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If your first year of marriage feels confusing, heavier than you expected, or you’ve quietly wondered, “Did we make a mistake?” — this episode is for you.

Because real talk… the church talks a LOT about waiting for marriage…but not enough about what happens after the wedding:- when the sex after waiting is awkward (or just not what you imagined)- when conflict shows up over “small” stuff (chores, habits, communication)- when money arguments expose fear, control, and different upbringings- when you realize spiritual intimacy takes intention, not vibesIn this episode, we’re exposing the newlywed secrets most couples aren’t prepared for — and giving you practical ways to move through it without panic, shame, or isolation.

✅ You’ll learn:- Why the first year of marriage can feel so exposing (and why that’s not a bad sign)- How to handle the “I don’t always feel in love” moments without spiraling- What to do when you realize you weren’t taught healthy conflict- How to reset expectations for Christian sex in marriage (especially if you waited)==- Why budget meetings can protect your marriage (even when you hate them)- A simple rhythm for praying together as a couple that actually lasts

CHAPTERS

00:00 Intro + the “nobody prepared us” truth

01:08 Why the first year feels confusing (and you’re not crazy)

04:14 Marriage feels exposing (sanctifying, not scary)

06:20 You won’t always “feel” in love (normalizing the shift)

10:29 Conflict ≠ failure (how to think like teammates)

14:14 Grieving your old life (freedom, routines, space)

16:43 Sex after waiting (expectations, shame, healing)

25:36 Money triggers + budget meeting rhythm

29:29 Spiritual intimacy (praying together that actually sticks)

32:00 Roles & expectations (building your own rhythm)

38:36 “Did we make a mistake?” (don’t isolate)

41:50 What to watch next + wrap-up

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