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YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, MEd

YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, MEd

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 Jodi Carlton is a leading world expert in mixed neurotype relationship dynamics and communication. Her personal, but direct, style of educating and coaching is a favorite of both neurodivergent and neurotypical partners around the globe. Her unique blend of personal experience in her own neurodiverse relationships, as well as her professional expertise, positions her to understand both autistic and non-autistic individuals. She bridges the communication gap for couples with a blame-free mind-set, and a goal of clarity.Jodi Carlton, MEd, LLC Copyright 2023 All rights reserved. 人間関係 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Neurodiverse Marriage Challenges: Faith, Conflict & Growth Mindset | Part 2 with Stephanie & Dan

    Neurodiverse Marriage Challenges: Faith, Conflict & Growth Mindset | Part 2 with Stephanie & Dan
    2025/05/28
    What keeps neurodiverse marriages from falling apart—and what helps them grow stronger over time? In Part 2 of this honest and hope-filled conversation, Stephanie & Dan Holmes return to share deeper insights on what makes neurodiverse relationships work—and what often makes them break down. From emotional triggers to unspoken resentments, rigid belief systems to religious conditioning, they dive into the patterns that can quietly erode a relationship—and how curiosity, boundaries, and a growth mindset can bring real repair. 💬 You’ll hear real-life insights about: Navigating conflict when there’s no “right” answerReframing triggers and rewriting your relationship narrativeThe impact of faith and religious systems on neurodiverse couplesIdentifying deal-breakers: when unintentional harm becomes a patternWhy being teachable is non-negotiableEmbracing differences instead of fighting themHow long-term growth happens in stages—and why you’re never “done” This is a must-watch/must-listen for anyone wondering how to stay connected when perspectives clash, progress feels slow, or your relationship feels stuck in a loop. 00:00 – Welcome to Season Five 00:57 – Introducing Dan and Stephanie Holmes 01:24 – Navigating Triggers & Setting Boundaries That Work 03:50 – How Conflict Shows Up in Neurodiverse Relationships 08:32 – Faith & Friction: When Religion Complicates Your Marriage 18:10 – Reconstructing Faith & Rethinking Marriage Roles 20:26 – Deal Breakers That Derail Neurodiverse Relationships 24:00 – Why Being Teachable Matters More Than Being Right 27:41 – About the Book: Research, Real Stories & Practical Help 29:07 – What the Research Reveals About ND Couples 29:57 – Unintentional Abuse: Where the Line Gets Crossed 33:48 – Embracing Differences Instead of Fighting Them 35:05 – Why Growth Mindset Is Non-Negotiable in ND Marriage 36:56 – Final Thoughts: Learning, Changing & Staying Curious 37:37 – Wrap-Up + Where to Learn More ✨ About Stephanie & Dan Holmes: Rev. Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes, Ed.D, MA, BCCC is a Certified Autism Specialist, neurodiverse marriage therapist, ordained minister, and former licensed professional counselor. When her daughter was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, Stephanie’s professional focus shifted to serving neurodiverse families and couples. She is the founder of Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family and co-founder (with Dan) of The International Association of NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage. She co-hosts the NeuroDiverse Christian Couples podcast and coaches couples worldwide. Rev. Dan Holmes, MCS is a seasoned systems architect, ordained minister, and Master Life Coach who specializes in coaching neurodivergent men. He blends technical expertise with coaching and ministry. Dan received his autism diagnosis later in life in 2019, which deeply informs his perspective and work. 📚 Explore Stephanie’s and Dan’s books: “Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage, Autism and Faith” https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/uniquely-us-stephanie-c-holmes/1146104450?ean=9781636985435 “Embracing the Autism Spectrum: Finding Hope & Joy Navigating the NeuroDiverse Family Journey” https://www.holmesasr.com/embracing-the-autism-spectrum 🎧 Listen to the NeuroDiverse Christian Couples podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/neurodiverse-christian-couples--4992356 📩 Connect with Stephanie: dr.stephanie@holmesASR.com 📩 Connect with Dan: dan@holmesASR.com 👉 Want to hear more real stories and strategies? Watch the rest of Season 5: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSyXJdjUav7qLvkJFwE-KcG73-Fzuzu29 👩‍💼 About Your Host: Jodi Carlton, MEd Jodi Carlton is a neurodiverse relationship coach with over 20 years of experience as a therapist, coach, author, and educator. She’s also neurodivergent herself—diagnosed with ADHD as an adult—and brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her work. After 19 years in a marriage with an autistic partner and raising neurodivergent children, Jodi developed a deeply personal understanding of what it takes for relationships like yours to work—and the pitfalls that can derail them. She now coaches individuals, couples, and families around the world using a solution-focused approach that delivers real clarity and lasting change. 👉 Explore more episodes, free resources, quizzes, and courses: https://jodicarlton.com 🔔 Don’t Forget to Like, Subscribe & Share! Your support helps us reach more people navigating life in neurodiverse relationships.
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  • Can an Autistic + Neurotypical Marriage Thrive? Stephanie & Dan Share How (Part 1)

