None of us becomes who we are on our own. We carry the stories, wounds, wisdom, and unfinished hopes of the people who came before us. Sometimes we recognize those inheritances; sometimes they show up in us before we even have words for them.

This week on Typology, Anthony and I sit down with J.S. Park, hospital chaplain and author of We Are Made of Us, to talk about the complicated, beautiful truth that understanding ourselves means getting curious about the people and stories that shape us. Joon's work has brought him alongside people at life's most vulnerable thresholds, where family histories and old patterns often come into view. He invites us to look at our own stories with a little more curiosity and a little less judgment.

Whether you're a Two, a Four, or simply someone whose family story is still unfolding, I hope this conversation offers you a little insight, compassion, and room to breathe.

In this episode:

• How culture and family shape the way we understand our Enneagram type
• The "June bow": why we sometimes rush people through grief
• Moving beyond codependence and independence toward interdependence
• A more compassionate question to ask about difficult family relationships
• Listening to our aging parents and honoring the stories they carry

Resources: We Are Made of Us by J.S. Park [link] · J.S. Park on Instagram [handle/link] · Take the Typology Institute Enneagram Assessment [link]