What if most relationship problems aren't about compatibility… they're about space?

Not physical space, but the mental and emotional bandwidth each person has to notice the nuances of life and love.

This conversation dives deep into why men often operate in binary mode (good/bad, on/off, working/broken) while women are juggling a dozen different variables at once.

Cam shares the provider mindset that keeps men focused on survival-level needs, even when everything "seems fine."

Elle explains why indirect communication, thinking you're being clear when you're actually speaking in code, leads to the surprise divorces men never see coming.

We break down the house-fire metaphor (there's smoke... one room is burning... half the house is on fire... and he still didn't move), explore the Love is Blind example that perfectly captures this dynamic, and talk about how to actually bridge the gap without resentment on either side.

This is real talk about partnership, presence, and what it actually takes to meet each other where you are.

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Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Ever notice how much energy you spend just trying to look "acceptable"?

Elle opens up about recording herself walking around her room to check her back fat, waking up early every day to “put on her face," and the invisible prison most women live in without even realizing it.

In this raw conversation, Elle and Cam unpack the 128-point inspection women put themselves through daily, why the beauty standard is a game no one can win, and what happened when Elle started going to McDonald's without makeup on.

If you've ever felt trapped by your own reflection, dimmed by the need to look "acceptable," or like you're fooling everyone with your appearance, this conversation might feel like an exhale.

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Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

"If you wouldn't let them through your front door, they're not getting in the community."

In the final part of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, we completely redefine what friendship means in 2025, and why the old rules are making everyone miserable.

Elle and Cam break down why feeling obligated to respond to every text, show up to every event, or maintain weekly check-ins is actually preventing real connection. They share why the best friendships operate on spontaneity and flow rather than rigid expectations.

What we explore:

• Why "I haven't posted since 2011" people don't understand the attention differential

• The evolution of friendship from obligation-based to flow-based connection

• Why real friends can disappear for 6 months and pick up where they left off

• How we're building a community where healthy attachment is the default

• The passive-aggressive friendship texts that signal unhealthy attachment ("Did you fall off the Earth?")

• Why you don't owe anyone your time, energy, or immediate response

• How redefining "friend" makes room for actual depth and presence

This isn't about being a bad friend. It's about building friendships that don't drain you, where you show up because you genuinely want to, not because you're obligated to.

If you've ever felt exhausted by friendship expectations, guilty for not texting back, or suffocated by people who need constant validation... this conversation will set you free.

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Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

In episode 3 of Hot Seat, Akaash explores his lifelong struggle with authority figures, and discovers his higher self has become the latest one he's rebelling against.

Growing up with a commanding mother who dictated every decision and an absent father who prioritized career over family, Akaash learned early that complying meant survival. He never knew he could choose. Teachers, coaches, even white males in general, he felt himself shrink around anyone he perceived as having power over him. For years, alcohol was the only thing that let him feel "normal" around people.

Fast forward to today: Akaash has transformed nearly every area of his life. He left toxic relationships, quit his corporate career, moved cities, built a spiritual practice. But there's still one domain where he feels paralyzed, approaching women when his heart tells him to. And in this conversation, the pattern becomes crystal clear.

His higher self is giving him directions (intuitive hits to talk to someone), and he's treating those nudges like orders from an authority figure he doesn't want to obey. The same rebellion that protected him as a child is now the thing keeping him from his deepest desires. Cam breaks down how the final 5% of reclaiming your power isn't about healing wounds from external authority, it's about trusting yourself enough to follow your own inner knowing without resistance.

This episode goes deep into compliance vs. choice, masculine devotion, leading with compassion, and why the same wound that made you empathetic might be the thing blocking you from stepping fully into your power.

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Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

In episode 2 of Hot Seat, Akaash gets vulnerable about the one area of his life where he still feels completely stuck: approaching women.

After years of self-improvement, meditation, and massive life changes, Akaash has transformed everything – except this. He's left toxic relationships, quit his corporate job, moved cities, and found his power in nearly every domain. But when it comes to talking to someone he's attracted to? Total paralysis.

What makes this conversation different is that Akaash isn't avoiding it out of fear of rejection. He can literally feel his future partner's energy – recognizes shards of her in people he meets. The universe keeps sending him signs. So why can't he move? We explore the gap between logical knowing and emotional readiness, why "just getting reps" isn't always the answer, and how sometimes the resistance isn't about the action itself, it's about what comes after.

By the end, Akaash walks away with permission to trust what he already knows.

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Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.