Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard and Duey Freeman explore the profound impact of attachment theory on human relationships and personal development. Duey shares his extensive experience working with individuals and couples, emphasizing the importance of secure attachments formed in early life. He discusses the unique role of horses in facilitating healing and connection, highlighting how they can teach us about safety and belonging. The dialogue also delves into the complexities of wealth and attachment, urging listeners to reflect on what they truly long for in their relationships. Ultimately, the conversation underscores the significance of breath, movement, and play in fostering healthy connections.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Duey Freeman's Journey

03:49 Understanding Attachment Theory

09:39 The Role of Horses in Healing

19:08 Wealth, Attachment, and Relationships

28:19 Co-Regulation and Connection with Horses

37:49 Bringing Fun and Presence into Relationships

Duey's Bio |

Duey is a sought-after teacher, trainer, licensed therapist, and equine professional worldwide.

He has taught worldwide and developed a practical attachment theory and human development theory taught to thousands of university students.

He has nearly 80,000 direct client hours and co-founded the Gestalt Equine Institute and the Gestalt Institute of the Rockies.

He supervises therapists and graduate students and does business and land consultations for new equine therapy sites.

He embodies both tenderness and strength in all his relations and work. His quality of contact and relationship with others is authentic and unique. People come from around the world to study with him.

Duey is a true elder and mentor exploring new horizons in facilitating men’s growth work. Gestalt and Relational Horsemanship are not just approaches to Duey; they are how he walks through the world.

Duey's Resources |

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dueyfreeman1935

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dueyfreeman/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/duey.freeman

Substack: https://substack.com/@dueyfreeman

https://www.dueyfreeman.org/

https://www.coloradoecotherapyinstitute.com/

Emily's Resources |

Emily's Resources: https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard discusses the importance of purposeful prenups, emphasizing that they can strengthen relationships by fostering open communication about finances and values. She encourages couples to explore their personal money stories and navigate financial conversations together, highlighting the emotional dynamics involved in discussing money. The conversation aims to reframe the prenup discussion as a proactive and constructive approach to building a healthy marriage.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Purposeful Prenups

01:52 Why Have a Prenup?

05:42 Values and Stories

10:25 Exploring Your Money Dynamics

13:33 Managing Emotions

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard and Kyera Kacey explore the concept of wealth coherence, emphasizing the importance of heart-centered approaches to financial success. Kyera shares her personal journey from experiencing financial struggles after a divorce to empowering women to create their own financial freedom. They discuss the Rich Bitch principles, which focus on self-honor, healing, and embracing one's true self in the pursuit of wealth. The conversation also highlights the significance of trusting one's intuition, taking messy action, and redefining wealth as an experience of self rather than just financial gain. Kyera's retreats in Ireland are presented as transformative experiences for women seeking deeper connection and empowerment.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Wealth Coherence and Kyra Casey

02:15 Kyra's Journey: From Divorce to Empowerment

03:25 The Rich Bitch Principles: Heart-Centered Wealth

07:03 Intuition and Self-Expression in Wealth Creation

11:17 Healing and Honoring Yourself in Business

12:35 Embracing Messy Action and Learning from Mistakes

16:13 Responsibility and Personal Growth in Wealth

19:05 Investing in Yourself: Trusting Your Intuition

21:52 The Power of Play in Business and Wealth

25:18 Redefining Wealth: Your Experience of Self

27:08 Retreats in Ireland: A Transformative Experience

Kyera's Bio |

Kyera Kacey is the international best-selling author of Rich B$tch Money Goals, a keynote speaker, and the CEO and founder of LiberateHER, a global movement giving every woman the opportunity to choose her Rich B$tch life.

