Episode Summary |

In this episode of Wealth Coherence, Emily Bouchard interviews Damien Steyn, who shares his insights on the intersection of wealth, family, and personal growth. Damien discusses his journey from a traditional financial background to a more holistic approach that incorporates spirituality and emotional intelligence. He emphasizes the importance of inner peace, kindness, and the power of perspective in navigating life's challenges. The conversation also touches on generational differences in understanding wealth and the significance of coherence in family dynamics.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Wealth Coherence

01:08 Damien's Journey and Awakening

06:30 The Power of Synchronicity and Wealth Coherence

11:26 Shifting Perspectives on Challenges

16:26 Generational Perspectives and Family Dynamics

23:21 Empowering Change Through Personal Stories

27:10 Embracing Life's Journey

30:17 The Ripple Effect of Kindness

32:22 Incorporating Spirituality in Business

39:33 Navigating Uncertainty with Inner Peace

47:45 Finding Joy in Challenges

Guest Bio |

Damien Steyn was born in Mauritius and currently lives between South Africa and Mauritius. He serves as a Business Development Manager for an international management company, where he assists individuals and businesses in expanding globally.

With experience spanning asset management, startups, corporate and fiduciary solutions, Damien is passionate about bringing coherence to these fields, integrating them meaningfully within family structures to inspire a harmonic generational legacy.

Damien values family, friendship, adventure, and sport. What drives him most is creating space for deep, meaningful conversations that bring clarity, harmony, and truth. Damien’s mission is to empower others and influence lives in ways that lead to lasting, positive transformation.

Damien's Resources |

www.omcgroup.com

​​https://www.instagram.com/damiensteyn?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=MThtMmwycW90NDVsbQ==

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this episode, Emily Bouchard and Abby Havermann explore the intricate relationship between emotional intelligence, financial decisions, and personal empowerment. They discuss the importance of heart coherence, self-observation, and the impact of guilt and shame on decision-making. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-compassion and understanding our emotional triggers while navigating the complexities of wealth and personal growth. Abby shares insights from her diverse background in psychology and finance, offering practical tools for achieving coherence and making empowered choices.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Empowerment and Wealth Coherence 02:44 The Intersection of Psychology and Financial Decisions 11:28 Overcoming Emotional Barriers to Wealth 20:07 Learning from Mistakes and Self-Compassion 23:10 The Addictive Nature of Guilt 25:56 Understanding Remorse vs. Guilt 29:02 Embracing Our Human Experience 30:43 Navigating Family Dynamics 33:44 The Gifts We Are Given 36:51 The Mind-Body Connection 39:44 Choosing Our Path Forward 44:16 Finding Freedom from the Mind

Guest Bio |

Abby Havermann is a former psychotherapist, TEDx and keynote speaker, certified HeartMath trainer, and Positive Intelligence facilitator with over 30 years of experience guiding people from chaos to clarity. She’s the host of the Intuition Incubator podcast, ranked in the top 5% globally, where she explores the intersection of science, consciousness, and human transformation.

Abby helps ambitious souls, self-help addicts, and visionary leaders align who they are with what they do—in business, parenting, and life. Drawing on neuroscience, ancient wisdom, and her own hard-earned insights, she teaches how to trade burnout and people-pleasing for coherence, clarity, and soul-level success.

Guest Resources |

https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann

https://www.facebook.com/abby.havermann

https://www.linkedin.com/in/abbyhavermann

https://www.instagram.com/abby.havermann/

https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard and Deborah Goldstein explore the nuances of philanthropy, emphasizing the importance of aligning giving with personal values and the need for clarity in decision-making. They discuss the overwhelming nature of charitable requests and the significance of family discussions in shaping giving strategies. The dialogue highlights the journey of understanding one's philanthropic identity, the balance between proactive and reactive giving, and the role of children in learning about generosity. Ultimately, the conversation underscores the power of coherence in philanthropy, enabling individuals and families to give meaningfully and intentionally.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Philanthropy and Coherence 03:48 Navigating Overwhelm in Giving 06:23 The Importance of Values in Philanthropy 09:28 Childhood Influences on Philanthropic Values 12:07 Proactive vs. Reactive Giving Strategies 14:51 Family Dynamics in Philanthropy 17:29 Flexibility in Philanthropic Giving 20:35 The Role of Identity in Giving 23:26 Teaching Children About Wealth and Giving 26:06 Leveraging Networks in Philanthropy 28:58 The Journey of Philanthropy and Saying No

