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Why do you keep checking his socials even when you know it only gives you temporary relief?

Maybe you are looking for proof that he still wants you. Or maybe you already expect rejection, replacement, or another woman, and you are checking to see if the thing you fear has happened yet.

In this episode, Kim Velez explores why checking his Instagram, following list, likes, or stories can become a cycle of fear, reassurance-seeking, and temporary relief.

You’ll learn how to:

• identify what you are actually afraid of
• understand the belief underneath the urge to check
• bring that fear honestly to God
• calm your body before reacting
• redirect your mind back into agreement with God’s truth
• practice feeling loved, enough, and secure without needing proof from him
• tell the difference between an old wound being activated and a real relationship problem that requires discernment

The goal is not simply to stop checking his socials.

It is to become the woman who no longer needs his behavior to tell her whether she is enough.

When the urge hits, pause and ask:

What am I afraid is true right now?

Then bring that belief to God, let your body settle, and practice returning to truth without needing information from him to make the fear go away.