Show Notes for Ep 3: Pure Sound with Rob Cunningham

Rob has been searching for innovative, mind-blowing sounds ever since he was a little kid watching MTV in 1980s suburban Los Angeles. He tells his story of searching through rap, goth, metal, punk, industrial, electronic, experimental, 80s, and classical music. In part two we'll talk about kpop.

You can find playlists and reviews at his blog: https://theaquamarinelayer.blogspot.com/

Or on mastadon at: @toblaveistobluff@kind.social

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2:10 Thriller, Gangster Rap, Punk, Goth, Industrial, Electronic

5:53 Nine Inch Nails

7:45 Subcultures

14:08 Accessing music

18:11 Usenet, the changing internet, lull in the 2000s

22:02 “Have your kids shocked you with their music?”

26:55 KDVS radio

28:51 Losing a sense of direction in the musical archive

32:45 Pop sneaks in: 80s, Taylor Swift, and Spice Girls

40:22 Fandoms

44:20 The search for pure sound vs. big productions

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Key links

Thriller: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOnqjkJTMaA

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michael_Jackson%27s_Thriller_(music_video)Run DMC https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19tjJ0G-8V4

Nine Inch Nails https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ak7BQaaizlM

Nurse with Wound https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1efx5baXO-4

Helene Grimaud https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujO9p1u70Ac

KDVS: (22-23) www.kdvs.org

Taylor Swift Reputation tour https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLBk4xPhag-gT__wpprfT-7kTz7Wvl7oLF

Spice World https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spice_World_(film)

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More links

Beastie Boys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QkIB7YHbvc8

NWA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZuxPKUVGiw

Eazy-E https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mYn6Vz9X0VQ

Public Enemy https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLP1lC0FnuI0L5mKZdSVAazv8Os0gk82DX

Merzbow https://merzbow.bandcamp.com/album/pulse-demon

Aube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kpis9vRJmtM\&t=2313s

Incapacitants https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LSG3m5ujegA

Autechre https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fMT_NmagvZ8

Aphex Twin https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwAngCPxnHQ

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Who is a "typical suburban mom"? And what if they were never taught to people please? I talk to Sue Patterson about showing up authentically, partnering with your kids, and using your voice—even when it’s shaky. In many different spaces, from facebook groups to the school cafeteria, Sue meets people where they are, right now. Sue is a coach and podcaster whose website, Unschooling Mom2Mom, offers an accessible entry point for new unschooling families.

2:19: Defining unschooling 7:10 Journey to unschooling and living in the present 19:39 Sue’s background as an outspoken kid and psychiatric nurse 24:08 Changing culture by creating Unschooling Mom2Mom 41:33 Political speech and the typical suburban mom 58:28 Sue’s guiding principals

Unschooling Mom2Mom https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/

Sue’s podcast with quick unschooling tips https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/podcast

Sue’s substack https://unschooling.substack.com/

Homeschooled Teens book https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/product/homeschooled-teens-book

Strewing calendar https://www.unschoolingmom2mom.com/strewing-calendars

Home Education Magazine https://openlibrary.org/works/OL9625942W/The_Homeschool_Reader

The Unschooling Handbook: How to Use the Whole World as Your Child’s Curriculum Mary Griffith https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-unschooling-handbook-how-to-use-the-whole-world-as-your-child-s-classroom-mary-griffith/641440e51a6b16d8

John Taylor Gatto https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Taylor_Gatto

Pam Sarooshian https://livingjoyfully.ca/blog/2016/01/eu002-ten-questions-with-pam-sorooshian/

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How does deprogramming from a Christian Campus Cult in the 1980s connect with supporting parents as they navigate neurodivergence today? Delia Tetelman shares her story. Deprogramming didn’t stop with leaving the cult, it’s helped her with parenting, unschooling, mental health, and disability justice.

Delia and I are part of the admin team for a free support group, Unschooling Every Family. The group helps families who are just beginning to learn about ableism and non-coercion. https://unschoolingeveryfamily.com/

2:17 What is Unschooling? 11:49 Delia’s background in a toxic family system and high control religion 20:48 Christian Campus Cult indoctrination in the 1980s 31:28 Deprogramming and the house of cards 46:05 Life after the cult 51:58 Reflective parenting 57:59 Neurodiversity and mentalization 1:09:28 The link between deprogramming and connection parenting

Help with high control religion and coercive control:

Steve Hassan’s “BITE model” https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model-pdf-download/

National Domestic Violence hotline https://www.thehotline.org/

Mentioned in this episode:

Cults to Consciousness podcast https://www.youtube.com/c/CultstoConsciousness

Maranatha https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maranatha_Campus_Ministries

Peter Fonagy discussing mentalization on “The Life Scientific” https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000dpj2

Reflective Parenting https://www.reflectivecommunities.org/what-is-reflective-parenting

Reflective Communication in unschooling and/or neurodivergence https://unschoolingeveryfamily.com/start-here/4/#guide-3-connection-parenting-reflective-parenting

Treating Personality Disorders in Children and Adolescents A Relational Approach by Efrain Bleiberg https://www.guilford.com/books/Treating-Personality-Disorders-in-Children-and-Adolescents/Efrain-Bleiberg/9781593850180

Trauma Geek resources on the intersection of neurodiversity and mental health https://www.traumageek.com/

Rayne Depukat, neurodivergent and homeschooling coach, ASL translator https://www.linkedin.com/in/rayne-depukat/

Autistic Values https://neuroclastic.com/the-identity-theory-of-autism-values-are-not-opinions-to-autistics-we-are-our-values/

All Our Families: Disability Lineage and the Future of Kinship, by Jennifer Natalya Fink https://www.jennifernatalyafink.com/

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What leads you in those moments when you realize, "You must change your life"? What joys, creative projects, values, or sense of purpose guide your next step and help you untangle yourself from bias and limiting beliefs?

Coming soon.

Archaic Torso of Apollo, by Rainer Maria Rilke

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