Hey UN•THERAPIST,

We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something. Can we judge yesterday by today's rules?

We started with a conversation about food.

If someone remixes a recipe, changes the ingredients, or adapts it for another culture… who owns it? Does the origin still matter? Or does the person who evolved it get to claim it?

Then we shifted into memoirs.

How much of what we believe about people is based on who they really are… versus the version of themselves we were allowed to see? And if a memoir reveals something new decades later, should it change how we view them?

Then the conversation took another turn…

As children, we saw the world through one lens. As adults, we see it through another.

So here's the question...

Did the rules actually change… or did we?

📌 Are we judging the past by today's standards?
📌 Or are we finally seeing yesterday with mature eyes?
📌 Are we going by the law… or by a moral code?
📌 And if it's a moral code… whose moral code? Yesterday's? Today's? Society's? Our own?

Because context may explain a decision… but should it excuse it? And if society changes, should our judgment change with it?

Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE origins vs ownership, memoirs and changing perceptions, and whether yesterday should be judged by today's rules… or yesterday's.

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Hey UN•THERAPIST,

We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something, and we've got a question...

📌 Are red flags really red flags… or are we the actual “red flags”?

It feels like dating has become a game of disqualification. We're so focused on finding what we don't want that we sometimes forget to recognize what we do want.

Then we started asking an even bigger question...

📌 Have we redefined dating?

Some people have redefined commitment. Others have redefined infidelity. Some have even redefined what it means to be intentional in a relationship.

📌 But if everyone keeps changing the definitions... what standards are we actually dating by?

Then we landed on what might be the biggest question of the night...

📌 What's the difference between intentionality and alignment?
📌 Someone can be intentional with you. They can communicate, pursue you, and genuinely want a relationship. But does that automatically mean you're aligned?
📌 If a relationship ends after years together, were you ever truly aligned... or were you simply intentional?

More importantly...

📌 How do you measure alignment before investing years of your life?
📌 Is there a barometer for it?
📌 Or is alignment something we only recognize after we've lost it?

Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE red flags vs personal filters, changing relationship standards, intentionality vs alignment, and whether we're dating for compatibility... or just hoping it shows up along the way.

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Hey UN•THERAPIST,

We need your help UN•THERAPIZING something…

Let's start with something light…

If you bring food or drinks to an event and they go unused, is it tacky to take them home?

📌 Does it depend on the event?
📌 Is a potluck different from a birthday party?
📌 Once something enters the event, does it belong to the host or to the person who brought it?

Then somehow the conversation evolved into something much deeper…

📌 What actually qualifies someone to carry a title?
📌 What makes someone a caterer?
📌 Is it the person who cooks the food?
📌 The person who owns the business?
📌 The person who creates the experience?
📌 Can you cater without cooking?

And that led us to an even bigger question…

When it comes to professionals, how much proof is required?

If someone says they're a doctor, a chef, or a professional in their field, is experience enough? Is licensing enough? Is documentation necessary? And if someone cannot immediately produce proof, does that automatically invalidate their knowledge, training, or work?

Because underneath all of this is a bigger question…

Do you become a professional when someone grants you permission… or when your work proves it?

Have we become so focused on credentials that we've forgotten that every expert was once a beginner?

So now we're asking…

Do titles come from participation… or validation?
From skill… or certification?
From experience… or recognition?

And who ultimately gets to decide?

Join us for another session of UN•THERAPY as we UN•THERAPIZE event etiquette, ownership of leftovers, credentials vs competence, and whether professionalism comes from permission… or proof.

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