Guest Bio |

Deborah Goldstein, founder of Enlightened Philanthropy, is dedicated to guiding philanthropists in giving. Drawing from more than 25 years of experience in the nonprofit field, she supports clients on their philanthropic journey helping them align their values with their giving so they can give with clarity and confidence. Goldstein particularly enjoys helping families give collaboratively and experience meaningful moments together as the next generation engages in this process. She is also the creator of Philanthropy Camp for Women, an opportunity for women to explore their giving and learn in community.

Goldstein holds a BA in Biology from Wittenberg University and a Master’s Degree in Marine Policy with a Certificate in Museum Studies from the University of Delaware. She has worked for Oregon State University, the Oregon Museum of Science and Industry, and the Monterey Bay Aquarium. Goldstein is a 21/64-certified consultant. She is also co-Dean of Philanthropy for the Purposeful Planning Institute.

Guest Resources |

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-goldstein-48b31119/

https://www.instagram.com/enlightenedphilanthropy/

https://www.facebook.com/enlightenedphilanthropy

https://www.youtube.com/@EnlightenedPhilanthropy

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this episode of Wealth Coherence, Emily Bouchard and Deborah Goldstein discuss the importance of aligning financial decisions with personal values, particularly in the context of parenting. They explore how to teach children about money, the significance of delayed gratification, and the role of critical thinking in financial literacy. Through personal anecdotes, Deborah shares her experiences with her son, emphasizing the lessons learned in navigating money conversations and instilling values around giving and spending.

Chapters |

00:00 The Journey of Philanthropy and Saying No 01:15 Weaving Values into Parenting and Money Conversations 07:26 Navigating Delayed Gratification and Money Stories 12:37 Allowance, Saving, and Spending Decisions 18:53 Teaching Financial Literacy and Critical Thinking

Guest Bio |

Deborah Goldstein, founder of Enlightened Philanthropy, is dedicated to guiding philanthropists in giving. Drawing from more than 25 years of experience in the nonprofit field, she supports clients on their philanthropic journey helping them align their values with their giving so they can give with clarity and confidence. Goldstein particularly enjoys helping families give collaboratively and experience meaningful moments together as the next generation engages in this process. She is also the creator of Philanthropy Camp for Women, an opportunity for women to explore their giving and learn in community.

Goldstein holds a BA in Biology from Wittenberg University and a Master’s Degree in Marine Policy with a Certificate in Museum Studies from the University of Delaware. She has worked for Oregon State University, the Oregon Museum of Science and Industry, and the Monterey Bay Aquarium. Goldstein is a 21/64-certified consultant. She is also co-Dean of Philanthropy for the Purposeful Planning Institute.

Guest Resources |

https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-goldstein-48b31119/

https://www.instagram.com/enlightenedphilanthropy/

https://www.facebook.com/enlightenedphilanthropy

https://www.youtube.com/@EnlightenedPhilanthropy

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard and Laurie Israel delve into the complexities of prenups, particularly focusing on the concept of 'generous prenups.' They discuss the emotional and financial implications of prenups, especially for individuals from wealthy families, and the importance of mediation in navigating these discussions. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced in second marriages, gray divorces, and the role of estate planning. Laurie shares her insights on how prenups can sometimes be damaging to relationships and emphasizes the need for a thoughtful approach to financial discussions in marriage.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Purposeful Prenups

01:21 Navigating Wealth and Prenups

06:13 Mediation in Prenup Conversations

07:30 Second Marriages and Financial Security

10:47 Gray Divorce and Remarriage

11:53 The Role of Family Offices

14:47 Estate Planning and Prenups

16:45 The Impact of Prenups on Young Couples

22:16 Generosity vs. Adversity in Prenups

28:41 Creating a Generous Prenup

Guest Bio |

Laurie Israel is a nationally known prenuptial agreement attorney and mediator who works with couples formulating prenups throughout the country. She is the author of "The Marriage-Friendly Prenup" (2025), "The Generous Prenup" (2018), and "Mediating Prenups" (2025. Laurie’s writings have appeared in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Huffington Post, New York Magazine, and many other publications. She can frequently be heard sharing her views on prenuptial agreements on podcasts across the podcast sphere.