    Can an Autistic + Neurotypical Marriage Thrive? Stephanie & Dan Share How (Part 1)
    2025/05/14
    Can a neurodiverse marriage actually work when communication constantly breaks down? If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner are speaking two different languages—especially in an autism or ADHD relationship—this episode is for you. Stephanie & Dan Holmes share how they redefined their roles at home, and used coaching to rebuild connection, reduce resentment, and finally feel like a team again. 💬 You’ll hear real-life insights about: Why they left using a therapy model and started coaching instead The power of building individual skills before focusing on teamwork as a couple How Dan taking over cooking reduced Stephanie’s mental load Bridging different emotional processing styles Learning to “sit with each other’s emotions” instead of fixing them Why sometimes you need to “put it in the unsolved mystery file” This episode is part of Season 5 of the YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship Podcast, exploring the question: “Can neurodiverse relationships work?” The answer? Yes—with the right tools, support, and a willingness to learn what actually works for YOU as a couple. Stephanie and Dan open up about what it really takes to navigate marriage as a neurodiverse couple—and how their faith, coaching, and intentional communication helped them overcome communication breakdowns and challenges related to autism and ADHD. 00:00 – Can Neurodiverse Relationships Really Work? 01:44 – Meet Stephanie & Dan Holmes 03:39 – Why Coaching Helped When Therapy Didn’t 08:03 – What We Mean by Neurodiverse: ADHD, Autism & More 11:05 – Rethinking Gender Roles: A System That Worked for Them 13:20 – The Mental Load & How Cooking Changed Everything 17:57 – “I Don’t Need You to Fix It—I Need You to Be Irrational With Me” 20:00 – Emotions as Data: Why Logic Isn’t Always the Answer 22:08 – The “Delta” Fight: How Literal vs. Emotional Thinking Clashes 25:14 – The Hospital Story: Why Being Present Mattered Most 32:27 – Revisiting Old Conflicts Without Re-Traumatizing 37:52 – What They’ve Learned & What’s Coming in Part 2 ✨ About Stephanie & Dan Holmes: Rev. Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes, Ed.D, MA, BCCC is a Certified Autism Specialist, neurodiverse marriage therapist, ordained minister, and former licensed professional counselor. When their daughter was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome, Stephanie’s professional focus shifted to serving neurodiverse families and couples. Stephanie is the founder of Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family and co-founder (with Dan) of The International Association of NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage. She co-hosts the NeuroDiverse Christian Couples podcast and coaches couples around the world navigating the complexities of faith and neurodiversity in marriage. Rev. Dan Holmes, MCS is a seasoned systems architect, ordained minister, and Master Life Coach who specializes in working with neurodivergent men. Dan blends technical expertise with coaching and ministry experience. He received his autism diagnosis later in life in 2019, which deeply informs his work and perspective. 📚 Explore Stephanie’s and Dan’s books: “Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage, Autism and Faith” https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/uniquely-us-stephanie-c-holmes/1146104450?ean=9781636985435 “Embracing the Autism Spectrum: Finding Hope & Joy Navigating the NeuroDiverse Family Journey” https://www.holmesasr.com/embracing-the-autism-spectrum 🎧 Listen to the NeuroDiverse Christian Couples podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/neurodiverse-christian-couples--4992356 📩 Connect with Stephanie: dr.stephanie@holmesASR.com 📩 Connect with Dan: dan@holmesASR.com 💬 NEW! Try the NeuroTranslator App - Save 30% with promo code JODI. 🔗 https://www.neurotranslator.ai #neurodiverserelationships #challengesofautism #ADHD #communicationbreakdowns #genderroles #neurodiversemarriage #relationshipcoaching — 👩‍💼 About Your Host: Jodi Carlton, MEd Jodi Carlton is a neurodiverse relationship coach with over 20 years of experience as a therapist, coach, author, and educator. She’s also neurodivergent herself—diagnosed with ADHD as an adult—and brings both professional expertise and personal experience to her work. After 19 years in a marriage with an autistic partner, raising neurodivergent children, and discovering that nearly her entire extended family is neurodiverse, Jodi developed a deeply personal understanding of what it takes for relationships like yours to work - and she understands the devastating pitfalls that threaten neurodiverse couples. She now coaches individuals, couples, and families around the world using a solution-focused approach that delivers real clarity and lasting change. 🎧 Explore more episodes, free resources, quizzes, and courses at: 👉 https://jodicarlton.com 🔔 Don’t Forget to Like, Subscribe & Share! Your support helps us reach more people ...
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  • Neurodiverse Marriage, Burnout & Healing with Lauren & Luke | ADHD, RSD & Attachment (Part 2)

    Neurodiverse Marriage, Burnout & Healing with Lauren & Luke | ADHD, RSD & Attachment (Part 2)
    2025/04/30

    In this powerful Part 2 episode of Your Neurodiverse Relationship Podcast (Season 5), neurodiverse relationship expert Jodi Carlton continues her candid conversation with married couple Luke and Lauren Smallcomb.

    Together, they open up about: - Navigating ADHD and demand avoidance in marriage - Overcoming anxious and avoidant attachment styles - What happens when one partner is an overfunctioner - Burnout, masking, and learning to communicate better - The difference between acceptance and accommodation - Red flags vs. recoverable challenges in neurodiverse relationships.

    👉 Here's Part 1 in case you missed it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVdE9-xbzKI

    🔹 Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction to Season Five

    00:57 – Welcome to Part 2 with Luke & Lauren

    01:11 – Challenges and Realizations in Marriage

    01:42 – Understanding ADHD and Attachment Styles

    03:54 – The Role of Communication

    06:55 – Personality Differences and the Enneagram

    11:41 – Shifting Roles and Responsibilities

    14:47 – Facing Trauma Together

    18:36 – Balancing Support and Independence

    22:50 – Navigating Demand Avoidance in Relationships

    24:07 – Understanding Overfunctioning and Burnout

    26:27 – Addressing Imbalance in Effort and Insight

    28:09 – Recognizing Abusive Patterns and Seeking Help

    32:02 – The Importance of Acceptance and Safety

    37:39 – Final Thoughts and Relationship Advice

    44:42 – Conclusion and Neurodiversity Resources

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    👩‍💼 Hi, I'm #JodiCarlton !! I am a seasoned professional with 20+ years of experience as a therapist and relationship coach specializing in neurodiverse relationships.

    I AM NEURODIVERGENT: I discovered as an adult that I am #ADHD, and I was married to an autistic man for 19 years. I also had other neurodiverse romantic relationships and have an autistic daughter and an ADHD son. Through the years, I have realized that my entire extended family is neurodivergent. My relationships with neurodiverse family and friends have been my personal training ground for understanding and helping partners and couples in their own relationships.

    Below are some of the neurodivergent resources I offer:

    💬 TRY THE NEW NEUROTRANSLATOR APP! A client once told me "I need JodiGPT." Well, this is as close as you're gonna get. This app provides a detailed explanation of each neurotype's expectations and perspectives on any situation you're in. Use it in your relationships to minimize conflict and understand each other better! Developed by Michael Daniel who is autistic and wanted help in his own neurodiverse marriage.

    💻 QUIZZES: https://jodicarlton.com/take-a-quiz/ Take free quizzes about neurodivergence, autism, toxic relationship dynamics, and learn which resources will benefit you the most.

    🤩 CONSULTATIONS/COACHING: https://jodicarlton.com/private-coaching/ I coach individuals, couples, and families worldwide using a solution-focused approach that results in life-altering answers and real change.

    🎙 PODCAST: https://jodicarlton.com/podcast Listen to the "YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship" podcast. It's been downloaded in over 70 countries on your favorite podcast platform . You can also watch it here on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JodiCarlton/podcasts

    💁‍♀️ COURSES: https://jodicarlton.com/courses Work at your own pace in my self-study courses. Gain access to the world's first communication model that facilitates life-altering clarity and change. Discover if your partner or relationship is toxic and unsafe.

    📖 BLOG: https://jodicarlton.com/blog Browse through articles about executive functioning, masking, narcissism, communication, and so much more. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insights on neurodiversity! Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insights on #neurodiversity!

    📱 Connect with me: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jodicarlton

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