How many of the limits in your life are real... and how many are stories you've stopped questioning?

In this episode of Trying to Figure This Out, Clifton explores how experiences become identities, why we often mistake familiar stories for truth, and how a single question can change the way we see ourselves. This isn't about having all the answers—it's about becoming curious enough to question the stories that have quietly shaped our lives.

Why did I start a podcast? In this check-in, I share the story behind Trying to Figure This Out—why I've wanted to do this for years, what finally pushed me to begin, and the kind of community I hope we build together. This isn't a place for perfect answers. It's a place for honest conversations with people who are trying to grow, learn, and make sense of life one conversation at a time. If you've been wondering where this podcast is headed, this episode is for you.

Where do our beliefs come from? More importantly, have we ever stopped to question them? In this episode, I reflect on the ideas we inherit from family, teachers, coaches, and life itself—and how some of those beliefs continue to shape us long after we've outgrown them. This isn't a conversation about changing careers; it's about examining the stories we've been telling ourselves and asking whether they still fit the person we're becoming. Sometimes, one honest question can change the direction of your life.