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Why Do I Need So Much Reassurance?

Why Do I Need So Much Reassurance?

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 Do you keep asking people if they're mad at you, even after they say no? Licensed therapist Kati Morton explains why reassurance seeking feels good for five minutes before the doubt comes right back, and what to do instead. We cover support seeking vs. reassurance seeking, why relief wears off so fast, how an unpredictable past can make someone else's mood feel like it's about us, what to do when a partner gets frustrated by "are we okay?", practical tools, and rebuilding self-trust. SPONSOR - Thank you to OneSkin for sponsoring this episode! Get 15% off with code KATI at https://oneskin.co/KATI Chapters: 00:00 Why do we need so much reassurance? 00:48 Reassurance seeking isn't inherently unhealthy 01:28 Why do I keep asking if people are mad at me? 02:42 Support seeking vs. reassurance seeking 08:16 Codependency: only okay when you're okay 12:00 Why does reassurance only work for five minutes? 20:30 Am I being too needy or asking for something normal? 27:19 Why does my brain make someone else's mood about me? 35:15 Can asking for reassurance make me more anxious? 40:37 Should I just learn to reassure myself? 43:22 "Do you still love me?" Why one answer isn't enough 47:10 My partner gets frustrated when I ask if we're okay 52:20 "Everyone says just stop asking." Then what? 53:29 Tools to use instead of seeking reassurance 59:15 "I don't trust myself": rebuilding self-trust 1:04:58 Final thoughts Kati's books: Why Do I Keep Doing This? · Traumatized · Are u ok? Online therapy: BetterHelp, 10% off your first month (affiliate link). Watch more from Kati on YouTube Kati's website: katimorton.com Education only, not a replacement for therapy. In crisis? Call or text 988 (US). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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