What if success isn’t what makes you powerful but the freedom to finally feel satisfied?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Alanna Kaivalya, Ph.D., spiritual teacher and author of The Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming Feminine Power.

Alanna shares her perspective on why today’s women are burned out, emotionally depleted, and carrying an invisible weight of expectations. We talk about the lies women are sold in marriage, motherhood, and the workplace and how to begin untangling from them so you can live on your terms. This episode is a must-listen for any woman ready to soften, heal, and reclaim her power.

Resources Mentioned:

• Alanna’s book: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/book

• Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Alanna-Kaivalya/author/B00GU54W3A?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_8&qid=1730677121&sr=1-8&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

• Alanna’s Starter Kit: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

What We Discuss:

• Alanna’s story and why her message is so timely for divorced moms

• The number one myth women are sold in marriage

• What patriarchy gets wrong about feminine energy

• Why the supermom narrative is destroying women’s health

• Navigating masculine vs. feminine energy after divorce

• Redefining success through the lens of satisfaction

• How to tell if you’re operating from the masculine

• Practical ways to reconnect with your feminine energy

• Boundaries, self-care, and the power of saying "no"

Key Takeaways:

“We’ve been taught to man up to survive, but our real strength is in softening.” – Alanna Kaivalya

“Saying no is one of the most radical things a woman can do.” – Alanna Kaivalya

Find more from Alanna Kaivalya:

Website: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSatisfiedWoman

Blog: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/blog

Podcast: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/podcasts/the-satisfied-woman

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if Mother’s Day didn’t feel like a celebration but something you had to emotionally prepare for?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I get real about what it’s like to navigate Mother’s Day as a divorced mom. Whether you’re not with your kids this year, not being celebrated the way you used to be, or just feeling off, this one’s for you.

I talk about the identity shifts, the unmet expectations, and the quiet grief that can creep in on a day that’s supposed to be joyful. I also share tangible ways to take your power back. From starting new traditions to planning solo time to asking for what you need (instead of waiting to be recognized), this episode is your reminder that you deserve to be celebrated even if you’re the one doing the celebrating.

Resources Mentioned:

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

What I Discuss:

• Why Mother’s Day can feel complicated after divorce

• Identity shifts, loneliness, and grieving what used to be

• When you’re not with your kids and it feels heavy

• Why you’re allowed to want acknowledgment (and how to ask for it)

• Planning something for yourself—even if it’s small

• Reclaiming the day and redefining celebration

Key Takeaways:

“You deserve to be celebrated even if you’re the one doing the celebrating.” – Amber Shaw

“Mother’s Day can be beautiful and complicated at the same time.” – Amber Shaw

“You’re allowed to ask for what you need. You don’t have to wait to be recognized.” – Amber Shaw

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if the parenting plan you're handed is the very thing that's keeping you stuck?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach, mediator, and founder of The Ugly Truth of Divorce. Samantha shares how her own eight-year legal battle, toxic co-parenting dynamic, and expensive missteps led her to create a business helping women avoid the same fate. From diapers to diplomas, she now helps moms draft rock-solid parenting plans that reduce stress, prevent courtroom chaos, and give them their power back.

Resources Mentioned:

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

• Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket

What We Discuss:

• Red flags, parallel parenting, and recognizing high-conflict dynamics

• Radical acceptance and letting go of courtroom warfare

• Why parenting plans should be created before hiring an attorney

• What every plan should include (but usually doesn’t)

• Getting the most value out of your attorney relationship

• Financial inequality, extracurriculars, and when to go back to court

• When to let go of toxic money and create your own abundance

• How starting her business changed her life (and income)

• Using your story to build something that matters

• Why pivoting is normal and necessary

Key Takeaways:

“Your parenting plan is a business contract. It’s not about feelings, it’s about clarity.” – Samantha Boss

“The courtroom is not the place to heal your emotional wounds.” – Samantha Boss

“You don’t have to win in court to win in life after divorce.” – Samantha Boss

Find more from Samantha Boss:

Website: www.samanthaboss.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theuglytruthofdivorce/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theuglytruthofdivorce

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TUTODwithsamboss

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if the time you spend alone could be the thing that changes everything?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I share why every divorced mom needs a solo trip—not just as a luxury, but as a radical act of self-healing and personal power. I open up about my own post-divorce journey from emotional dependence and overdoing to discovering the peace, strength, and confidence that came from intentionally choosing to be alone.

Resources Mentioned:

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

What I Discuss:

• Why I stayed at my ex-husband’s beach house for my solo trip

• My post-divorce struggle with being alone

• How emotional dependence and numbing showed up in my life

• Learning to love being alone and setting new dating standards

• The magic of solo vacations: freedom, presence, and total reset

• Why moms say they "can’t leave the kids" (and what’s really behind that)

• Tips for planning a stress-free solo getaway

• What to do when you’re there: rest, reflect, talk to strangers, unplug

Key Takeaways:

“Being alone wasn’t the hard part—facing myself was.”

“Solo travel wasn’t selfish. It was the most healing thing I’ve ever done.”

“You don’t need permission to rest. You just need to choose yourself.”

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if your divorce was never meant to break you but to build the version of you that you were always meant to become?

Today, I’m joined by Rochelle Moffitt, founder of the Tickled Pink Agency, who shares her story of going from a stay-at-home mom with no income to building a thriving, soul-led personal branding agency. We talk about what it really takes to start your own business after divorce, especially when you’re starting from scratch, facing financial stress, and second-guessing whether you have what it takes.

