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  • 399. The Fear That We're Not Loving Well
    2025/03/21

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. Those words we hear from our kid “well, you just don’t love me!" "I hate you!" Words flung in frustration, yet they cut deep. The lie creeps in: What if they really don’t love me?

    But feelings in the moment don’t define the truth. Who loves you? God does.

    John 15:9 says, "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love." His love is steady, unshaken by emotions.

    If you struggle to feel loved, remember—Romans 8:37-39 declares that nothing separates us from God’s love. It’s beyond measure, poured out, filling every empty space.

    Let his love steady you, so you can keep loving your children even through the hard moments.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

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    12 分
  • 398. Worried About Messing Up Your Kids?
    2025/03/20

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. It’s easy to believe the lie: I could so easily mess my kids up.

    You feel unequipped, uncertain, and the voice in your head whispers, you’re going to get this wrong. The pressure is everywhere—social media, parenting books, comparison. It all points to some impossible gold standard of motherhood, convincing you that if you don’t get it exactly right, you’ll fail your children.

    But your motherhood was never meant to look like anyone else’s.

    God leads you in motherhood. He makes promises, and he keeps them. Colossians 1 reminds us that he is the one who equips us fully. He holds it all—your strengths, your struggles, your children’s needs.

    There isn’t a gold standard of motherhood that matters. There is a God-standard. And, he promises to walk with you through it all.

    You can let go of the fear that you’ll mess your kids up, because he is in control. Your job isn’t perfection—it’s trust. Walk with him in raising your children, and rest in the truth that he is more than enough.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    14 分
  • 397. Defeating the Lie of Perfection
    2025/03/19

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. Motherhood has a way of making perfection feel like the goal. We chase it relentlessly—the perfect routines, the perfect responses, the perfect balance of patience and discipline. We convince ourselves there’s a standard we should meet.

    This lie catches us fast.

    We snap at our children and hear, you always mess up. We make a mistake and think, I’ll never get this right. The weight of it presses down, convincing us that if we could just try harder, do better, be more—we’d finally measure up.

    But here’s the truth: You don’t need to be perfect. You are forgiven.

    Ephesians 1 reminds us that we have redemption through Christ, that his grace covers us. Motherhood isn’t about proving ourselves; it’s about learning under forgiveness.

    When we sin against our children, we don’t have to carry shame. We get to model repentance. We get to show them what it looks like to walk in grace.

    You were never meant to be perfect. You were meant to be redeemed.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    12 分
  • 396. Facing The Lie of Discontentment
    2025/03/18

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. Motherhood changes everything. Before kids, you had freedom—quiet mornings, spontaneous plans, uninterrupted thoughts. Now, your days are filled with constant needs, endless noise, and the weight of responsibility. And sometimes, if you're honest, you miss the old you.

    The lie creeps in: you’re missing out. You see friends traveling, pursuing careers, or simply having a moment to themselves, and it stirs something in you. Discontentment sneaks in, whispering that you’ve lost yourself. That life was better before.

    But Colossians 3:1-4 reminds us to set our minds on things above. The truth is, you are not missing out—you are walking in a calling. God isn’t rattled by your longing or your weariness.

    Every moment—messy, mundane, beautiful—is for his glory. The only way for the lie to die is to replace it with truth. You have not lost yourself. You are in his calling.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    14 分
  • 395. When I Feel Like My Life Would Be Better If I Was in a Different Season
    2025/03/17

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. Do you ever say to yourself…"if only this were different, my life would be better." "If only this season were easier."

    It’s easy to believe these thoughts. They sneak in when exhaustion sets in, when the demands of motherhood feel overwhelming, when we long for a little more freedom, a little more ease. But the enemy thrives on discontentment.

    Motherhood is a sacrifice. It will cost you time, energy, and peace of mind. But God placed you in this season for a reason.

    Yet we’re always waiting for the next season, thinking that’s when life will finally feel whole. But Jesus tells us in John 6:35, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry.” Our hunger for something different, something easier, is really a hunger for him.

    We have to confront the lie that a change in circumstances will satisfy us. It won’t. Only Jesus will. If we don’t sit with him, we will always feel empty. Today, instead of longing for a different season, let’s choose to fill up on the truth: he is enough, and he is here in this season, too.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    12 分
  • 394. How Can We Know God Wants to Help Us in the Little Moments of Motherhood?
    2025/03/14

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. It’s easy to believe the lie that we are alone, that no one sees us, that we carry our burdens by ourselves. But scripture reminds us of a greater truth—God is with us, and he is our helper.

    Bethany shares with us in scripture how God declares himself to be on our side. In Psalm 118:6-7, he stands with us so we have no need to fear. In Psalm 54:4, he is the one who upholds our life. Psalm 59:9-10 reminds us that he is our refuge, the one who goes before us. Isaiah 41:10 assures us that he strengthens and helps us, holding us in his righteous hand. And in John 10:27-30, Jesus promises that nothing can snatch us from him.

    Over and over, scripture reveals the same truth—God is not distant. He is with us, walking beside us, strengthening and helping us. Where we once believed we were alone, we can replace that lie with the truth: he is our helper, and we can call on him.

    We are not meant to walk this life by ourselves. He invites us to link arms with him and trust that he will sustain us.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    11 分
  • 393. When We Believe We Are Isolated
    2025/03/13

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. The enemy tries to plant doubt in our hearts—whispers that no one sees us, no one understands, and that even God has turned away. In motherhood, it’s easy to believe the lie that we are alone in the struggles, unseen in the sacrifices, and left to figure it all out on our own.

    But Bethany roots mothers in the truth of Scripture, reminding them of God’s promise in Hebrews 13:6—that he is our helper, our strength, and we have no reason to fear. She points to Joshua 1:9, where God assures us that he is always with us, walking beside us through every challenge, every moment of doubt, and every decision we face.

    Motherhood can feel isolating, but the promise remains—you are not alone.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    13 分
  • 392. Learning Discernment: Uncovering a Popular Lie
    2025/03/12

    Welcome back to the kitchen table. It’s easier to spot a lie when we know the truth inside and out. The more time we spend with God, the more we recognize when something doesn’t align with his word.

    In Genesis 3, the serpent’s deception began with a simple question: “Did God actually say…?” That same tactic is still used today—whispers of doubt that make us question what we know to be true.

    Lies steal our identity. They layer in doubt, insecurity, and shame. They make us second-guess our values, shifting our foundation if we’re not anchored in God’s truth. But Psalm 19:7-8 reminds us that the word of the Lord is perfect.

    When we become experts in scripture, we are equipped to stand firm. We don’t have to wonder if we’re being deceived—we can confidently recognize the enemy’s lies and replace them with the truth.

    Learning the Art of Gospel Discipline Conversations

    This 4-week private podcast and workbook course teaches you how to approach discipline with a framework that goes beyond correcting behavior. Learn to help your children understand their motivations, practice self-reflection, and incorporate prayer and blessings into your discipline moments.

    Learn more and sign up here.

    Connect with Bethany here

    Follow her on Instagram @bethanykimsey

    Purchase the Warrior Mama’s Prayer Journal

    https://bethanykimsey.co/products/a-warrior-mamas-prayer-journal

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    12 分