay sheep!
    • YOB ConvoCast 100: Tom & Ryan Tease the Topics to Come!
    • Eugene’s teased blog: “Exploring the Connection of Gay Men and Nudism”
    • Eugene’s blog: “My Complicated Relationship with Nudity”
    • Eugene’s blog: “Discovering the Heart of My Nudist Desires”
    • Eugene’s blog: “Male Nudity Will Fix Me”
    • Eugene’s blog: “I Wanted a Brother at the Nudist Resort”
    • Eugene’s blog: “When I Discovered the Korean Spa”
    COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

    Where have you experienced safe, non-sexual nudity with other men? Why do you, or don’t you, desire nudity with men?

    PODCAST EPISODE PAGE
    • YOBcast 113: Non-Sexual Nudity
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    • Tom's posts
    • Ryan's posts
    • Matt's posts
    • Eugene’s posts
    GET IN TOUCH
    • Call the YOFline: 1.706.389.8009
    • Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
    • Mail us: Your Other Family / P.O. Box 843 / Asheville, NC 28802
    SUPPORT YOF
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    • Giving toward membership in YOB
    • Giving toward membership in YOS
    FOLLOW YOF
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    • YOS: Facebook | Instagram | TikTok
    MUSIC CREDIT
    • Intro/outro theme: “Borderland” by John Mark McMillan
    • 100% clearance through Musicbed

    you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

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    1 時間 47 分
  • YOF Update: Alan Chambers Arrest, Renewed Community Focus, More YOF/YOB/YOScasts Before Revoice (May 2026)
    2026/05/21

    We’ve taken a step back with podcast production as Tom has been refocusing his efforts and part-time hours on the YOB community. With more podcasts recently recorded and coming soon, Tom also takes some time to process the Alan Chambers arrest, following the former Exodus International president’s alleged solicitation of a minor. We encourage you to feel your feelings; please reach out to us anytime. We’re with you.

    LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE
    • YOF General Giving
    • YOB Membership
    • YOS Membership
    • YOF Newsletter Signup
    • Follow YOF
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    • Follow YOB
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    • Follow YOS
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    • Email Tom: tom@yourotherfamily.org
    • Email Erin: erin@yourotherfamily.org

    you are not alone; even the sparrow finds a home

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    13 分