Titus 3:4–7 — Jesus’ mercy reaches the parts of our lives we could not repair by trying harder.

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Written and recorded by Angela J. Burkey.

TRANSCRIPT

[00:00] Monday, October 19th, 2026, what I couldn't fix.

[00:07] Today's scripture comes from Titus chapter three verses four through seven.

[00:13] But after that, the kindness and love of God, our Savior toward man appeared,

[00:19] not by works of righteousness, which we have done,

[00:21] but according to his mercy, he saved us by the washing of regeneration

[00:25] and renewing of the Holy Ghost,

[00:27] which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ, our Savior,

[00:32] that being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.

[00:39] Reflection.

[00:41] There are promises people make when they're desperate.

[00:44] This is the last time tomorrow will be different.

[00:48] Nobody will ever have to worry about me again.

[00:52] Then tomorrow comes and the pain is still there.

[00:56] Addiction, mental health struggles, and painful experiences can leave a person

[01:01] exhausted by their own attempts to get through a day.

[01:05] Shame adds another voice.

[01:07] You should be better by now.

[01:08] Look what you're putting everybody through.

[01:11] Another speech about trying harder can feel unbearable.

[01:16] And Titus describes salvation beginning with the kindness and love of God.

[01:20] We are saved by his mercy through Jesus Christ, rather than by the good we have managed to do.

[01:27] For someone worn out from trying to become worthy, that is good news.

[01:32] The gospel is good news for people who cannot go back and repair their entire history.

[01:38] Jesus died for our sins and rose again.

[01:41] Through him, there is forgiveness and a restored relationship with God.

[01:45] His invitation to follow him reaches people who have run out of ways to make themselves look worthy.

[01:53] That includes the person whose shame is about what they did.

[01:57] It also includes the person carrying shame over what somebody did to them.

[02:02] Being harmed was never proof that you deserved it.

[02:07] Faith doesn't make every symptom disappear.

[02:10] Treatment, medication, recovery support, and time may still be part of life.

[02:17] And a difficult day doesn't cancel God's love or turn your testimony into a lie.

[02:23] For someone who has felt beyond help, this can be the beginning of a different life.

[02:28] Being able to tell the truth and still believe there's a reason to keep living it.

[02:33] When that hope has become real to you, talking about Jesus gets personal.

[02:38] You remember what it was like to need mercy and expect rejection.

[02:43] You want the person still in that place to know that you have come to believe Jesus has not ruled them out.

[02:51] Recovery truth.

[02:53] Jesus’ mercy reaches the parts of my life.

[02:57] I cannot repair by trying harder.

[03:00] Prayer.

[03:02] God.

[03:02] I am tired of measuring my worth by how quickly I get better.

[03:09] Thank you for meeting me in the truth.

[03:12] Let your mercy become real to the person who feels as far gone as I once felt.

[03:18] Amen.

[03:20] Practice for today.

[03:22] Notice one place where you're treating getting better as a requirement for being loved.

[03:29] Put these words beside it.

[03:31] I still need help and I'm still worth helping.

[03:36] Bring that honesty into a conversation with someone you trust.

[03:40] Journal prompt.

[03:42] What did I need to hear when I believed I was beyond help?