On this episode of Who We Become, I have Erin Snow as my guest. This one hits home for me and if you've ever lived through moments that brought shame, guilt, grief, judgement or heaviness from your experiences, parenting, successes, marriage, divorce or losses, this is for you too.

Erin shares with me how she became a professional listener, a true holder of space to support others as they speak the words they need to release in complete neutrality.

Erin Snow is a Professional Listener and founder of The Unmuted Room, a first-of-its-kind confidential listening space for anyone carrying more than they can say out loud. She creates private, judgment-free sessions for people who need to speak the truths they can't share with friends, family, or coworkers — whether it's the messy, complicated stories, the quiet aching questions, or the thoughts they've been softening in every other room of their lives. Before founding The Unmuted Room, Erin spent 17 years as a trauma-informed legal advocate for survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking, becoming the first paralegal in New Hampshire allowed to represent clients directly in family court. That experience — combined with her own — taught her a profound truth: being truly heard is not a luxury. It is a necessity for anyone carrying more than they can say out loud. Erin's long-term vision is to make listening spaces as common as gyms and as understood as any other form of wellness. She is building something quietly transformative: a world where people are finally, truly heard.

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⏰ Episode Time Stamps ⏰

0:00 How Erin became unmuted

6:00 Creating the Unmuted Room

10:33 What is a professional listener?

18:35 Paving the way for more listening spaces

22:10 A stepping stone to your action of choice

27:16 Speaking your truth and taking up space without shame, guilt, or masks

33:25 The physical benefits of finally saying something out loud

36:13 Everyone deserves to become unmuted

42:08 Permission to take up space

46:06 How to get into The Unmuted Room with Erin

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In this episode of who we are through becoming and unbecoming, one of Texas' finest designers joins me in a conversation centered on turning our stories as women into conversation pieces that create a ripple effect of impact everywhere they're worn.

Cynthia is the founder and designer of Glammed Jefa, a bespoke hat design brand created for women who have walked through fire and still chose to rise. Her work is not trend-driven it is story-driven. Every piece she designs begins with a woman’s transformation story, and then translates that journey into a wearable reminder of her strength, resilience, and the season of life she is stepping into. Before becoming a designer, Cynthia was an educator and Spanish linguist, and her life has always been centered around voice, identity, and helping others see their potential. After losing both of her parents, she turned my grief into creation, and what began as healing became purpose. She discovered that when a woman sees herself in the mirror wearing something that reflects who she has become, it changes how she stands, how she walks, and how she sees herself.Glammed Jefa exists for the woman who leads with presence. Her mission is simple: to create pieces that remind women they are not invisible they are powerful, they are seen, and they have arrived.

If you'd like to collaborate with Cynthia for your very own Glammed Jefa hat, you can find her on Facebook and Instagram @GlammedJefa or email her at glammedjefa@gmail.com

⏰ Episode Time Stamps ⏰

0:00 The WHY behind the GLAM

11:11 Supporting other women in their healing

15:00 Not just a hat, a journey of rebuilding

21:52 The next stage for Glammed Jefa

29:29 Feeling like an orphan after the passing of parents and being adopted into a supportive village

32:15 Protecting peace and settings boundaries

36:43 Women being able to recognize themselves again

39:30 A once in a lifetime Glammed Jefa special delivery

44:37 Healing for the generations after us

47:53 Storytelling through one of a kind hat designs

51:56 Language as a bridge to becoming creative

55:00 Inspired by women from all walks of life

58:22 Making her inner child proud

59:25 Glammed Jefa's current blank canvas

1:02:49 Where the name Glammed Jefa came from

Note: The book in the episode by Dr. Gabor Mate that I could not remember the name of is "When The Body Says No," and I highly recommend it.

Thank you so much for listening to this episode. You have 24 hours in a day and you made time to listen to this podcast out of millions of options. 💜 This is an upcoming podcast for women and each time you listen, it becomes more visible for others.

If you have ever known grief, you're going to want to listen 🎧

This episode on the Who We Become podcast is so special because you get to hear me with my first guest!

🖤 KristySue: Founder of Death Priestess and a Death, Grief & Rebirth Doula

Featured on the cover of Detroit Metro Times for her role in the rise of modern grief work, KristySue is redefining how we approach death, loss, and transformation. As a widow-parent, she brings lived experience to her work, bridging the sacred and the practical to support individuals and communities through profound change.

Blending ritual, somatic practice, and grounded guidance, she creates spaces where grief is not rushed or silenced but integrated, honored, and lived alongside. Her work challenges outdated narratives around death care, offering a more human, soul-centered approach to rebuilding life after loss.

If you are being called to learn more or work with KristySue, you can contact her via www.DeathPriestess.org

⏰ Episode Time Stamps ⏰

00:00 KristySue's grief story

8:50 Who we become through losing someone

14:04 Shame and life conversations on death and grief

21:00 Being unprepared to lose someone and life after

38:57 Hosting the Death Cafe

43:23 The practice of holding space

51:04 Self care and grief

1:10:41 Becoming The Death Priestess

1:20:08 Appreciating duality and getting curious

1:27:08 Capacity for grief over time

1:30:00 Forget the "stages" of grief

1:34:06 After the funeral

1:38:57 Reality of healing in today's world

1:42:00 Who and where to go to when you want to talk about your grief

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