A few weeks ago, Tamar sat in a packed Austin room listening to Esther Hicks share a line that changes everything:
You don’t get what you want. You get what you expect.

That truth cracked open the real reason so many high-earning women stay busy instead of wealthy: our attention gets pulled everywhere except toward the money that wants to grow.

In this episode of Women Growing Wealth, Tamar unpacks how attention works as a financial asset — not in a manifesting way, but in the grounded, repeatable way that builds long-term freedom. She explores why women give their wealth the leftovers, how emotional steadiness amplifies every decision, and how small weekly rituals create the conditions for real expansion.

You’ll also hear a powerful section on infrastructure — the part most women skip. Because wealth doesn’t grow inside chaos; it grows inside containers built to hold it. Tamar walks you through buckets, structure, liquidity, and the exact baseline every woman needs before she can compound anything.

This episode weaves Esther Hicks’ wisdom with real-world wealth strategy, inviting you to shift how you think, feel, and lead your financial life.

In this episode, you’ll learn

• Why your attention determines your financial trajectory
• How emotional steadiness leads to better money decisions
• What Esther Hicks’ teachings look like in real-life wealth strategy
• The weekly money ritual that creates deeper clarity
• How to redirect your mind from fear toward possibility
• Why internal safety amplifies wealth
• The infrastructure wealthy women build before they compound anything

This conversation is an invitation to stop giving your wealth the leftovers — and start giving it the leadership that builds financial freedom.

Ready to Build Your Wealth Strategy?

Get your Enough Number Calculator and full step-by-step workbook:
GetYourEnoughNumber.com

Connect with Tamar Hermes

Instagram: @tamarhermes
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamar-hermes-53b9114a/
Website: WomenGrowingWealth.com
Book: The Millionairess Mentality

Listen in and take notes. These mindset shifts become the foundation for intentional and sustainable wealth.

Most women are taught that building wealth requires safety, certainty, and a perfect plan. Kristin Stampini built hers by doing the opposite. She rebuilt her entire life at 40 years old after bankruptcy, a repossessed car, and starting over in a 600 square foot apartment.

In this episode of Women Growing Wealth, Tamar sits down with entrepreneur, investor, and founder of Stamp Staff Kristin Stampini, a woman who transformed rock bottom into an eight figure empire using discipline, resilience, and a willingness to do whatever it took.

Kristin shares how she built multiple businesses, scaled her real estate team, and created financial freedom through private money lending, partnerships, and skill stacking. Her story is a masterclass in rebuilding identity, trusting yourself through hard seasons, and taking bold action even when the circumstances are not ideal.

This conversation blends strategic insight with grounded mindset work. You will learn how to rise from setbacks, build teams that support growth, and create wealth from a place of courage instead of fear.

In This Episode You’ll Learn

• How Kristin rebuilt her life from bankruptcy to beyond eight figures
• The discipline and mindset that helped her break out of survival mode
• Why systems, consistency, and daily habits matter more than motivation
• How she built and scaled her real estate business from scratch
• What she looks for when lending private money and how she manages risk
• Why women must understand their numbers, their patterns, and their identity
• How to leverage partnerships and talent to grow faster
• Why clarity around lifestyle and freedom goals drives every wealth decision
• How Kristin designs a life she does not need to escape from

Kristin’s journey is proof that it is never too late to start and always the right time to decide you deserve more.

About Kristin Stampini

Kristin Stampini is an entrepreneur, investor, team leader, and founder of Stamp Staff. After hitting financial rock bottom at 40, she rebuilt her life through real estate, private money lending, running a top performing team, and building businesses centered on discipline and service. Today she runs an eight figure empire while helping others rise through skill development, systems, and relentless commitment.

Ready to Build Your Own Wealth Strategy

Start with the first step and get a baseline for how much money you really need to be financially free. Download the free Enough Number Calculator and Workbook.
👉 GetYourEnoughNumber.com

Connect with Kristin Stampini

Instagram: @kristin_stampini
Website: https://stampstaff.com

Connect with Tamar Hermes

Instagram: @tamarhermes
LinkedIn: Tamar Hermes
Website: WomenGrowingWealth.com
Book: The Millionairess Mentality

Most women are taught that wealth comes from working harder. Real freedom comes from systems, structure, and the ability to leverage other people’s expertise in a way that supports your vision.

