What if success isn’t what makes you powerful but the freedom to finally feel satisfied?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Alanna Kaivalya, Ph.D., spiritual teacher and author of The Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming Feminine Power.

Alanna shares her perspective on why today’s women are burned out, emotionally depleted, and carrying an invisible weight of expectations. We talk about the lies women are sold in marriage, motherhood, and the workplace and how to begin untangling from them so you can live on your terms. This episode is a must-listen for any woman ready to soften, heal, and reclaim her power.

Resources Mentioned:

• Alanna’s book: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/book

• Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Alanna-Kaivalya/author/B00GU54W3A?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_8&qid=1730677121&sr=1-8&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

• Alanna’s Starter Kit: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

What We Discuss:

• Alanna’s story and why her message is so timely for divorced moms

• The number one myth women are sold in marriage

• What patriarchy gets wrong about feminine energy

• Why the supermom narrative is destroying women’s health

• Navigating masculine vs. feminine energy after divorce

• Redefining success through the lens of satisfaction

• How to tell if you’re operating from the masculine

• Practical ways to reconnect with your feminine energy

• Boundaries, self-care, and the power of saying "no"

Key Takeaways:

“We’ve been taught to man up to survive, but our real strength is in softening.” – Alanna Kaivalya

“Saying no is one of the most radical things a woman can do.” – Alanna Kaivalya

Find more from Alanna Kaivalya:

Website: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSatisfiedWoman

Blog: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/blog

Podcast: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/podcasts/the-satisfied-woman

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if Mother’s Day didn’t feel like a celebration but something you had to emotionally prepare for?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I get real about what it’s like to navigate Mother’s Day as a divorced mom. Whether you’re not with your kids this year, not being celebrated the way you used to be, or just feeling off, this one’s for you.

I talk about the identity shifts, the unmet expectations, and the quiet grief that can creep in on a day that’s supposed to be joyful. I also share tangible ways to take your power back. From starting new traditions to planning solo time to asking for what you need (instead of waiting to be recognized), this episode is your reminder that you deserve to be celebrated even if you’re the one doing the celebrating.

Resources Mentioned:

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

What I Discuss:

• Why Mother’s Day can feel complicated after divorce

• Identity shifts, loneliness, and grieving what used to be

• When you’re not with your kids and it feels heavy

• Why you’re allowed to want acknowledgment (and how to ask for it)

• Planning something for yourself—even if it’s small

• Reclaiming the day and redefining celebration

Key Takeaways:

“You deserve to be celebrated even if you’re the one doing the celebrating.” – Amber Shaw

“Mother’s Day can be beautiful and complicated at the same time.” – Amber Shaw

“You’re allowed to ask for what you need. You don’t have to wait to be recognized.” – Amber Shaw

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw

What if the parenting plan you're handed is the very thing that's keeping you stuck?

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach, mediator, and founder of The Ugly Truth of Divorce. Samantha shares how her own eight-year legal battle, toxic co-parenting dynamic, and expensive missteps led her to create a business helping women avoid the same fate. From diapers to diplomas, she now helps moms draft rock-solid parenting plans that reduce stress, prevent courtroom chaos, and give them their power back.

Resources Mentioned:

• Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist

• Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche

• Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket

What We Discuss:

• Red flags, parallel parenting, and recognizing high-conflict dynamics

• Radical acceptance and letting go of courtroom warfare

• Why parenting plans should be created before hiring an attorney

• What every plan should include (but usually doesn’t)

• Getting the most value out of your attorney relationship

• Financial inequality, extracurriculars, and when to go back to court

• When to let go of toxic money and create your own abundance

• How starting her business changed her life (and income)

• Using your story to build something that matters

• Why pivoting is normal and necessary

Key Takeaways:

“Your parenting plan is a business contract. It’s not about feelings, it’s about clarity.” – Samantha Boss

“The courtroom is not the place to heal your emotional wounds.” – Samantha Boss

“You don’t have to win in court to win in life after divorce.” – Samantha Boss

Find more from Samantha Boss:

Website: www.samanthaboss.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theuglytruthofdivorce/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theuglytruthofdivorce

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TUTODwithsamboss

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw