Welcome to Victim Town — Just Don’t Pitch a Tent Here
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Welcome to Victim Town — Just Don’t Pitch a Tent Here
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Text Paige about this episode
Most of us have visited Victim Town. Some of us practically had a timeshare there.
Pain is real. Grief is real. Sometimes life genuinely kicks the absolute shit out of you.
But there comes a point when what happened to you stops being something you’re experiencing… and starts becoming who you are.
In this episode, I talk about the difference between feeling your pain and building your identity around it, why fake positivity is bullshit, and the uncomfortable truth that staying stuck can sometimes feel safer than changing.
I also share how I spent years making excuses in my second marriage, then swung completely the other way after we separated and blamed myself for everything—while holding on to a future that wasn’t actually there.
Until eventually, I had to ask:
Righto… now what?
This isn’t about denying what happened, rushing your grief, or pretending you’re okay. It’s about telling yourself the truth, taking back what you can control, and leaving Victim Town one small decision at a time.
You’re allowed to visit. Just don’t pitch a tent there.