Remote workers are lonely — but the office was never the cure. In this episode, we dig into why the workplace's "faux socialization" fooled us into thinking proximity equals connection, why psychologist Susan Wheelan found goal alignment matters more than social alignment for team productivity, and how structured, socially intensive LARP builds genuine connection instead: the mask of a character lets us navigate social screwups safely, and we come to know people as people rather than job titles. The fix isn't 50 weeks back in the office — it's a few shared immersive retreats a year that create the shared stories real teams are built on. Based on the blog post "Curing Remote Work Loneliness" from Thinking 7 Steps Ahead.

AI tools keep getting more powerful — but tools alone don't make teams productive. In this bonus episode, Stephen asks the deeper question: how do we build the human connection that lets us truly benefit from high-power tools? Drawing on concentrated team practice and shared experience, he connects getting real value from AI to the same principle behind high-performing teams — intensity beats frequency. Adapted from his talk "Want Better Productivity? Your (AI) Tools Aren't Enough."

Remote work isn't going away, but the isolation is real — and dragging everyone back to the office five days a week is a weak fix. This episode explores how brief, intense shared experiences build lasting social cohesion across distributed teams, and why occasional immersive events beat simply sitting in the same building.