This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the little turn-offs that can make a big difference in the lifestyle. From endless talkers who don’t know when to zip it, to naughty pics that miss the mark, to distracted dates and space-invading flirts, the hosts share their own pet peeves while weighing in on those shared by listeners. Playful, cheeky, and just a touch wicked, this episode proves that sometimes the sexiest sparks come from knowing what not to do.

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(00:00:00) We asked our listeners

(00:01:53) People who dominate the conversation

(00:07:10) Good listeners may be more responsive in play sessions

(00:08:21) Dick pics

(00:11:50 ) It’s a numbers game

(00:12:48) Naked Man - flashback to Episode 9 at 00:32:00

(00:15:47) Pussy pics

(00:16:15) Pics the ladies find sexy

(00:18:04) Ignoring DM’s, ghosting and communication etiquette

(00:23:39) Distracted dates

(00:25:54) Cock shock collars and pocket pussies

(00:26:19) Halitosis and smoking

(00:31:38) Interrupting closed conversations

(00:36:06) Lifestyle culture

(00:38:36) Posers

(00:39:30) Personal space

(00:40:43) Being too handsy or overly friendly

(00:43:12) Women may view interactions differently than men

(00:48:50) Difficulty talking about having sex with potential partners

(00:52:14) Talking yourself out of a play session when you know too much

(00:55:02) Future podcast topic…join the conversation on Peaches’nCream

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Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany explore all the delicious perks of the lifestyle that go far beyond the playroom. From the intoxicating energy of a Bliss event to the thrill of dressing up and letting desire set the tone, these playful vampires share how swinging fuels confidence, deepens connection, and sparks sexual liberation. It’s proof that sometimes the sweetest bites are found in the moments between the sheets.

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(00:00:00) How most couples define success in the lifestyle

(00:01:46) Benefits from Bliss other than playing

(00:03:30) If you’re considering the lifestyle, this is for you

(00:07:00) You can be yourself

(00:08:01) There’s great energy

(00:08:40) There’s warm and comforting, yet also anxious energy

(00:09:25) The razor’s edge between anxiety and excitement

(00:10:51) Reframing and resetting expectations

(00:11:24) Anticipation instead of expectations

(00:11:44) A sexual atmosphere is important

(00:13:06) Bliss group play room

(00:15:24) Bliss Dance ‘n Play

(00:18:17) Redefining success

(00:19:44) Zack enjoys voyeurism

(00:23:18) Josie is more comfortable watching porn than live action

(00:25:10) Scarlet Ranch group playroom

(00:27:29) Better and more fun vacations

(00:29:48) Giving up control and feeling youthful

(00:32:30) Dressing in theme and feeling sexy

(00:35:18) Comments are welcomed in the lifestyle

(00:38:15) If you like it try it, be who you want to be

(00:40:32) Pump up your volume!

(00:42:47) Increased confidence through self expression

(00:45:00) Fake it ‘til you make it

(00:48:06) Squeeze every benefit out of every event

(00:49:25) Exposure to new ideas or kinks

(00:53:35) Experiences, exploration, liberation, communication

(00:56:00) Deeper, more connected relationships

(00:57:32) The lifestyle community is very accepting

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany break down why judgment isn’t always a dirty word—it’s simply part of deciding what (and who) makes you tingle. These playful vampires of the mic aren’t here to drain the fun—they’re teasing apart why “judgment-free” might be more fantasy than fact. From judging to being judged, they share stories of decisions (not damnations), kinks that don’t quite fit, and the delicate dance of acceptance versus attraction. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this conversation proves that a little judgment can be just as sexy as it is honest.