In this episode of Women Growing Wealth, Tamar sits down with attorney, investor, and bestselling author Bethany LaFlam. Bethany helps ambitious entrepreneurs scale wealth and freedom through her signature framework, Other Peoples Everything, also called OPE.

After nearly breaking under the pressure of corporate law, Bethany restructured her entire approach by learning to rely on aligned partnerships and systems that create exponential results. Today she leads global communities of entrepreneurs who are scaling with intention and designing lives they actually enjoy.

This conversation blends strategic clarity with grounded mindset work. You will learn how to stay in your lane, hire and trust the right people, and build systems that let you grow by doing less.

In This Episode You’ll Learn

• What OPE, Other Peoples Everything, really means and how to use it to scale
• How to identify your lane and operate from your strengths
• Why women struggle with letting go of control and how to shift the pattern
• The systems every business owner and investor needs to grow sustainably
• How to vet, hire, and trust the right people in your wealth strategy
• The mindset traps that create burnout and how to avoid them
• How Bethany develops boutique hotels internationally through aligned partnerships
• Why structure and clarity are the real foundations of freedom
• How people, systems, and capital create more space for creativity and impact

This episode is a masterclass in thinking strategically, operating intentionally, and building wealth with clarity.

About Bethany LaFlam

Bethany LaFlam is an attorney, real estate investor, bestselling author, and business owner known for helping entrepreneurs scale their wealth and freedom without burnout. After rising through corporate law and nearly breaking under the intensity, she transformed her entire approach by leveraging Other Peoples Everything, OPE.

Her framework became the foundation of her bestselling book The Power of OPE and her global work as founder of the Conscious Capital Collective and co-founder of RÊVE Luxury Fund. Bethany is recognized for her bold voice, sharp clarity, and her ability to help leaders redesign their lives with intention, momentum, and ease.

Ready to Build Your Own Wealth Strategy

Start with the first step and get a baseline for how much money you really need to be financially free. Download the free Enough Number Calculator and Workbook

👉 GetYourEnoughNumber.com

Connect with Bethany LaFlam

Instagram: @bethany_laflam
TikTok: @thebethanylaflam

Connect with Tamar Hermes

Instagram: @tamarhermes
LinkedIn: Tamar Hermes
Website: WomenGrowingWealth.com
Book: The Millionairess Mentality

🎧 Listen in and take notes. These are the systems that turn success into freedom.

What does it really take for women to build true financial freedom without burning out or disconnecting from who they are

In this special episode of Women Growing Wealth, Tamar shares a powerful conversation originally recorded for WOMAN with Alexi Panos, where Tamar was the featured guest.

Together, Tamar and bestselling author and global speaker Alexi Panos explore the emotional, energetic, and identity-level foundations of wealth. This is a deep look into money, nervous system capacity, and the patterns that keep women stuck even when they are earning more than ever.

They unpack why high-achieving women still experience fear, scarcity, pressure, or guilt around money and how to shift into a relationship with wealth that feels grounded, safe, and aligned.

This is not about pushing harder or doing more. It is about expanding who you are so money can flow with more ease, clarity, and confidence.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn

• Why most women fear losing money even when they make more than ever
• The Enough Number every woman needs to know to stop chasing endless more
• How to shift from working for money to letting money work for you
• The truth about good debt, investing, and why women are still behind men in wealth-building
• How to expand your nervous system capacity to hold, grow, and circulate abundance
• The identity shifts that create lasting financial freedom

This is a feminine and grounded reclamation of wealth as safety, freedom, and personal power.

Ready to Build Your Own Wealth Strategy

Start with clarity. Download the free Enough Number Calculator and Workbook to learn exactly how much you need to be financially free and how to build a grounded plan to get there.
👉 GetYourEnoughNumber.com

Connect with Tamar

Instagram: @tamarhermes
LinkedIn: Tamar Hermes
Website: WomenGrowingWealth.com
Book: The Millionairess Mentality

Connect with Alexi Panos

Website: https://www.thebridgemethod.org/
Instagram: @alexipanos

Alexi’s Podcast ➡️ https://open.spotify.com/show/6AdessNXwXn7HGKE2OvP1D?si=ef42e37c6bb14303

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and shift your relationship with money from fear to flow.