Learn more about Kyera |

https://www.kyerakacey.com/

https://www.instagram.com/kyerakacey/

https://www.youtube.com/@kyerakacey

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this episode of Wealth Coherence, host Emily Bouchard engages with emotional intelligence expert Joshua Freedman to explore the intricate relationship between emotional well-being and wealth. They discuss the significance of understanding and embracing emotions, the founding of Six Seconds, and the practical application of emotional intelligence in navigating complex feelings associated with wealth. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging all emotions, distinguishing between shame and guilt, and utilizing emotions as tools for learning and personal growth. In this conversation, Joshua Freedman and Emily Bouchard explore the intricate relationship between emotions, stress, and creativity, particularly in the context of family wealth discussions. They emphasize the importance of recognizing multiple emotions simultaneously and how these feelings can serve as data to guide personal and familial conversations. The dialogue also delves into the significance of trust in relationships, the impact of consumerism on emotional fulfillment, and the journey towards emotional intelligence and wisdom. Ultimately, they advocate for a deeper understanding of emotions as a means to foster connection, purpose, and alignment in both personal and family dynamics.

Chapters |

00:00 Exploring Emotional Wealth

02:14 The Birth of Six Seconds

05:45 Understanding the Six Seconds Principle

07:40 Embracing All Emotions

12:52 Navigating Wealth and Emotional Complexity

15:49 The Paradox of Wealth and Feelings

21:07 Distinguishing Between Shame and Guilt

24:10 Understanding Emotions vs. Feelings

26:20 Emotions as Meaning Making

27:43 Harnessing Emotions for Learning

28:09 Understanding Stress and Its Impact on Creativity

31:39 Navigating Emotions: The Power of Multiple Feelings

33:40 Emotions as Connectors in Family Wealth Conversations

35:29 Aligning Values in Family Discussions About Money

38:26 Exploring Purpose and Emotional Alignment

41:19 Trust: The Foundation of Relationships and Wealth

45:23 The Role of Trust in Family Dynamics

50:20 Consumerism and Emotional Fulfillment

54:44 The Journey of Emotional Intelligence and Wisdom

Joshua's Bio |

Joshua Freedman is one of the world's top experts on using emotional intelligence to improve performance. He’s the co-founder and CEO of Six Seconds, the global non-profit dedicated to teaching people how to use emotional intelligence (EQ).

Joshua leads the world’s largest study of emotional intelligence, with breaking research dropping later this year. He is also the author of 5 emotional intelligence books, including the best-selling At the Heart of Leadership: How to Get Results with Emotional Intelligence. He has helped hundreds of organizations, including FedEx, Qatar Airways, the US Navy, P&G, Microsoft, Intel, Amazon, HSBC, and the United Nations, use emotional intelligence to get better results. His work leads to a people-centered culture that strengthens leadership, sales, employee wellbeing, retention and innovation.

Learn more about Joshua Freedman and Six Seconds \

linkedin.com/in/freedman

youtube.com/sixseconds

instagram.com/6secondseq

State of the Heart - world's largest study of emotional intelligence: https://www.6seconds.org/emotional-intelligence/research/

Business Case for Emotional Intelligence: https://www.6seconds.org/business/case-for-emotional-intelligence/

Emotion Skills for Coaching Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7184320223376801792/

Emily Bouchard's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats:https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this episode, Emily Bouchard interviews Jennifer Wines, an attorney and author of 'Invisible Wealth.' They explore the evolving definition of wealth, emphasizing a holistic approach that includes values, experiences, and relationships. Jennifer introduces the five principles of invisible wealth, highlighting the importance of aligning one's values with their understanding of wealth. The conversation also delves into the significance of status, family dynamics, and the future of wealth management, advocating for a qualitative shift in the industry.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Invisible Wealth