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(00:00:00) Is the lifestyle really judgment free

(00:04:10) Judgment defined

(00:05:39) An example of judgment

(00:06:16) Why the topic of judgment came up(00:09:12) Digging on use of the word and why we use it

(00:11:06) Politics and other musings

(00:13:27) Not less judgmental just more accepting

(00:14:58) Salted Caramel Cookie and Swappertunity69

(00:16:08) Tell me more about that

(00:18:13) Replace ‘judgment’ with ‘decisions’

(00:19:54) Kinks and preferences that aren’t our own

(00:21:35) Kink vs lifestyle vs swingers

(00:24:02) Judgment and the feelings judgment creates

(00:28:14) Ways to handle feeling judged

(00:31:43) Being accepting doesn’t auto translate to fucking

(00:33:12) Introverts and extroverts experience the lifestyle differently

(00:38:05) Common perceptions of introverts vs extroverts

(00:41:36) A potential strategy for introverts

(00:42:37) Judgments we’ve each made

(00:49:57) Trust and transparency is valuable to us

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This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into one of the most talked-about topics in the lifestyle: red flags. And this time, it’s not just their own perspectives—they’re debating the warning signs shared by listeners on Peaches’nCream. From couples who feel like “fresh meat,” to partners who aren’t on the same page, to those misleading photos (or no photos at all), the crew unpacks the signals that can make or break a connection. But it’s not all caution tape—there are plenty of green flags, too, from inclusivity to empowerment and stretching comfort zones. With playful banter, candid stories, and just enough bite, this episode will leave you laughing, nodding along, and maybe rethinking your own approach to the lifestyle.

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(00:00:00) We asked our listeners

(00:02:29) Red Flag 1: We are new and feel like ‘fresh meat’

(00:04:41) Being inclusive is more fun for everyone

(00:07:00) Red Flag 2: Disrespecting their own partner

(00:08:48) When one partner isn’t ‘into it’ and needs to drink to play

(00:10:46) Red Flag 3: Too much attention can be a turn off

(00:12:10) Red Flag 4: Name dropping

(00:15:54) Red Flag 5: Misleading or just missing photos…of him

(00:17:17) Meeting virtually before an in-person meeting

(00:21:04) Sunday night booty call

(00:24:16) Everyone gets to do it their way

(00:25:00) Green flags!

(00:30:16) Expanding your comfort zone boundaries

(00:33:00) Sexual liberation and empowerment

(00:35:30) Talking about erections before a play session

(00:40:29) When the dick shot doesn’t work

(00:43:50) Sexual liberation and penis evolution

(00:45:18) Red Flag 6: When couples or singles start messaging outside the group chat

(00:45:42) Hooking up with someone of the same sex without your partner’s consent

(00:48:29) Red Flag 6 may not a red flag for everyone

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This week, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their fangs into a topic every lifestyle couple needs to hear—how to step up your game in and out of the bedroom. From first impressions that make her decide “yes” or “no” in ten seconds flat, to why looking like you “phoned it in” could cost you more than a date, the hosts share playful but practical advice for both husbands and wives on standing out for all the right reasons. With cheeky metaphors and plenty of flirty banter, they remind vampires that authenticity, effort, and a little polish go a long way toward making connections—and earning repeat invitations. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned swinger, this episode proves that with a few tweaks, you can go from being a commodity to an unforgettable brand… and maybe even become the one everyone wants to sink their teeth into.

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(00:00:00) Top Tips for Lifestyle Husbands

(00:02:33) It feels like some men just phone it in

(00:04:42) A thought experiment

(00:06:33) Lack of care in appearance may carry into the bedroom

(00:08:05) It only takes 10 seconds for her to decide it’s a ‘no’

(00:10:25) You may develop a reputation…make it a good one!

(00:11:26) Being a product vs a commodity

(00:14:02) Spider monkey

(00:15:21) What is a brand and where do you convey (explain, portray)

(00:18:35) First impressions and attractions

(00:20:56) Attracting attention and being authentic

(00:23:48) Authenticity can be scary

(00:26:21) Real people make the lifestyle more rewarding

(00:28:40) Showing your authentic self can take time for various reasons

(00:32:15) Performance and improving your skills

(00:36:33) Being responsive is a skill and is easier with an expressive partner

(00:42:50) Why we created Two Plus Two

(00:48:29) Your ticket to having more fun

(00:50:13) The homework assignment

(00:52:34) Small tweaks may produce better results

(00:54:00) Join us on PnC, on the journey and on a trip!

