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In this episode, Danny and Kimberly unpack the powerful difference between grace and rescuing. Grace means loving with truth—while rescuing means taking responsibility for someone else’s growth. Together they explore what happens when our motivation shifts from love and empathy to fear and control, and how that small shift can quietly lead to resentment and burnout.

They’ll walk through “The Grace With Boundaries Model,” contrasting the heart behind grace versus rescuing, and share practical tools for discerning your own motivations. You’ll learn to ask key questions like:

• Am I doing this out of love or fear?
• Am I taking responsibility for something that isn’t mine?
• Does this act honor both of us equally?

Grace says, “I love you enough to tell the truth and let you grow.”

Rescuing says, “I can’t handle seeing you fail, so I’ll do it for you.”

By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to love others deeply—without losing your boundaries in the process.

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In this special first-ever interview on We Do Whatever It Takes, Danny and Kimberly sit down with longtime friends Joe and Tracy Castañeda to talk about the real, everyday ways grace shows up in marriage. From high school sweethearts to nearly three decades of marriage and ministry, the Castañedas share candidly about the ups and downs of life together, long-distance dating before cell phones, learning to extend “undeserved kindness” in the middle of parenting chaos, and the courage it takes to break out of ruts.

The conversation also explores the vision behind their ministry OnePlusOneMarriage.com, a community helping couples move from “just surviving” to genuinely thriving. You’ll hear practical wisdom on intentional date nights, vulnerable conversations about intimacy, and why small acts of grace can ripple out to impact not only marriages but also the next generation.

Whether you’re in a season of routine or ready for renewal, this episode will inspire you to slow down, choose kindness, and take one intentional step toward a healthier, more grace-filled marriage.

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Grace isn’t a one-time drop—it’s a daily reload. In this lively, practical, and hope-filled conversation, Danny (magician and pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) explore how to give and receive fresh grace every day. They unpack why forgiveness is both a process and a choice, bust the “forgive and forget” myth, and share real-life marriage examples—complete with laughter, honesty, and a few “hypothetical” Amazon jokes.

Listeners will learn:

• How to start each morning by receiving God’s new mercies (Lamentations 3:22-23)
• Ways to speak daily grace over your spouse with morning check-ins, midday pauses, and evening resets
• Practical steps for working through conflict, communicating needs, and rebuilding trust when walls of resentment form

Whether you’re navigating old wounds or everyday annoyances, this episode offers a grace-filled blueprint for stronger, freer relationships.