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Is healthy love boring? And why do we keep romanticizing the very relationships that leave us emotionally wrecked?

We thought Season 1 was over, but apparently we had a few more things to say!

This week on We're Doing It!, Sofia and Albert ask why Hollywood keeps giving us strong, independent female characters who make terrible romantic decisions.

From Netflix's Mal de Amores to My Brilliant Career, we're talking about the fine line between female empowerment and self-sabotage, why we keep glorifying toxic relationships, and whether choosing a safe, supportive partner has somehow become the least romantic thing a woman can do.

Then we head over to Reddit, where one woman wonders why her first healthy relationship feels so boring compared to her chaotic past, and a self-proclaimed "nice guy" can't understand why a woman didn't choose him. Spoiler alert: being a nice guy doesn't mean anyone owes you a relationship.

Along the way, we get personal about marriage, trauma, the difference between passion and stability, and what 12 years together have taught us about love beyond the butterflies.

Can love be both safe and passionate? Is peace really boring, or have we just gotten too comfortable with chaos?

It's an honest, occasionally uncomfortable, and very We're Doing It! conversation about relationships, feminism, marriage, and learning that sometimes the most romantic thing in the world is simply having someone you can count on.

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🎙️ ABOUT THE SHOW We’re Doing It is a weekly, lighthearted look at the beautiful chaos of long-term marriage, parenting, and navigating life together. Hosted by Sofia (spunky wife) and Albert (the old soul), we’re here to read Reddit stories, air our grievances, and remind you that we are all on the same boat. New episodes drop every Monday!

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