02:49 Defining Wealth: A Holistic Perspective

05:56 The Five Principles of Invisible Wealth

08:46 Experiential Wealth: The Shift from Things to Experiences

11:30 Understanding Values and Their Impact on Wealth

14:39 The Role of Status in Wealth and Identity

17:20 Navigating Wealth Transfer and Next Generation Challenges

25:44 Understanding Coherence: Individual and Relational

28:07 The Symphony of Family Dynamics

33:28 Navigating Comfort Zones and Learning

38:40 The Invisible Nature of Wealth

42:04 The Future of Wealth Management: A Qualitative Shift

Jennifer's Bio |

Jennifer has worked at top private wealth management institutions, including Goldman Sachs, JPMorgan, and Fidelity. She holds a Juris Doctor from Suffolk University Law School in Boston, and a Certified Private Wealth Advisor© designation from Booth Business School in Chicago. With over a decade of experience working with ultra-high-net-worth (UHNW) individuals, and through thousands of client conversations, Jennifer noticed something: people are increasingly interested in wealth beyond the dollar. Inspired by this shift, Jennifer stepped away from the wealth management advisor seat in 2022 to research the axioms of wealth through a future-forward lens. It was through this exploration that she wrote the book Invisible Wealth, which offers a timely—yet timeless—redefinition of wealth. Now, through Invisible Wealth Consulting, Jennifer partners with individuals and institutions to usher in the next generation of wealth. She supports current and future wealth holders in navigating the rich complexities of self and wealth—because the new wealth paradigm extends far beyond money. ‍ Jennifer is a frequent speaker on Invisible Wealth and her 5 Principle framework. She’s spoken at organizations such as The Financial Times, JPMorgan Private Bank, Bernstein Private Wealth, and Microsoft. She also shares thought leadership through her Substack publication, which has thousands of subscribers. She is US based, with international reach.

Learn more about Jennifer Wines and Invisible Wealth \

Website: https://www.jenniferwines.com

Substack: https://jenniferwines.substack.com

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferwines/

Book: Invisible Wealth

https://www.amazon.com/Invisible-Wealth-Principles-Redefining-Personal/dp/1394180535

Emily Bouchard's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this episode, Emily Bouchard interviews Bruce Cryer, former executive director of HeartMath Institute, discussing the concept of coherence and its significance in personal and professional life. Bruce shares his journey from Broadway to leading HeartMath, emphasizing the importance of heart coherence in decision-making, especially in stressful situations like financial decisions.

The conversation explores practical techniques for achieving coherence, the role of leadership in fostering a coherent environment, and the impact of family dynamics on coherence. Bruce also highlights the need for empathy and connection in leadership, especially in times of uncertainty.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Coherence and HeartMath

03:24 Bruce Cryer's Journey from Broadway to HeartMath

06:25 Understanding Coherence: The Heart's Role

09:43 Coherence in Financial Decision-Making

12:43 Grounding Techniques for Achieving Coherence

15:23 The Importance of Slowing Down

18:40 Coherence in Leadership and Business

21:36 Emotional Viruses in Organizations

31:49 The Power of Connection with Nature and Animals

33:15 Leadership and Coherence in a Chaotic World

38:22 Empathy vs. Fear in Leadership

39:20 Successful Companies with Heart Coherence

41:11 Family Dynamics in Business

46:25 Navigating Family Conflicts

52:38 Creating Connection in Difficult Conversations

57:39 The Importance of Heart Coherence in Leadership

Guest Bio|

Bruce Cryer has been called a renaissance man because of a four-decade career as a Singer, Actor, Dancer, Publisher, Author, Marketing Executive, CEO, Board member, Consultant, Mentor and Coach for Leaders in diverse fields.

Bruce now brings his expertise and passion for renaissance living and working to a select group of clients each year. His diverse and fascinating background, leading successful companies and performing for large audiences, blends beautifully to create a powerful, culturally-rich, and results-driven approach with all those he chooses to work with. Music, dance, meditation and fun will definitely be involved!

Bruce began as an actor/singer/dancer in New York, where his credits include performing more than 800 performances as The Boy in the world’s longest running musical, The Fantasticks.

A deep passion for social evolution, performance enhancement and personal growth led him to California in the late 70s.

Guest Resources |

https://brucecryer.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/

Book: From Chaos to Coherence (The Power to Change Performance)

Emily Bouchard's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/