They can keep trying to shove it down our throats, but we all know that the C-suite doesn't know enough about our day-to-day to actually make it worthwhile. Add in our own views on using AI, the time it takes to actually get tools up and useable, and security issues they haven't even thought about, the magic of AI quickly disappears.

In this episode, Kara and Jensie unpack some of the common issues around the corporate decree to "just fold it in" and how you might approach AI in your work and with your team.

Most importantly: your gut is right. The hype around AI is mostly that.

For those of us who care, we end up caring a whole lot about things that we ultimately can't control. By being picky about where we put our energy, we can save ourselves some stress and time. In this episode, get some ideas on how to best separate yourself from outcomes (at work, with friends) so you can show up as your best self. And yes, still care.

There are some transitions we choose: marriage, college, changing careers, and some that maybe are chosen for us (or happen naturally) like kids leaving the nest, divorce, or job loss. Navigating these changes is always hard, but using our values as a compass can help guide us through. In this episode, Kara and Jensie cover some of the changes they've experienced and how coming back to their values eased some (but definitely not all) of the difficulties of those transitions.

Check out our course on finding your values!

Okay, that may be a little hyperbolic. BUT, we're pretty sure if you can root out some of the fake rush rush rush, your quality of life will improve. And these days, we'll take whatever we can get. So take a deep breath and listen in for some ideas on slowing everything down at work, at home, and with yourself. Your nervous system will thank you.

Let's face it, not only is setting goals in January forcing the issue, making a list of goals that don't feel quite right makes the whole tradition pretty boring. In this episode, Kara and Jensie talk about making goals that are in alignment with your values, waiting until February (or later) to start, and using a bingo card to entice your inner 5-year-old with stickers.

Showing up for ourselves and in our values can have a profound impact on our relationships. By knowing who we are, we allow the people in our lives to love us as we are, not as who we think they want us to be. And, in turn, gives us the perspective to love those around us as they want to be loved. In this episode, Kara and Jensie cover resentment and self-betrayal along with ways to identify both and most importantly, what to do when you find yourself in either space. Jump in to hear some ways to start small in learning to trust your gut and how to communicate with loved ones early and often.

Find all the resources and other goodies from this episode on our website.

Keywords

boundaries, accountability, self-care, personal growth, relationships, emotional health, setting limits, self-awareness, communication, personal development

Summary

This episode covers the 3 steps to setting boundaries: identifying where we need to set a boundary, determining what the boundary should be, and enforcing those boundaries. Setting boundaries takes practice and giving yourself grace—like so many other things in life.

Takeaways

• Boundaries are essential for personal accountability.
• You are the only one responsible for holding your boundaries.
• Start small when setting boundaries to build confidence.
• Identify areas in your life where you feel drained or resentful.
• Enforcing boundaries can be challenging but is necessary for self-care.
• Expect pushback when setting boundaries, especially from those who benefit from your lack of them.
• Communicate your boundaries positively to maintain relationships.
• Jealousy can arise in others when you set boundaries they can't or won't.
• Teaching boundaries to others is part of the process.
• Give yourself grace as you navigate the complexities of boundary setting.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Boundaries
02:48 Understanding Boundaries and Accountability
04:12 Identifying When to Set Boundaries
05:59 Starting Small with Boundaries
08:34 Practical Examples of Setting Boundaries
10:51 Enforcing Boundaries with Others
12:54 Teaching Boundaries to Children
14:37 Final Thoughts on Boundaries

Keywords

accountability, boundaries, emotional honesty, self-compassion, personal development, Ted Lasso, Brene Brown, leadership, emotional bandwidth, values-driven leadership

Summary

We think accountability partners are great tools, but what if you could be your own accountability partner? By taking the time to understand why you aren't doing the things you want to do instead of beating yourself up, you can become reliable to the most important person: yourself.

Takeaways

The intention of the season is to explore boundaries.
Setting boundaries requires understanding accountability.
Curiosity is key in accountability relationships.
Emotional labor is involved in being accountable.
Emotional honesty is a skill to develop.
Shame can hinder accountability and personal growth.
Recognizing reasons versus excuses is crucial for accountability.
Self-compassion is essential in holding oneself accountable.
The best version of oneself looks different every day.
Resources like Brene Brown can aid in understanding shame.

Titles

Navigating Accountability and Boundaries
The Power of Self-Compassion in Leadership

Sound bites

"Curiosity solves a lot of problems."
"Shame is like a flesh-eating bacteria."
"The best looks different every day."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Values-Driven Leadership
00:32 Exploring the Theme of Accountability
03:51 The Role of Accountability Partners
07:45 Becoming Your Own Accountability Partner
09:22 Understanding Emotional Bandwidth
12:01 The Impact of Emotional Honesty
15:22 Dismantling Shame in Accountability
19:22 Reasons vs. Excuses in Accountability
28:41 Reclaiming Accountability for Yourself