Guest Resources |

laurieisrael.com

https://mediate.com/author/laurie-israel/

https://mcfm.org/mediator-profile/316

Purchase Laurie’s Books Here:

https://www.amazon.com/Generous-Prenup-Support-Marriage-Pitfalls/dp/0999828703

https://a.co/d/3uMnOMu

https://a.co/d/aFSSbqw

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard and Paul Hood delve into the complexities of prenups, particularly in the context of wealthy families. They discuss the importance of purposeful prenups, emphasizing trust, communication, and the need for full disclosure of assets. The conversation highlights the emotional challenges that can arise when one partner comes from a wealthier background, and the necessity of navigating these dynamics with care. They also explore the role of legal representation, the negotiation process, and the significance of understanding family dynamics in creating effective prenups.

Chapters |

00:00 Introduction to Purposeful Prenups

01:40 Understanding Prenups in Wealthy Families

06:09 Building Trust Through Disclosure

11:26 The Importance of Family Dynamics

17:08 Navigating Emotional Hardships in Prenups

21:10 Empowering Couples in the Prenup Process

24:21 Choosing the Right Legal Representation

28:03 Negotiating Prenups Effectively

33:54 Concerns and Values in Prenup Discussions

Guest Bio |

A “recovering tax lawyer,” Paul Hood’s often quoted in publications that include Forbes magazine, USA TODAY, and The Wall Street Journal, and he’s been a frequent contributor to Leimberg Information Services, Inc. since its inception, Paul is a highly sought-after speaker and consultant because of his innate ability to see through the complexity and explain difficult and even boring subjects in understandable and entertaining language with his insightful and biting sense of humor, and he minces no words in doing so. Along the way, Paul’s been a father, husband, uncle, Godfather, lawyer, coach, mentor, trustee, member, director, president, partner, trust protector, director of planned giving, expert witness, agent, professor, judge, juror, respondent, and a defendant, and he uses his experience in these myriad roles to guide others.

Guest Resources |

www.purposefulplanninginstitute.com

www.paulhoodservices.com

www.leimbergservices.com

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/

Episode Summary |

In this conversation, Emily Bouchard and Jill Mastroianni delve into the often-taboo topic of prenuptial agreements, exploring their importance in fostering open communication and trust in relationships. They discuss how childhood experiences shape our views on money and relationships, the stigma surrounding prenups, and the necessity of having financial conversations before marriage. The discussion emphasizes the significance of emotional regulation and creating a safe space for these conversations, ultimately advocating for a proactive approach to financial discussions in relationships. Chapters |

00:00 The Expanding Pie: Collaborative Relationships

01:37 Prenup References

03:47 Misconceptions About Prenups

07:59 Financial Infidelity

11:07 How to Handle a Prenup

15:43 How Childhood Impacts Relationship With Money

21:02 Childhood Experiences and Shame

23:56 The Power of Vulnerability in Relationships

26:46 Navigating Financial Conversations

29:46 Prenups: A Path to Clarity

32:46 Red Flags in Relationships

35:55 Connecting Through Conversations

38:46 Death Readiness and Estate Planning

Guest Bio |

With 12 years of experience as a trusts and estates attorney, Jill bridges the gap between individuals and attorneys, ensuring you feel prepared, informed, and confident before engaging legal professionals.

Whether you’re planning ahead or managing an estate, Jill provides expert guidance, advocacy, and organization—helping you reduce legal fees, simplify complex processes, and make informed decisions at every stage.

Her approach is high-touch and deeply personalized, tailored to your unique needs for clarity, efficiency, and peace of mind.

Jill's Resources |

https://www.deathreadiness.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jill-mastroianni-98901266/

https://www.youtube.com/@TheDeathReadinessPodcast

Emily's Resources |

https://emilybouchard.com/

https://blendedfamiliesflourishing.com/

Heart*Brain*Horse*Coherence Retreats: https://emilybouchard.com/retreat/