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Are you prepared to hear “no”—or hear nothing at all—from civilian employers after years of successful military service?

In this episode, I sit down with Tom Hoover, a soon-to-be retired U.S. Air Force Senior Master Sergeant with 25 years of service, for an unarmored conversation about the realities of transitioning into the civilian workforce.

Tom shares his firsthand experience with job rejection, being ghosted by employers, and learning not to let either define his value. We discuss the importance of patience, networking, translating military experience into civilian language, improving resumes for ATS systems, and continuing to move forward when the hiring process doesn’t go as expected.

Most importantly, we talk about the mental side of transition and why service members should prepare themselves not only for their next career—but also for the rejection and uncertainty that may come along the way.

If you’re preparing to leave the military, already transitioning, or supporting someone who is, this conversation is for you.

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🔗 Guest Link: Tom Hoover | LinkedIn

CHAPTERS

00:00 – Welcome & Guest Introduction
00:58 – Tom’s Air Force Story & Family
02:03 – SkillBridge & Helping Veterans Transition
03:24 – When the Job Email Says No
09:55 – Applying Widely & Handling Silence
11:15 – Networking Without Asking for a Job
13:38 – Advice to Younger Service Members
17:17 – Where to Find Tom & Closing

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What happens when your mind says, “keep going,” but your body says, “you’re done”?

You can be disciplined, prepared, and relentless—and still hit a wall you can’t outwork.

In this episode of Unarmored Talk, U.S. Army veteran Derik Robinson gets unarmored about resilience, identity, and the hidden cost of constantly pushing through.

From a sink-or-swim upbringing to military leadership, Derik built his life around grit and perseverance. But after an injury, a grueling ruck march, deployment, and ultimately a medical board, he was forced to rethink what success and failure really mean.

What is the end result you want—and is the path you’re taking sustainable enough to get you there?

CHAPTERS

00:00 – Welcome & Why Resilience Matters
01:21 – Who Derik Is & Contact Info
02:10 – Growing Up: Sink or Swim
05:14 – Training Injury & Ruck March Collapse
09:01 – Losing Control & Redefining Failure
11:49 – Deploying Anyway—Then Everything Breaks
16:53 – Advice for Sustainable Success
19:17 – Final Thanks & Mental Fitness

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What happens when the schoolyard bully grows up and enters the workforce?

In this episode of Unarmored Talk, I sit down with Joseph Musse II, author of Bullies: They’re Not Just in Schoolyards Anymore, to explore how bullying follows us into adulthood—showing up in workplaces through intimidation, manipulation, humor, authority, and the pressure to constantly overdeliver.

Joseph gets unarmored about his own past, including admitting he once bullied others, and how those experiences helped him recognize similar behaviors later in his career. We unpack boundaries, identity, control, the power of saying “no,” and recognizing when dedication to your job starts costing you your peace.

🎙️ Whether you work in corporate America, government, the military, education, healthcare, the trades, or anywhere in between, this conversation is for you.

CHAPTERS
0:00 — Welcome And The Big Question
1:20 — Share The Show And Meet Joseph
2:12 — A Life Built On Skill And Faith
5:36 — From Teen Bully To Self-Reflection
10:25 — Getting Bullied In Corporate Life
13:36 — Guilt Trips, Subtle Threats, Control
24:31 — Boundaries, Balance, Saying No
27:39 — The Blueprint To Becoming Unbullyable
34:47 — Consequences, Purpose, And The Mirror

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🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jmusse

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Bullies: They’re Not Just in Schoolyards Anymore! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B015CYHD80?ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_2V3AAPJ7Q88DHBQ44JVH&bestFormat=true

Bullies: The Blueprint to Becoming Unbullyable - https://www.amazon.com/BULLIES-Blueprint-Unbullyable-Joseph-Musse-ebook/dp/B0HD1L5KFC

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When was the last time you realized that you—not your team—were part of the leadership problem?

That realization can be painful, but it can also begin your most important growth.

In this episode, Dr. Lisa DeVore, United States Air Force veteran and author of Pawprints on Leadership, shares how she confronted a low-empathy leadership moment and chose to grow from it.

We discuss how authoritarian leadership models can cause us to prioritize rules and results over people, why reflection and apology matter, and how emotional intelligence and active listening make us better leaders.

Lisa also explores the importance of followership and the lessons she learned from Bailey, her service dog—including the powerful truth that sometimes the person leading us has no title or words, just greater awareness.

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Book — Pawprints on Leadership: [https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0G2L2VZ89?ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_SAMWGJ2YXEZ7DBNCB1PP&bestFormat=true]

LinkedIn: [Dr. Lisa DeVore, PMP, SSM | LinkedIn]

Chapters

00:00 — Welcome and Guest Introduction
02:49 — Lisa’s Air Force-to-Space Force Path
04:21 — Owning a Low-Empathy Leadership Moment
07:15 — How Authoritarian Models Shaped Her
08:41 — Why a Trusted Teammate Stayed
12:51 — Followership as a Leadership Skill
16:32 — Letting Bailey Lead When It Matters
18:29 — Pause, Observe, and Give Yourself Grace
20:01 — Where to Find Lisa and Final Sendoff

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What happens when the funniest military memories also carry the deepest meaning?

