A listener’s message sparks one of the most emotionally loaded conversations we’ve ever had as lifestyle parents. After receiving a text from her adult daughter that read, “I know about you and dad’s extracurricular activities,” we’re forced to confront a question many couples quietly avoid: What happens when your kids know… or might know… about your life?

We unpack the initial wave of fear, embarrassment, and panic, but quickly move beyond the shock to something deeper—what it actually means to live openly and honestly when you’re confident in your choices. While none of our children know yet, Zack and Josie share why they’re preparing to tell their oldest daughters, answering the question Brad and Brittany posed: Why tell them at all?

This episode isn’t about justifying the lifestyle or asking for permission. It’s about being grounded in your “why,” trusting yourself, and showing up without defensiveness. We talk about how being “out” can bring relief, clarity, and stronger boundaries, and why authenticity often matters more than perfect timing or flawless delivery.

We also explore the realities parents wrestle with—how different kids may react very differently, how siblings can complicate things, and why the real conversation often isn’t about sex at all. It’s about values, honesty, and modeling what it looks like to live a full, intentional life.

If you’ve ever wondered whether openness could bring peace—or if staying silent is really protecting anyone—this episode sits right in that uncomfortable, powerful space between fear and freedom.

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(00:00:00) MrsCaliente Cookies’ question

(00:02:36) Your parents’ sex life

(00:04:28) Initial reactions to the message

(00:06:35) How did she find out and is it relevant?

(00:09:14) A cautionary tale about text messages

(00:12:50) Some children can handle it and others may not be able to

(00:14:23) Your own opinion of the lifestyle can drive the conversation

(00:16:27) Siblings may share the news with one another

(00:18:01) Walking in on your parents

(00:21:18) I’ve got a secret!

(00:22:34) We’re planning to tell our kids soon

(00:26:11) Disclaimer: it’s not just about having sex with other people

(00:28:31) One couples’ son decided to get in the LS after ‘the conversation’

(00:29:44) Focus on being authentic

(00:30:25) Is this possible given recent struggles?

(00:36:07) Relief can come from being ‘out’

(00:37:41) Why the qualifiers?

(00:42:15) Request to not play in her daughter’s town

(00:46:16) Get to the bottom of the real concerns and address those

(00:48:59) Readdressing the conversation after your initial reaction

(00:52:44) You don’t need to convince anybody

(00:54:00) Living your life for yourself and not your kids

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Callie is back—returning guest from our STD episode—for a much-needed deep dive into women’s health in the lifestyle. Joined by Zack, Josie, and Brittany, this conversation tackles the realities many women face but rarely hear clearly explained, especially in non-monogamous spaces.

We start by unpacking how women are often forced to crowdsource health advice from friends instead of providers, and why women’s health research has historically been overlooked. From there, Callie shares her professional experience alongside real-world frustrations many lifestyle women encounter with doctors who don’t ask the right questions—or don’t know what to test for.

The episode covers prevention, testing frequency, and what actually spreads (spoiler: it’s not toilet seats). We dig into HSV, BV, vaginal pH changes, biological incompatibility, boric acid, probiotics, wipes, supplements, and how condoms, flavored lubes, hormones, IUDs, and HRT can all impact vaginal health. Callie also explains why standard NAAT tests can be limited, why specificity with your provider matters, and what to do if you think you’ve been exposed.

We also explore the financial and logistical hurdles of testing, insurance limitations, responsibility to partners, and navigating the lifestyle while trying to conceive or managing conditions like Hashimoto’s. Throughout the conversation, one message stays clear: listen to your body, advocate for yourself, and find a provider you trust—even if it takes time.

This episode is educational, candid, and empowering—because taking care of yourself is part of taking care of the people you play with.

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(00:00:00) Women often get health advice from other women

(00:03:48) Specific study of women’s health has been ignored for a long time

(00:05:19) Callie’s professional experience and our experiences of other professionals

(00:07:12) Best methods of prevention and frequency of testing

(00:08:42) HSV

(00:10:06) Toilet seats may be dirty…but not responsible for STD’s

(00:10:57) Annual exams and pap smears

(00:14:52) Your pH and vaginal health can be impacted

(00:16:01) Boric acid, cleaning and probiotics

(00:17:12) pH wipes and biological incompatibility

(00:17:55) Uqora and other supplements

(00:21:28) This is not medical advice

(00:23:05) Communicating effectively with your provider

(00:27:30) What is Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and how is it spread?

(00:31:58) Condoms and flavored lubes

(00:34:56) What to test for and frequency

(00:38:43) NAAT tests are very basic tests and and are not specific

(00:40:41) Be specific with your provider

(00:42:42) Best course of action if you’ve been exposed

(00:44:00) Some tests are expensive and insurance won’t cover them

(00:45:34) Overcoming hurdles to testing

(00:47:50) Being responsible in keeping others safe

(00:49:21) Fluctuation in women’s bodies, hormones and the IUD

(00:51:56) Trying to get pregnant and the lifestyle

(00:53:12) Hashimoto’s and birth control

(00:58:56) HRT

(01:01:20) Listen to your body and find a doctor who you trust

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In this candid — and hilariously honest — conversation, all four hosts tackle a topic that rarely gets talked about openly: uncircumcised penises. Brad opens up about growing up uncut in a world where it wasn’t common, including the insecurity, teasing, and the unforgettable childhood nickname “Snuffleupagus.” We explore real-world differences between circumcised and uncircumcised penises — sensitivity, oral sex, comfort in underwear, hygiene myths, and the realities of sex and play.

Brad shares the story of the moment he thought he “broke” his penis as a teenager (spoiler: he didn’t — but his foreskin was never the same). Josie and Brittany reflect on what it was like the first time they experienced Brad’s body, and we unpack the stigma some couples still have about playing with uncut men — where it comes from, and how it affects confidence and connection.

With lots of laughs, vulnerability, and plenty of good-natured teasing, we also talk about whether — and how — someone might disclose being uncut to new play partners… including a few fun and sexy ways to say it. This episode is equal parts educational, compassionate, and delightfully irreverent — and definitely one you won’t forget.

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(00:00:00) I was different

(00:04:16) Kids are cruel

(00:05:44) What women should know

(00:07:46) The tip is really sensitive when the skin is pulled back

(00:08:48) I thought I broke my penis

(00:10:49) Blowing one for the first time

(00:13:53) The foreskin and using lube

(00:15:13) New partners

(00:19:15) Hygiene

(00:20:46) Most women are receptive

(00:21:59) I view it as a positive

(00:23:35) Why some have ‘no uncut’ in their profiles

(00:25:22) Ignorance

(00:26:17) Things can get funky

(00:27:50) Zack Stats

(00:29:28) To circumcise or not to circumcise

(00:34:17) Brad is in good company

(00:35:48) Pulling it back

(00:38:45) Suck it!

(00:40:24) Sharing information ahead of playing

(00:42:41) Not many women are forward

(00:44:59) They come in all different shapes and sizes

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