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into nine of the most common myths about the swinging lifestyle. From the idea that swingers are just “sex-obsessed commitment-phobes” to the belief that every event is one giant orgy, the hosts pull back the velvet curtain and reveal what really happens when vampires come out to play. With humor, honesty, and a few cheeky double takes, they bust misconceptions that scare off the curious and confuse the vanillas. Whether you’re a newbie, considering the lifestyle, or just love a good myth-busting session, this episode proves that swinging isn’t all about sex—it’s about connection, communication, and maybe just a little bit of delicious mischief.

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(00:00:00) Swingers and baby oil

(00:02:05) Myth One: Swingers are just sex obsessed people who can’t commit

(00:03:45) Maybe we’re just more open about sex

(00:05:54) We commit to exploring our sexuality

(00:08:52) We can see why vanillas believe this myth

(00:10:32) Myth Two: Swinging is just cheating with permission

(00:14:26) Myth Three: Swinger events are just wild sex orgies

(00:17:04) The image vs the reality

(00:20:56) Playroom etiquette and orgies

(00:22:50) Myth Four: Once you swing your relationship is doomed

(00:24:43) You can try the lifestyle and later change your mind

(00:26:41) The lifestyle can mean different things to different people

(00:28:59) Myth Five: Women are pressured into the lifestyle to please their husbands

(00:31:42) Men may be more likely to bring the topic up

(00:34:52) It gave the women permission to explore the idea

(00:37:25) Success in the lifestyle is all about your resources

(00:39:47) Myth Six: Swingers will hit on you anywhere

(00:41:11) Every swinger needs a ‘how we met’ cover story

(00:45:48) How vanillas react when they find out you’re swingers

(00:46:23) Myth Seven: Swinging is only for couples

(00:47:57) Myth Eight: Swingers are never jealous or insecure

(00:51:36) What we’re thinking as we look around in a group of swingers

(00:53:36) Missed opportunities occur with lack of communication

(00:54:32) Why this misconception may exist

(00:55:12) Myth Nine: The lifestyle is all about sex

(00:57:41) If it’s not all about sex, what is it about?

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany sink their teeth into the playful, pulse-quickening art of flirting in the lifestyle. From subtle glances to sizzling banter, the foursome shares their favorite ways to spark interest—whether one-on-one or as a perfectly in-sync team. They explore the idea of a “flirt language” and how it compares to love languages, all while keeping that all-important four-way chemistry alive. With tips on mirroring your partner, striking while the iron’s hot, and blending business-savvy confidence with bedroom charm, these sexy vampires prove that flirting isn’t just foreplay—it’s a skill worth mastering. Plus, they bite into the pros and cons of teasing over text versus turning up the heat in person.

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(00:00:00) Anticipation of what may cum

(00:04:01) Flirting ‘techniques’

(00:07:10) Giving compliments without an agenda

(00:12:24) Flirting in your love language…that wasn’t the question

(00:15:33) Being flirted with in the way you flirt with others

(00:18:59) Flirting is tedious to a degree

(00:20:07) Flirting as an individual while keeping the four way connection in mind

(00:21:47) Dynamics of flirting in the lifestyle as couples

(00:23:55) When the women start things it’s easier for the men

(00:26:06) Mirror your partner’s actions

(00:28:19) Girls are flirting, but your partner’s not interested

(00:30:11) Tag team flirting…it’s an art

(00:33:49) The lifestyle is very similar to business

(00:36:32) There are lots of ways to approach the lifestyle

(00:39:57) Playing to our strengths to create opportunities

(00:44:08) Assertiveness plays a role and is situational

(00:49:34) Striking while the iron is hot

(00:52:08) Flirting over text vs in person

(00:56:00) Takeaways

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