Dr. Rachel Gainsbrugh didn’t escape burnout, she built her way out of it.

Born in Haiti and raised in Miami, she earned her doctorate in pharmacy, but with it came over $500,000 in student loan debt and years of 80-hour workweeks. It wasn’t until she discovered short-term rentals that everything changed.

Rachel turned two luxury short-term rentals into a portfolio that replaced her full-time income, retired her husband at 46, and allowed her to step away from pharmacy at 41. Her method? Focus on fewer properties, higher profits, and smart systems that create freedom instead of more work.

Now, through her company Short Term Gems, Rachel is helping thousands of professionals especially women in healthcare to build financial independence through luxury within reach real estate investing. Her story is proof that you don’t need a hundred properties to change your life, you need strategy, confidence, and the courage to start.

In this episode, we cover:

• How Rachel replaced her six-figure W2 income with just two properties
• The tax advantages of short-term rentals (and how to offset W2 income legally)
• How to find profitable rental markets using Rachel’s “CROW” method
• The mindset shift from scarcity to strategic abundance
• Why luxury isn’t about price, it’s about experience and impact
• How to use AI and automation to scale your portfolio with ease

🎁 Free Gift from Rachel:
Get her Top 75 Cities for Short-Term Rental Profitability at 75Gems.com

Connect with Rachel Gainsbrugh
Website: shorttermgems.com
Speaking: shorttermgems.com/speaking
Facebook: facebook.com/shorttermgems
Instagram: @drrachelgainsbrugh
LinkedIn: Dr. Rachel Gainsbrugh
TikTok: @luxury_str_doctor
YouTube: The Luxury STR Doctor Show
Podcast: Short Term Gems Podcast

Upcoming Event:
Join Rachel’s in-person event The Beginner’s Blueprint this October — a live experience for professionals ready to start their own profitable short-term rental business.
👉 shorttermgems.com/the-beginners-blueprint

Ready to Build Your Own Real Estate Wealth Strategy?

Real estate is one of the most powerful ways to build wealth and create freedom — but it starts with knowing your numbers.

Use Tamar’s free calculator and comprehensive workbook to find your financial freedom number and design your personalized wealth strategy.

📘 GetYourEnoughNumber.com

Connect with Tamar Hermes

Instagram: @tamarhermes
LinkedIn: Tamar Hermes
Email: tamar@womengrowingwealth.com

Most women I meet are earning six and seven figures. They are running successful businesses, managing teams, or leading their industries, but still sending 30% or more straight to the IRS.

This episode will change that.

In this episode I break down three powerful, legal tax strategies wealthy women use to keep more of what they make and how you can start implementing them before the end of the year.

This isn’t about loopholes or shady accounting. It’s about learning to play by the same rules that the wealthy have been using for decades and understanding how the tax code is actually designed to reward you for contributing to the economy.

Every dollar you save is a dollar you can invest, compound, and use to build the freedom you deserve.

What You’ll Learn

✅ The first step to structure your business correctly for maximum savings
✅ How an S Corp can save you tens of thousands in self-employment tax
✅ The truth about real estate depreciation and why it’s a “double-duty” wealth builder
✅ How to use timing to your advantage and reduce your taxable income before December 31
✅ Why planning proactively (not reactively) changes everything
✅ The difference between earners and wealth builders — and how to become the latter

Key Takeaways

• The tax code isn’t designed to punish you, it’s a roadmap for rewards.
• An S Corp structure can immediately unlock major savings.
• Real estate and strategic assets create both income and deductions.
• The wealthy plan their tax strategies all year long, not just in April.
• Hope is not a tax strategy. Intentional action is.

Ready to Build Your Own Real Estate Wealth Strategy?
Wealth starts with knowing your numbers and aligning your investments with purpose.
Before you dive in, start with your baseline, knowing how much money you need and want to be financially free and see how you can adjust the lever of inflation with smart investments and tax strategy.
My free calculator is a great place to start, and it includes a comprehensive step-by-step workbook to help you calculate your freedom number and plan your strategy with clarity.

