Have you ever worried that you'll freeze in a coaching session because you don't know what to ask next? Or felt like you're not "experienced enough" to lead someone through a real breakthrough? This fear comes up all the time—especially for new coaches—and it's exactly why I wanted to record this episode.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down how to ask powerful coaching questions even when you don't feel ready, confident, or qualified yet. I talk openly about imposter syndrome, why coaching isn't about having perfect wording or giving advice, and how a few simple, intentional questions can create massive clarity and action for your clients. I also walk you through the three core types of coaching questions I use in my own sessions—and share several go-to questions you can literally steal and use right away.

If you've been feeling stuck in imposter syndrome, second-guessing yourself in sessions, or worried you don't know enough to be a "real" coach yet, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu

What I Discuss:

• 03:34 Why I'm shifting the podcast to focus more on solo episodes and real coaching skills
• 06:00 The imposter syndrome almost every new coach struggles with
• 07:46 What actually makes a coaching question "powerful"
• 11:04 The three types of questions every coach should be using
• 14:32 My favorite go-to questions when you don't know what to ask next

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever felt the pressure to "have all the answers" as a coach? Or wondered what you're actually supposed to do in a coaching session to create real transformation? You're not alone—and the truth is, most new coaches misunderstand what coaching even is.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the biggest myths around coaching, including why giving advice is not the core of what powerful coaches do. I share how real coaching helps clients build confidence, uncover their own solutions, and create sustainable results—without you jumping in to fix everything. I'm also giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what separates mentoring, counseling, and coaching so you can stay in your lane and show up with clarity and confidence.

If you've been feeling the pressure to "figure out what to say" or worrying you're not equipped to coach at a professional level, then this episode is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

• Listen to Episode 435: How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630
• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
• Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

What I Discuss:

• 01:40 The biggest myth about coaching—and why it creates dependency
• 03:05 How real coaching helps clients uncover their own answers
• 06:17 Why powerful coaches don't jump to solutions
• 07:42 The difference between giving advice and facilitating transformation
• 09:28 Getting to the root of a client's struggle
• 10:09 Coaching vs. counseling—what's the real difference?
• 12:05 Your role as a coach (hint: it's not to fix people)
• 13:15 How clarity leads to action → leads to results
• 14:26 Why proven frameworks make you a more effective coach

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Do you ever get to the end of the year and feel like everything—your tech, your schedule, your offers, your emotions—needs a full reset? Like the tabs in your life are open in 17 different directions and your brain is basically running on expired coffee and vibes? Because… same.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through the exact 4-step reset routine I do every single December to clear the clutter, ground my energy, and set myself up for a strong, aligned start to the new year.

Tune in for the reset I use as a coach and as a divorced mom to step into the next year with clarity, intention, and way less chaos.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification

What I Discuss:

• 00:23 Why a year-end reset matters more than you think
• 01:42 Step 1: Clearing out your tech chaos so you can breathe again
• 03:33 What I archive, delete, and reorganize every December
• 06:09 Step 2: Reviewing your offers with honesty
• 07:24 The three questions I ask myself about every offer
• 09:46 Why I paused TikTok—even with nearly 300k followers
• 12:22 Understanding ROI beyond money
• 13:41 Step 3: Resetting boundaries before the new year
• 15:33 How loving your work can accidentally destroy your boundaries
• 17:06 Evaluating communication, hours, weekends, and work habits
• 17:55 Step 4: The emotional audit I do at the end of every year
• 18:42 What I'm proud of, what I learned, what needs to go, and who I'm becoming

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com