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Why are you not getting the commitment, consistency, honesty, and healthy relationship you say you want?

Sometimes the answer is not simply finding a different man. Your repeated relationship patterns can reveal deeper beliefs about what you deserve, what love requires from you, and what you have learned to accept as normal.

In this episode, Kim Velez explores why you can consciously desire healthy love while continuing to choose relationships that give you less.

You’ll learn the important difference between:

• being triggered by a healthy, consistent man because receiving good love feels unfamiliar
• and making excuses for a man who repeatedly shows you inconsistency, unreliability, lack of integrity, or unwillingness to move the relationship forward

We also look at how Romans 12:2 and 2 Corinthians 10:5 apply to renewing your mind, taking your thoughts captive, and partnering with God to change the beliefs influencing what you tolerate and choose in love.

The question is not only:

“Why am I not getting what I want?”

It is also:

“God, what do my choices reveal about what I actually believe I can have?”

When what you believe you are worthy of receiving changes, what you are willing to call love changes too.