If you’re wondering how to build something of your own while raising kids, navigating co-parenting, or juggling all the things, this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join my signature coaching program, ReNewU, for divorced moms who want to create an online coaching business and make $2,000 - $5,000 per month (even if you have no idea where to start!): https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu

What We Discuss:

• Starting messy, ditching perfection, and choosing speed

• Turning dyslexia into a business superpower

• How Rochelle built a business around motherhood and flexibility

• Simple branding tips for early-stage entrepreneurs

• Why done is better than perfect (especially when you're a new entrepreneur)

• How to balance business with being a single mom

• Rochelle’s secret to managing time and avoiding burnout

• The mindset shift from business owner to CEO

• SOPs, delegation, and getting out of your own way

• Revenue streams, retainer clients, and real money talk

• Why mentorship and community are non-negotiable

Key Takeaways:

“I didn't have a choice. I had to figure it out—and fast.” – Rochelle Moffitt

“Perfection was never the goal. Momentum was.” – Rochelle Moffitt

“Your story is the brand. The business grows from there.” – Rochelle Moffitt

Find more from Rochelle Moffitt:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rochellemoffitt/

Website: tickledpink.agency

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rochelle.was.here/

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

Thinking about hiring a coach, but not sure who to trust?

Today, I’m breaking down five red flags to avoid and five green flags to look for when you’re choosing a coach, especially if you’ve been burned in the past or you’re afraid of wasting money. I know how overwhelming it can feel to invest in a coach when you're still rebuilding your life after divorce. But I also know the power of the right coach at the right time and how much it can accelerate your healing, your growth, and your business.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join my signature coaching program, ReNewU, for divorced moms who want to create an online coaching business and make $2,000 - $5,000 per month (even if you have no idea where to start!): https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu

What I Discuss:

• 01:00 How coaching changed my life and helped launch my first business

• 03:00 Red flags to avoid when hiring a coach

• 15:00 Green flags to look for when hiring a coach

• 21:00 How ReNewU is built around these green flags

Key Takeaways:

“The right coach won’t pressure you—they’ll empower you.”

“You’re not just buying a program—you’re investing in a partnership that should feel safe, supportive, and strategic.”

“If a coach talks more about themselves than your goals, that’s your sign to walk away.”

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

Ever wondered what would happen if you stopped surviving your divorce and started owning it?

Today, I’m joined by Meagan Norris, a former attorney turned divorce coach, who helps women stop surviving their divorce and start leading it. Meagan shares how she went from stay-at-home mom with zero income to building a thriving coaching business after walking away from both her marriage and her former career. But more importantly, she explains how you can become the CEO of your divorce.

We talk about what it really means to take ownership of your healing, your mindset, and your future even when your entire life feels like it’s been flipped upside down. Meagan offers powerful insights on emotional resilience, money fears, nervous system regulation, and how to navigate divorce on your terms. We also dive into what it looks like to make empowered legal and financial decisions without getting stuck in fear, bitterness, or outside opinions.

Resources Mentioned:

• Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars

What We Discuss:

• What it means to be the CEO of your divorce

• Why we overwork, overdrink, and overdate after divorce

• From stay-at-home mom to life coach: Meagan’s story

• The power of making one decisive choice at a time

• How she navigated her divorce without a lawyer

• How to make money decisions from your vision, not your fear

• The truth about financial settlements vs. peace of mind

Key Takeaways:

“You are the CEO of your divorce—start leading it like you own it.” – Meagan Norris

“You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to make the next clear, empowered choice.” – Meagan Norris

“Peace of mind is more valuable than any financial settlement.” – Meagan Norris

Find more from Meagan Norris:

Website: https://www.meagannorris.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meagannorriscoaching/

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

Feel like choosing a niche is the one thing holding you back from starting your coaching business?

Today, I walk you through the exact framework I teach inside my program, ReNewU, to help women finally stop overthinking and start taking action on picking their niche. Because let’s be honest—trying to figure out your “I help” statement can feel totally paralyzing. What if you pick the wrong one? What if it’s too specific—or not specific enough? What if you’re not even qualified to coach in that area? And what if someone else is already doing it?

That’s why today, I’m giving you the truth about what a niche actually is (and what it isn’t), the most common mindset traps that keep women stuck, and a simple 3-question formula to help you uncover your perfect coaching niche based on your real-life experience. I’m also breaking down the biggest mistakes I see new coaches make—and how to avoid them.

If you’re ready to build a coaching business that actually feels aligned (without spinning in circles trying to figure out your niche), this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Save your seat for the FREE Divorced to Dollars Workshop: https://products.ambershaw.com/divorcedtodollars

What I Discuss:

• Why choosing a niche paralyzes new coaches

• What your niche really is (hint: it’s not your title)

• The 3 core questions that will help you choose your niche

• Why your experience matters more than a credential

• Why your niche doesn’t need to be unique

• The mistake that makes your message too broad

• The danger of waiting until you feel "ready"

• Why clarity only comes from action

• How to refine your niche as you go

Key Takeaways:

“Your niche is simply the problem you help solve. That’s it.”

“You don’t need a perfect plan to start—you just need to start.”

“Clarity and confidence don’t come first. They come from taking action.”

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw