80% of financial abuse against seniors comes from their own family members, so who you name as your agent may be the most important estate planning decision you make. In this episode of Asset Protection Today, elder law attorney Bill Alexander explains how to choose the right power of attorney and healthcare agent, and why the oldest child or the one who lives closest isn't automatically the right choice.

Bill covers the warning signs to watch for in family members, when a corporate trustee or CPA is a better fit, and why many seniors need an "enhanced" power of attorney instead of a limited one. He also breaks down how families can pay for long-term care: traditional long-term care insurance, life insurance with a care rider, and annuities (and why he's skeptical of them). He explains why a Medicaid asset protection trust and its five-year look-back are rarely needed in North Carolina, and why the bigger financial risk isn't the nursing home but paying for home care, assisted living, and memory care, where liquidity matters because facilities take cash, not land. He also looks at how retirement accounts complicate Medicaid planning and how a healthcare agent's decisions can affect where you live and who gets to see you.

If you're planning for aging parents, long-term care costs, or your own estate plan, this episode offers practical, real-world guidance from one of North Carolina's most respected elder law attorneys.

Want to learn more? W.G. Alexander & Associates hosts free educational webinars on asset protection, trust planning, and long-term care. Sign up at https://wgalaw.com/seminars/

(1:38) Busy People Get Things Done
(2:45) Choosing the Right Agent for Your Estate Plan
(4:56) Professional Agents: Corporate Trustees, CPAs & Attorneys
(6:36) Family Financial Abuse Red Flags
(7:44) Enhanced Powers of Attorney & Long-Term Care
(8:55) Long-Term Care Insurance, Riders & Annuities
(11:29) Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts & the Five-Year Look-Back
(12:47) The Real Risk: Liquidity for Home Care & Assisted Living
(15:12) Retirement Accounts & Medicaid
(17:25) Healthcare Power of Attorney Risks
(19:37) Conflicts of Interest & Protecting Yourself from Family
(22:02) Wrap-Up & Free Webinar Info

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