What if success isn't about earning more—but having more of your life to actually live?

After 23 years in the U.S. Air Force, Martin Foster reached a crossroads. The conventional next step was clear: transition into a government or contracting career, continue building financial security, and follow the path many military retirees take.

Instead, Martin chose himself.

In this episode of Live Beautifully, Martin joins Lacey for a deeply personal conversation about stepping away from the expected path and going all-in on the work that makes him feel most alive: podcasting.

Martin shares how losing his father at just 11 years old continues to shape the way he thinks about time, why retiring at 44 changed his definition of wealth, and how he traded some financial comfort for something he values even more—being “time rich and purpose rich.”

Together, Lacey and Martin explore the invisible progress that comes with betting on yourself, learning to set boundaries after a lifetime of service, choosing presence with family, and letting go of the need to explain a life other people may not understand.

The conversation also brings their story full circle. Years ago, Martin invited Lacey onto his podcast and asked her to choose one word to describe her life. Her answer—fluid—stayed with her long after their conversation ended. Now, sitting on the other side of the microphone, Lacey returns the question.

Martin's word?

Outlier.

Because sometimes living beautifully means leaving the mapped road behind—not because you know exactly where it leads, but because you've finally learned to trust where you want to go.

Check out Martin's Podcast, Passing the Torch, https://www.youtube.com/@torchmartinhttps://open.spotify.com/show/47ZwWTJWETz5SwEfcuPQwF?si=3973ba39efba4960https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-passing-the-torch-with-mar-93389497