I’m joined by my friend and fellow Marine, retired Master Gunnery Sergeant Adam Walker, to discuss his self-published book, Laughing and Crying as a U.S. Marine: Authentic Short Stories.

Adam shares his five-year writing plan, why he chose self-publishing, and how he made military stories accessible to Marines and their families. We also discuss building the right creative team and his hilarious boot camp “moment of truth.”

Chapters:

0:00 – Welcome and Adam Walker’s Story
2:25 – Getting the Book and Finding Adam
3:20 – Building a Five-Year Writing Plan
7:00 – Self-Publishing Without Losing Control
10:32 – Boot Camp Truth and the Candy Bar
12:50 – Writing for Marines and Families
16:10 – Cover Design and the Creative Team
18:39 – Trust Your Gut and Wrap-Up

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Amazon.com: Laughing and Crying as a U.S. Marine: Authentic Short Stories: 9798218924157: Walker, Adam: Books

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Have You Been So Busy Taking Care of Everyone Else That You Forgot About Yourself?

In this episode, I am joined by Amber Houghton, a retired U.S. Air Force Chief Master Sergeant and founder of Elite Performance Strategies. Together, we explore the leadership trap—the tendency to spend so much time caring for others that we lose sight of ourselves.

Amber shares how military service, leadership, retirement, divorce, and personal transition challenged her identity and taught her the importance of resilience, healthy boundaries, and self-care. Whether you're a leader, parent, caregiver, veteran, or someone others depend on, this conversation offers practical insights to help you care for others without abandoning yourself.

👇 Chapters:

0:00 Welcome And Meet Amber Houghton
1:45 A Rough Start And A 28-Year Career
6:08 When The Strong One Falls Apart
8:22 Divorce, Blame, And The Cost Of Armor
11:16 The Helper Addiction And The Boundary Wake-Up
14:38 Enforcing Boundaries With Kindness
17:00 Ask Better Questions Before You Help
19:35 Do Not Abandon Yourself
21:11 Connection Over Isolation And Closing

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Have you ever wondered how one moment can change the rest of your life?

A rollover crash on a dark Montana highway changed everything for Army veteran Darshan Shanti. The accident left him with a traumatic brain injury, severe injuries to his hand and arm, and a year-long recovery that forced one powerful question: What meaning do you attach to what happened?

In this episode, Darshan shares his journey from Army medic to survivor, revealing how resilience, perspective, and embracing progress—not chasing the "old version" of himself—transformed his recovery.

We also have an honest conversation about mental health. Darshan opens up about his personal experiences with medication side effects, including suicidal thoughts while taking gabapentin, how THC negatively affected him during recovery, and the challenges of living with multiple sclerosis. Together, we discuss why self-awareness, asking for help, and support from trusted friends and healthcare professionals can make a life-saving difference.

Chapters
00:00 – Welcome & Guest Introduction
01:43 – Army Life & Constant Pressure
04:38 – The Montana Rollover & Recovery
07:39 – Mindset & The Meaning We Choose
10:34 – Medication Side Effects & Dark Thoughts
16:08 – A Future That Pulls You Forward
18:43 – Self-Love & Getting Help
20:31 – How To Connect & Final Words

If this conversation encouraged you, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. What part of Darshan's story resonated with you the most? Let us know in the comments—we'd love to hear your thoughts.

Darshan’s website: https://savingourveterans.com/

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What separates someone who has a leadership title from someone people genuinely want to follow?

In this episode, I am joined by Mark J. O’Loughlin, a retired Marine Corps Sergeant Major whose 30-year career includes infantry leadership, drill instructor duty, deployments to Desert Storm and Iraq, and senior roles supporting wounded Marines. Mark shares lessons from his new book, Validated Leadership, built around five practical leadership rules designed for real life—not just theory.

We discuss why organizations often promote top performers into leadership roles without preparing them to lead, what behaviors help teams succeed, and how empathy, accountability, and difficult conversations shape stronger leaders.

Whether you're leading a team, a family, or stepping into a new leadership role, this conversation delivers practical takeaways you can apply immediately.

Chapters:

0:00 Welcome and Mission Plus Thanks
2:34 From Iowa Farm to Sergeant Major
5:46 Helping Veterans Through Psych Armor Work
7:19 Building Leadership Rules into A Book
9:40 The Moment He Started Writing
13:00 Rule One: Care About People
15:20 Learn More About Mark and Validated Leadership
17:11 Financial Counseling and Hard Truths
20:55 One Practical Tip for New Authors
22:19 Final Takeaways and Sign Off

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