What's Really Beneath the Anger?

Have you ever found yourself feeling angry, frustrated, or upset and wondered why something bothered you so much? Sometimes what we're feeling on the surface is only part of the story.

In this episode of Keepin' It Real, we're checking our internal GPS and looking more closely at what's really going on beneath our emotions. Instead of talking ourselves out of being upset or letting anger take the wheel, what if we got curious about what we're really feeling?

Kim Haar introduces the concept of the anger iceberg—the idea that what we see on the surface may hide something much deeper. Hurt, disappointment, fear, rejection, or even the stories we've been telling ourselves can all shape how we respond.

We're also talking about the power of perspective. What happens when we begin to look at the person who hurt us through a different lens? Could understanding their story change the way we think about our own?

And here's something worth remembering: Anger isn't always bad. Sometimes it's the very emotion that alerts us to something that needs attention or even change.

So pull up a chair and join us for an honest conversation about anger, hurt, grace, and learning to understand what's happening in our hearts. Because sometimes the most important question isn't "Why am I so angry?" but "What's really going on beneath the surface?"

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If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! kim@yourstoryspeaks.com or kim@kimberlyhaar.com