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You’re 30+ and Still Don’t Have It Together? Feat. C. Beauvil

You’re 30+ and Still Don’t Have It Together? Feat. C. Beauvil

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Quarter-life crisis. Feeling behind. Comparison. Social media. Purpose. Faith. Mental health. Career pressure. Relationships. Reinvention. The Quarter Life Crisis is officially back. After first exploring the uncertainty of your late 20s in 2022, Izzy Baker brings the series back four years later for Quarter Life Crisis 2, the midseason series of Season 10 of PSA: The Mental Health Podcast. And this time, the questions are different because life is different. The youngest millennials are now entering their 30s, and suddenly the pressure isn’t just about figuring life out. It’s wondering whether you should have figured it out already. For Track 1, Izzy sits down with Christopher Beauvil, better known as Coach Beau and New York’s Finest, for a brutally relatable conversation built around one message: you are not behind. Coach Beau currently works as a life coach and mentor with Boys II Men, a nonprofit organization in Indianapolis focused on helping young boys develop accountability, life skills, mentorship, and the tools they need as they grow into men. With a background that also includes criminal justice, military service, motivational speaking, and mentoring, Beau brings the perspective of a 38-year-old man who openly admits that life did not unfold exactly how his 25-year-old self imagined it would. Izzy gets personal about that feeling too. At 32, he thought he’d be further ahead. He thought YouTube would be generating major income. He thought marriage would have happened. He thought entrepreneurship would mean never considering another job again. Instead, after three years away from traditional employment, he recently returned to education as a part-time teacher while continuing to build his businesses. What initially felt like it might represent going backward began to look more like an arrow being pulled backward before being launched forward. That opens the door to a much bigger conversation about the timelines we create for ourselves. By 25, you thought you’d have the career. By 30, you thought you’d be married. By 32, you thought you’d have the house, kids, money, business, body, peace, and purpose. Then you open social media and somebody your age appears to have everything you thought you were supposed to have—and suddenly a life you were grateful for five minutes ago doesn’t feel like enough. Coach Beau challenges that mindset by admitting that some of his own delays weren’t simply bad luck. Looking back, he believes ignoring discernment, avoiding therapy, failing to understand his triggers, and making certain choices created unnecessary detours. He makes an important distinction between the detours life gives you and the ones you create yourself. Sometimes the relationship you knew wasn’t right, the money you knew you shouldn’t spend, the unhealthy job you refused to leave, or the direction you knew God was telling you not to take can cost you years. Accountability means being mature enough to admit when the setback wasn’t somebody else’s fault. The conversation gets even deeper when Beau argues that social media has given us access to lives we were never supposed to constantly see. Within seconds, your phone can take you from celebrating somebody’s newborn baby, to sexual content, to tragedy, to somebody else’s engagement, vacation, new house, body transformation, or career announcement. Then we wonder why our emotions are exhausted and why everybody else’s progress suddenly feels like evidence that we’re failing. Beau also opens up about stepping away from motivational speaking and much of his public life to work on himself. After recognizing that he was operating from an anxious place, he underwent deep therapy to help reset his nervous system, withdrew from people and environments that weren’t helping him heal, and confronted areas where his public image didn’t always match what was happening privately. His message is simple: eventually, you have to stop performing and have an honest conversation with yourself. This first track of Quarter Life Crisis 2 is for the person watching friends get married while you’re still single, watching somebody buy a house while you’re rebuilding financially, seeing somebody else’s career take off while yours feels stagnant, wondering whether changing directions means you failed, or secretly asking God why everybody else’s life seems to be happening faster than yours. Maybe you’re not late. Maybe you’re not failing. Maybe the detour isn’t the destination. And maybe being somewhere different than where your 25-year-old self imagined doesn’t mean you’re behind. You’re not behind. You’re still becoming. Listen. Reflect. And ask yourself: Are you actually behind in life—or have you been measuring your life against somebody else’s timeline?Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/p-s-a-the-mental-health-podcast--5520511/support.TrustBuilder Package🎯 Level up your ...
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