Show Notes / Key Topics:

• Why flirting fades after the honeymoon phase and why couples "forget how to flirt"

• The link between stress/survival mode and loss of playfulness

• Research: Frisbee & Booth (2012) study on flirting, satisfaction, and commitment in 164 couples

• The Gottman Institute's concept of "bids for connection" and marriage outcome predictions

• Debunking the myth that flirting only happens at the start of a relationship

• How to identify your personal flirting style (touch, humor, sensual, subtle/polite)

• Navigating misalignment when one partner is more flirtatious than the other

• Why flirting is a bridge between "safety" and "play" (SPARK framework)

• Practical homework: how to start flirting again this week, without pressure or expectation

• The difference between spontaneous flirting (daily life) and structured relationship check-ins

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