What if most relationship problems aren't about compatibility… they're about space?

Not physical space, but the mental and emotional bandwidth each person has to notice the nuances of life and love.

This conversation dives deep into why men often operate in binary mode (good/bad, on/off, working/broken) while women are juggling a dozen different variables at once.

Cam shares the provider mindset that keeps men focused on survival-level needs, even when everything "seems fine."

Elle explains why indirect communication, thinking you're being clear when you're actually speaking in code, leads to the surprise divorces men never see coming.

We break down the house-fire metaphor (there's smoke... one room is burning... half the house is on fire... and he still didn't move), explore the Love is Blind example that perfectly captures this dynamic, and talk about how to actually bridge the gap without resentment on either side.

This is real talk about partnership, presence, and what it actually takes to meet each other where you are.

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About Your Hosts:

Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Ever notice how much energy you spend just trying to look "acceptable"?

Elle opens up about recording herself walking around her room to check her back fat, waking up early every day to “put on her face," and the invisible prison most women live in without even realizing it.

In this raw conversation, Elle and Cam unpack the 128-point inspection women put themselves through daily, why the beauty standard is a game no one can win, and what happened when Elle started going to McDonald's without makeup on.

If you've ever felt trapped by your own reflection, dimmed by the need to look "acceptable," or like you're fooling everyone with your appearance, this conversation might feel like an exhale.

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About Your Hosts:

Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

"If you wouldn't let them through your front door, they're not getting in the community."

In the final part of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, we completely redefine what friendship means in 2025, and why the old rules are making everyone miserable.

Elle and Cam break down why feeling obligated to respond to every text, show up to every event, or maintain weekly check-ins is actually preventing real connection. They share why the best friendships operate on spontaneity and flow rather than rigid expectations.

What we explore:

• Why "I haven't posted since 2011" people don't understand the attention differential

• The evolution of friendship from obligation-based to flow-based connection

• Why real friends can disappear for 6 months and pick up where they left off

• How we're building a community where healthy attachment is the default

• The passive-aggressive friendship texts that signal unhealthy attachment ("Did you fall off the Earth?")

• Why you don't owe anyone your time, energy, or immediate response

• How redefining "friend" makes room for actual depth and presence

This isn't about being a bad friend. It's about building friendships that don't drain you, where you show up because you genuinely want to, not because you're obligated to.

If you've ever felt exhausted by friendship expectations, guilty for not texting back, or suffocated by people who need constant validation... this conversation will set you free.

Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod.

This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳

Connect With Us:

✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations

✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE

✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE

✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HERE

Explore Our World:

✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms

✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube

✨ Elle Beecher’s social media

✨ Cam Hogan’s social media

✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodes

About Your Hosts:

Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.

Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.