In this week's Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia unpack a dilemma that left us genuinely stunned 😳

A listener reconnects with a man she’s known for years and goes on what should be a normal third date… until she leaves the cinema to discover missed calls, texts, and DMs from his entire family and friends, all panicking because he wasn’t home by 8:30pm.

Things get even more awkward when he calls his mum on the spot, and she starts shouting down the phone. Instead of acknowledging how intense it all felt, he doubles down and insists it’s just a close family who “care about him.”So the question is 👀

Is this just a strong support system… or a massive red flag?

Steph & Tia break down boundaries, family dynamics, and when “close” crosses into too much.

👇 What would YOU have done?

Timestamp:

0:00 - Intro

06:50 - Dilemma

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Episode 102 of We Just Got Here Podcast gets painfully relatable 😳💔

Steph, Tia and Cashh kick things off with their Ls & Wins of the Week before diving into a big dating question:
Are people actually dating you… or the idea of who you could become?

The conversation unpacks what it feels like to realise someone is invested in your potential rather than who you are right now, and why that dynamic can quietly destroy relationships.

Things get even deeper during Reddit Realness, where an OP asks for advice after realising the man she’s dating only seems to like the version of her he imagines, not the real her.

As always, expect honesty, humour, and classic We Just Got Here chaos, wrapped up with Adult Finds of the Week.

⏰ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
03:16 – Steph, Tia & Cashh’s Ls & Wins of the Week
42:14 – Are you dating for potential?
58:09 – Reddit Thread: How does it feel to be dated for potential?
01:13:06 – Reddit Realness: “He only likes the idea of me”
01:27:46 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of The Week:

Tia: https://shorturl.at/vGvgS

Steph: https://shorturl.at/YP0Q6

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