Free Resource from the Podcast:

https://www.authenticpursuit.net/challenge-page/6407634d-7992-41a7-9cea-b4d7578f2bd5?programId=6407634d-7992-41a7-9cea-b4d7578f2bd5

Have you ever felt like you’re carrying an invisible list?

Be a good wife. Be a good mom. Be a good friend. Remember everything. Keep everyone happy. Don’t let anyone down.

In this episode of Authentic Pursuit, I’m talking about the expectations we put on ourselves and how easily they can get tied to our worth.

We talk about perfectionism, agape love, the Greek word teleios, and the difference between trying to be flawless and learning to become whole.

I also explore the difference between sacrifice and self erasure, and ask some hard questions:

• Can I love you and still exist?
• Can I care without fixing?
• Can someone be disappointed in me and I still be okay?
• Am I helping because they need it, or because I need them to be okay?

...And maybe the biggest one:

• Who am I when I’m not being useful to someone else?

I also created a free Self Reflection Assessment to help you notice patterns of overfunctioning, people pleasing, rescuing, and putting everyone else’s needs before your own.

The goal is not another score to judge yourself by.

It’s awareness.

Because maybe the goal isn’t becoming perfect enough to be loved.

Maybe it’s becoming whole enough to receive the love that’s already being offered.

Find the free resource and more at:

www.authenticpursuit.net

Authentically,

Kristina

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