What happens when attraction turns into fixation? \

In this special don’t quote me episode, we’re taking a therapist-informed look at the 2026 horror film Obsession and unpacking the psychology behind Bear’s fixation on Nikki. We’re talking obsession vs. attraction, rejection, entitlement, boundaries, control, and why intensity doesn’t always equal love.

Spoiler warning: We’re getting into the movie, so watch it first if you don’t want spoilers!

Setting a boundary is one thing—maintaining it is another.

In this episode of don't quote me, we're talking about what happens after you say "no." From navigating family dynamics and managing feelings of guilt to handling pushback and staying consistent, we'll explore why boundaries can be so difficult and why they're worth protecting.

For the first episode, I wanted to start with something that comes up constantly—not just in therapy rooms, but in everyday life: boundaries.

Boundaries are one of those words that everyone has heard, but a lot of people aren’t exactly sure what they mean. Some people hear boundaries and think, ‘That sounds selfish.’ Others hear boundaries and think, ‘That means cutting people off.’ But boundaries are actually about creating healthier relationships and learning how to take care of yourself while still caring about others.

Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy and is not a replacement for mental health treatment. The thoughts and information shared here are for educational purposes only. If you’re looking for support, consider connecting with a licensed mental health professional.