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You Are Not Meant to Be Everybody’s Cup of Tea | God Designed You That Way on Purpose

You Are Not Meant to Be Everybody’s Cup of Tea | God Designed You That Way on Purpose

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Do you leave every social situation and immediately replay the whole thing in your head? Did I talk too much? Did that come off weird? Did I offend them? Do they even like me? Girl. You are not alone. And this episode is going to set you free from that weight. 💜 In Season 2 Episode 2 of Taking Life by the Raines, Brandi is getting into something she heard and could not stop thinking about: you were never meant to be perfectly experienced by everyone. Not every person you meet is going to like you, receive you, or understand you. And not only is that okay, it is by design. This is the episode for the people pleaser who has spent her whole life performing instead of being known. The woman who replays conversations at 2am. The one who wants so badly for people to understand her heart that she has been shrinking herself to make sure nobody is ever offended. This one is for you. In this episode: You were never meant to be perfectly experienced by everyone and that is the most freeing thing you will hear today The social anxiety of replaying every conversation: am I the only one who does this? You are not meant to be everybody's cup of tea and God designed it that way on purpose Being liked requires performance. Being known requires vulnerability. Why childhood trauma makes vulnerability feel dangerous and how to work through it The difference between self-awareness and self-surveillance and which one is keeping you stuck The enemy fights hardest right before you let somebody fully know you. Here is why. Being fully known by God is your superpower and it is the only opinion that actually sets you free Deeper, more meaningful relationships are waiting on the other side of this fear New episodes every Thursday. Subscribe and join us. 💜 📲 Follow Taking Life by the Raines: Instagram: instagram.com/takinglifebytheraines/ TikTok: tiktok.com/takinglifebythera Facebook: facebook.com/takinglifebytheraines/ 📲 Follow Brandi: Instagram: instagram.com/brandirainesbeauty/ TikTok: tiktok.com/brandirainesbeauty Facebook: facebook.com/followbrandiraines/ About me and my links: msha.ke/brandirainesbeauty_ Shop my Komigo storefront: komigo.me/brandi 🎧 Listen on Spotify and Apple Podcasts: takinglifebytheraines.com #takinglifebytheraines #brandiraines #socialanxiety #peoplepleaser #vulnerability #christianwomen #overthinking #authenticrelationships #womenempowerment #millennialmom 0:00 Do you replay every social situation after it ends? 1:52 The truth: you were never meant to be perfectly experienced by everyone 2:29 You are supposed to be fully and truly known, not perfectly received 2:53 God knows every quirk, every sin, every part of your heart 3:28 The safe relationships where you can actually be yourself 4:19 The weight we carry of wanting everyone to experience a perfect version of us 5:04 I go too deep with strangers at the cash register and I am not sorry 5:24 It is hard not to offend people in today's world no matter which side you are on 6:01 If you keep trying not to offend anyone you will never fully live 6:47 My trauma made me passionate and my passion sometimes comes off harsh 7:27 I coach hard because I care 8:06 People pleasing in my industry 8:28 When you show up raw and real you draw a line in the sand and people pick sides 9:08 You are not meant to be everybody's cup of tea 9:45 Being fully known by God is your superpower 10:05 The real fear of rejection 11:07 Every interaction is a two-way learning street 11:35 You can change your approach without changing who you are 12:21 Being yourself online vs. in person 13:12 The Facebook Live that almost made Brandi completely crash out 13:48 I never rewatch my own content and here is why 14:41 The in-person moment you cannot delete 15:27 This anxiety is not one God designed us to carry 15:54 The advice Casey gave our daughter that stopped me cold 17:31 The pre-teen era is coming 17:48 When you focus on getting to know them you stop performing for them 18:35 Are you preparing your next sentence instead of actually listening? 18:54 Stop asking what do they think of me and start asking what do I think of them 19:35 Being known requires vulnerability 35:24 The stranger at the Christmas party who said keep being you and what that moment unlocked 35:43 There are people out there who like you for exactly who you actually are 36:17 Being liked vs. being known 36:42 Childhood trauma 37:09 Vulnerability sometimes still feels like an attack 37:33 The enemy fights hardest when you are right on the edge of real connection 38:35 This is not a license to be rude: the line you still have to hold 39:55 Self-awareness vs. self-surveillance 40:30 Performing and pretending is not what God is calling you to 41:00 Every person deserves deep, genuine, meaningful connection with their people 41:30 You are perfectly imperfect, fully known by God, and that is your superpower Powered by...
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