My free calculator is a great place to start:
👉 GetYourEnoughNumber.com

Work With Me

If you’re a financially successful woman earning $200K+ and you’re ready to align your investments, taxes, and Enough Number strategy, join the Women Growing Wealth mentorship.

Book your private call: callwithtamar.com

📲 Connect

• Instagram: @tamarhermes
• LinkedIn: Tamar Hermes

Email: tamar@womengrowingwealth.com

What if waiting for the “perfect” time to invest is actually the most expensive mistake you’ll ever make?

In this episode of Women Growing Wealth, Tamar Hermes sits down with real-estate legend Kathy Fettke, co-CEO of Real Wealth, author of Retire Rich with Rentals, and host of The Real Wealth Show and Real Estate News for Investors.

With more than 22 years of experience helping thousands of investors grow their portfolios, Kathy breaks down what keeps women stuck on the sidelines and how to start investing with confidence, even in today’s market. She shares exactly how leverage, time, and strategy build lasting freedom. It’s not an overnight success story, just proven steps that work.

What You’ll Learn

✅ Why waiting to invest costs you more than getting started early
✅ How leverage, not luck, accelerates wealth building
✅ The difference between good debt and bad debt (and how to use both wisely)
✅ What “turnkey” investing really means and why it simplifies the process
✅ How to start building a portfolio even if you’re busy or afraid of risk
✅ Why owning real estate is one of the most powerful paths to freedom

Key Takeaways

• You don’t have to time the market perfectly, you just have to get in.
• Real estate builds wealth through time, leverage, and consistency.
• Security comes from education and reserves, not fear.
• Every property is a “golden goose” building wealth while you live your life.
• The cost of waiting is greater than the cost of starting small.

Resources Mentioned

• RealWealth.com
• Retire Rich with Rentals by Kathy Fettke
• The Real Wealth Show Podcast and Real Estate News for Investors
• GetYourEnoughNumber.com — Free calculator to find your financial freedom number

📲 Connect with Tamar

Instagram: @tamarhermes
LinkedIn: Tamar Hermes
Email: tamar@womengrowingwealth.com

Connect with Kathy Fettke

Website: RealWealth.com
Instagram: @kathyfettke

Podcast: The Real Wealth Show and Real Estate News for Investors
Book: Retire Rich with Rentals

What does it really take to go from making money to mastering it?
In this episode of the Women Growing Wealth Podcast, Tamar Hermes sits down with Jane Mukami — born and raised in Nairobi, Kenya, and now the founder of a seven-figure fitness and nutrition business.

Jane had everything she thought defined success: income, impact, and independence. But her money wasn’t working for her — she was overpaying in taxes, letting cash sit idle, and still feeling trapped.

That’s when she learned how to take control of her finances, calculate her Enough Number, and create true financial freedom and mastery — with strategy, mentorship, and clarity.

If you’ve ever wondered how to make your money work as hard as you do, this episode gives you the exact steps to get there.

🎯 What You’ll Learn

• How to turn discipline into wealth and freedom
• The moment Jane realized income isn’t the same as independence
• The smart money and tax strategies that changed her future
• How mentorship accelerates results and builds clarity
• How to calculate your Enough Number and use it to make powerful decisions

🔥 Key Moments

• 00:02:15 – Jane’s journey from Nairobi, Kenya, to seven-figure entrepreneur
• 00:07:40 – The “buy a car” moment that changed her perspective on taxes
• 00:16:10 – How mentorship and strategy collapsed her freedom timeline
• 00:25:30 – The mindset shift from saving to investing
• 00:33:00 – What financial mastery really looks like once you arrive

Most women know how to make money — but few are taught how to master it.
Jane’s story is proof that financial freedom isn’t about working harder or earning more; it’s about using strategy, mentorship, and intention to build a life you love.

Takeaway

You don’t need to overhaul your life to create freedom — you just need a plan that aligns your money with your goals.
Learn from Jane’s journey, take the steps, and get to financial freedom and mastery the Women’s Way.

• Find Your Enough Number to Become Financially Free: Download a free workbook and caluclator: GetYourEnoughNumber.com
• Join the Movement: WomenGrowingWealth.com

💬 Connect with Jane Mukami

Website: www.fitkenyangirl.com
Instagram: @fitkenyangirl
Facebook: Jane Mukami Fitness
LinkedIn: Jane Mukami