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Grace isn’t a one-time drop—it’s a daily reload. In this lively, practical, and hope-filled conversation, Danny (magician and pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) explore how to give and receive fresh grace every day. They unpack why forgiveness is both a process and a choice, bust the “forgive and forget” myth, and share real-life marriage examples—complete with laughter, honesty, and a few “hypothetical” Amazon jokes.

Listeners will learn:

• How to start each morning by receiving God’s new mercies (Lamentations 3:22-23)
• Ways to speak daily grace over your spouse with morning check-ins, midday pauses, and evening resets
• Practical steps for working through conflict, communicating needs, and rebuilding trust when walls of resentment form

Whether you’re navigating old wounds or everyday annoyances, this episode offers a grace-filled blueprint for stronger, freer relationships.

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Danny Ray (magician & pastor) and Kimberly (AMFT) unpack what real, costly grace looks like in marriage — and why “cheap grace” (Bonhoeffer’s warning) often masquerades as forgiveness while bitterness quietly grows. Drawing on 29 years of marriage (and yes — a very messy paint story), they show how surprising, intentional acts of grace (“grace grenades”) can defuse conflict, invite repentance, and actually transform a relationship — but only when grace costs us something.

In this episode you’ll hear:

• The difference between cheap grace and real grace (Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s insight).
• Why Biblical grace is a gift we’ve received and a costly pattern we’re called to imitate (Ephesians 2:8–9, Romans 5:8).
• Practical ways to drop a grace grenade in everyday moments — from traffic tension to household projects.
• How to extend grace without ignoring harmful patterns: forgiveness that transforms instead of sweeps things under the rug.
• First steps to rebuild trust: why consistency matters and what it looks like in real life.

This is a no-fluff, real-life episode made for couples who want action, not just platitudes. If you’re tired of repeating the same fights and want practical ways to make grace the normal response in your home, press play.

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Welcome back to We Do Whatever It Takes! 🎙️ Danny (magician & pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) share real-life lessons from 29 years of marriage—plus one very messy paint story—to show how unexpected grace can defuse conflict and build deeper connection.

In this episode you’ll discover:

• Why Romans 5:8 is the ultimate “grace grenade.”
• How to break predictable patterns of criticism, withdrawal, and defensiveness.
• Practical ways to surprise your spouse with love and forgiveness—even in the middle of a mess.

Whether you’re newly married or decades in, these simple but powerful practices will help you turn conflict into connection and make grace the normal response in your home.