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When Past Pain Shows Up in Your Marriage (It Happened to Us This Week)

When Past Pain Shows Up in Your Marriage (It Happened to Us This Week)

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This past week, Holly had a hard moment, and we're being vulnerable and sharing what actually happened, how we worked through it, and what we're continuing to learn about loving each other well when past pain shows up in the present.

In this episode, we talk about what to do when you're the one being triggered, how to recognize when your reaction may be connected to something deeper, and why taking ownership of your response matters, even when the emotions you're experiencing are very real.

We also talk about the other side: how to support a spouse who has been triggered without becoming defensive, trying to force a conversation, or feeling responsible for fixing their pain.

In this episode we talk about:
• How past trauma can show up in present-day marriage
• What to do when you realize you've been triggered
• Why naming what you're experiencing matters
• How to get curious instead of defensive with your spouse
• Creating safety when your spouse isn't ready to talk
• Why your spouse can support your healing without becoming your healer
• When it may be time to seek additional support
• How difficult moments can become opportunities for deeper connection and growth
Our hope is that this conversation reminds you that a healthy marriage isn't a perfect marriage. You can learn to recognize unhealthy patterns, take ownership of what's yours, and love one another well even when old wounds surface.

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