I am back with Chapter 2 of my conversation with Addy! Addy and I dive right into adjusting to motherhood—specifically, the mental and physical transition of having two under two.

Going from one child to two is a completely different ballgame, and Addy opens up about the feelings of being “outnumbered,” the mental battles of the early postpartum weeks, and how she learned to navigate the chaos.

We talk about the stigma around asking for help, how to have compassion for moms who are genuinely not loving motherhood right now, and the reality of postpartum recovery. Whether you’re currently in the thick of it, pregnant with your second, or just need to hear that you aren't alone, this episode is a reminder that you can do this.

Key Takeaways & Topics Covered:

The Reality of Two Under Two: Addy shares her honest experience adjusting to life with two littles, and how to survive when you feel outnumbered.

The Power of Asking for Help: Why it is so hard for mothers to ask for help, how to accept it even if you are feeling like a burden, and a sneak peek at a new planner I am working on to help moms coordinate their support village!

Compassion for the Struggle: Discussing the Reddit threads of moms who hate motherhood—how we can create safe, non-judgmental spaces for moms to vent and feel appreciated for their thankless work.

Taking Care of Your Body Postpartum: Rejecting the toxic "bounce back" culture. Addy and I share what we are actually doing to move our bodies in a healthy way (from her morning walks and yoga to my return to the swimming pool).

Dividing Your Attention: Realizing that the way you parented your first child won't be the same way you parent your second—and why it’s okay if one baby has to cry for a minute while you help the other.

A Word of Encouragement: Addy’s heartfelt advice to moms who are currently pregnant with their second baby and feeling terrified.

Quotes to Remember:

"It’s okay to get help. It takes you out of isolation, you get restful time, and you become a better mother."

"You are only one person. You can do the best you can, but you can't expect yourself to duplicate."

"Just as we want to go serve people, we need to help others have the opportunity to serve."

Connect With Me:

Listen to Chapter 1:

https://youtu.be/X04Gz4rMG2A?si=6gAUM__HsMppj2cL

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