In this heartfelt and raw episode of Whole Healed and Healthy, Mel shares the emotional rollercoaster of receiving life-changing news about his wife Randi's breast cancer diagnosis. Opening up about feelings of hopelessness, anger, and fear, Mel discusses the coexistence of faith and doubt in difficult times. He recounts the powerful biblical story of a boy's father seeking Jesus' healing and relates it to his own struggle with unbelief. Emphasizing the importance of embracing and expressing genuine emotions, Mel invites listeners to join him in leaning into their vulnerability and trusting in God's comfort and healing. As he reflects on his journey, he also calls for support and awareness for those battling cancer and those who have lost loved ones to the disease. Mel's candid reflections offer solace and solidarity, making it a compelling listen for anyone navigating similar challenges.

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00:00 Cold Open

00:39 Welcome Back

01:35 Facing Unbelief

03:09 Emotional Rollercoaster

10:46 Seeking Comfort

17:50 Questioning God's Plan

18:04 God Can Handle Our Emotions

19:53 Faith and Fear Coexisting

21:01 Walking in Faith Amidst Uncertainty

25:16 Finding Peace in Presence

26:53 Retiring Comfort Phrases

28:00 Rejecting the Idea of Divine Testing

30:13 A Father's Perspective on Testing

32:58 God as a Comforter

34:26 Closing Thoughts and Support

Embracing Confidence and Challenging Insecurities

In this episode of Whole Healed and Healthy, Mel discusses the difference between confidence and arrogance and why confident individuals often face criticism. Using the example of Shado Sanders and his public scrutiny, Mel explores how people's insecurities can lead them to label confident behavior as arrogance. The episode also delves into the importance of embracing one's identity, particularly focusing on Mel's journey of discovering pride in black heritage and breaking free from harmful religious teachings. Mel emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and walking confidently in one's purpose without feeling the need to over-explain or seek approval from others.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:29 Introducing 'The Conversation'

01:31 Confidence vs. Arrogance

03:41 Public Perception and Criticism

10:43 Embracing Black Identity

12:31 Challenging Religious Norms

18:37 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Embracing Healing: The Work is Working

In this episode of Whole Healing and Healthy Man, Mel reflects on his emotional week and emphasizes the importance of creating healthy and safe spaces. He talks about setting boundaries, prioritizing peace, and recognizing the progress in one's healing journey. Mel shares personal examples of how he has seen the fruits of his healing, such as saying no without guilt and prioritizing rest. He encourages listeners to pause, reflect, and acknowledge the progress they have made in their own healing journeys. The episode underscores the significance of continuous self-work and the manifestation of healing in various aspects of life.

00:00 Introduction and Weekly Check-In

00:21 The Importance of Safe Spaces

01:24 The Work of Healing

02:59 Manifesting Healing in Daily Life

04:06 Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Peace

09:58 Recognizing Progress and Small Wins

13:18 Encouragement and Conclusion

The Silence Episode: Confronting Harm and Hypocrisy in the Church

In this episode of Whole Healed and Healthy, Mel expresses his recent emotional struggles and the painful realization that many whom he trusted—including friends, church members, and fellow Christians—may not have his best interests at heart. He delves into the concepts of gaslighting, spiritual bypassing, and the critical need for creating safe spaces for open, honest conversations. Emphasizing the hypocrisy and harmful silence prevalent among some religious leaders, Mel calls for accountability, empathy, and integrity within the Christian community. He concludes with a heartfelt plea to pastors and ministry leaders to use their platforms to stand up for justice and genuine love.

00:00 Introduction and Emotional Rollercoaster

00:59 Questioning Safe Spaces

04:16 Gaslighting and Spiritual Bypassing

06:16 The Importance of Empathy

09:54 Calling Out Harmful Behavior

15:35 Hypocrisy in Faith

17:36 Setting Boundaries in Love

17:44 Questioning Modern Christianity

19:06 The Double Standards in Faith

23:48 Walking Away from Hypocrisy

24:39 Acknowledging Imperfection

25:16 Personal Reflection and Growth

25:49 The Importance of Accountability

26:56 The Silence of the Church

29:22 Grieving Unsafe Spaces

32:05 Calling for Change

36:25 The Need for Empathy

40:41 A Call to Pastors and Leaders

42:28 Trusting God in Difficult Times

45:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

Deconstructing Faith: Embracing Change for Whole, Healed, and Healthy Living

In the Season 2 premiere of “Whole, Healed, and Healthy,” Mel returns from a restorative summer to set the tone for a braver, kinder season. He unpacks his journey through deconstruction and decolonization not to abandon God, but to shed harmful theology, make room for honest questions, and recover a freer faith. Through childhood doubts, denominational tension, church hurt, and a pivotal deliverance anecdote, Mel reframes Jesus as liberator and invites listeners into healthy tension, new habits, and deeper peace. The episode ends with permission to heal, unlearn, and keep walking with God.

00:00 Welcome Back to Season Two!

00:19 Summer Break Reflections

01:49 New Topics and Healthy Tension

05:00 Journey Through Deconstruction

12:09 Challenging the System

24:51 Challenging Traditional Beliefs

25:17 Understanding Ancestral Roots

26:44 Questioning Deliverance Practices

30:37 Deconstructing Harmful Theology

39:34 Embracing a New Faith Journey

Setting Healthy Boundaries in Life and Faith

In this podcast episode, Will delves into the importance of setting healthy boundaries, especially from a faith-based perspective. Rooted in the belief that true prosperity encompasses spiritual, mental, and physical thriving, the discussion explores why boundaries are essential in maintaining personal well-being. Key topics include establishing boundaries without guilt or fear, the significance of emotional, spiritual, relational, time, and financial boundaries, and how these principles apply to various aspects of life, including church culture and personal relationships. Will shares personal anecdotes, scriptural references, and practical advice on how to prioritize oneself while honoring God, illustrating that healthy boundaries don't block love but instead teach how to maintain it.

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Theme

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:11 Setting the Stage for Boundaries

00:19 Setting Healthy Boundaries

00:41 Personal Anecdotes and Church Commentary

02:45 Personal Experiences and Church Culture

02:45 Defining Healthy Boundaries

06:07 Boundaries in Different Life Areas

06:26 The Importance of Saying No

08:40 The Importance of Saying No

14:37 Biblical Insights on Boundaries

32:55 Understanding Inherited Beef

32:55 Understanding Inherited Beef

35:36 Setting Healthy Boundaries

35:36 Setting Healthy Boundaries

36:56 The Importance of Responsibility

39:04 The Importance of Saying No

39:07 Dealing with Burnout

41:34 The Power of Saying No

51:37 Types of Boundaries

57:47 Types of Boundaries Every Believer Needs

57:47 Emotional and Spiritual Boundaries

59:53 Relational Boundaries

01:01:01 Time Boundaries

01:02:29 Financial Boundaries

01:06:28 The Importance of Self-Care

01:09:47 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this heartfelt and inspiring podcast episode, Will invites listeners to examine the various forms of baggage; emotional, generational, spiritual, and relational that they may be carrying. Drawing from personal experiences and a biblical story about King Saul, Will underscores the importance of addressing and unpacking these burdens in order to move forward in life. Emphasizing continuous growth and healing, the conversation touches on the necessity of establishing healthy habits and letting go of past traumas to make room for new opportunities and relationships. Will offers practical advice and encouragement, aiming to foster a supportive community focused on becoming whole, healed, and healthy.

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:19 Understanding and Unpacking Baggage

04:17 Biblical Insights: King Saul's Story

08:22 Personal Reflections and Applications

41:23 The Weight of Heavy Bags

42:34 Breaking Generational Cycles

46:07 Unpacking Emotional Baggage

51:55 Embracing Healing and Moving Forward

When God Strips The Role To Restore The Relationship

In this episode of 'Whole Healed and Healthy,' Will reflects on the importance of maintaining one's identity while navigating various roles in life. Overcoming technical difficulties and unexpected challenges, Will shares experiences from the church and work environments, emphasizing the need to balance personal well-being with responsibilities. Through candid stories and personal reflections, the episode explores themes of self-discovery, the challenges of religious norms, and the ongoing journey to stay true to oneself. Will also discusses the significance of mental and physical health and offers practical advice on integrating one's true self into everyday roles. Listeners are encouraged to reassess their commitments, value themselves, and create a more authentic life anchored in personal and spiritual freedom.

00:00 Welcome Back and Technical Difficulties

01:07 New Mic and Audio Setup

04:09 Balancing Roles and Identity

13:05 Church Experiences and Personal Growth

40:45 Finding Peace Through Music and Scripture

41:49 The Pressure of Overworking and Seeking Validation

43:41 Challenging Norms and Embracing Freedom

46:06 Rediscovering Identity and Self-Worth