Is he your person, or have you just invested too much time explaining his texts to your friends? Serena Kerrigan joins Chloe to talk dating the same guy in a different font, her three P theory (practice, potential, plot), and what makes “the one” feel so different from the rest. From staying too long to making your boyfriend your entire personality, consider this your guide to investing in yourself, building a life you love, and making room for someone without losing yourself or needing them to complete you.

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You wrote in, and Chloe is answering. This week’s inbox includes an ex who became a changed man the second it was too late, a casual fling whose personality disappeared after sex, a bedroom problem no one wants to say out loud, and a bride-to-be who discovered her fiancé had a secret life. Let’s get into it.

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He’s avoidant. She’s projecting. Or maybe they’re just being weird? Chloe sits down with The Psychology of Your 20s host Jemma Sbeg to talk about why uncertainty makes us obsessed, when psychoanalyzing turns into excuse-making, and why understanding someone doesn’t mean you have to tolerate them. Plus: unavailable men, healthy love, and the suspiciously productive power of heartbreak.

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