The biggest lie a lot of church planters believe is that they have to figure everything out by themselves.

You don't. And you shouldn't.

In Episode 4 of The Urban Pastor Podcast, Charlie Mitchell shares why friendship isn't optional for church planters, pastors, and ministry leaders navigating the pressures of urban ministry.

It starts with an unexpected phone call from someone he met at a conference. Months after exchanging numbers, that person called him out for never reaching out.

That conversation became a lasting friendship—and a reminder that some of the most important relationships in ministry begin when someone decides to show up.

Drawing from his journey from Harlem Heights to Baltimore and back to Southwest Florida, Charlie shares the relationships that helped him clarify his calling, navigate disappointment, care for his soul, and keep going.

What You'll Learn

1. You need OGs who can tell you the truth.

Experienced leaders who understand the city, know its history, and aren't afraid to challenge your assumptions.

Charlie shares how seasoned pastors helped him think beyond his original church planting plans and how Matt Stephens challenged his understanding of Baltimore before taking him on a spiritual tour of the city.

2. You need friends who remind you to take care of yourself.

Church planting can consume your life if you let it.

After moving from Florida to Baltimore in the middle of winter, Charlie found himself questioning whether he'd made a mistake. Pastor Mike Crawford helped him recognize what he was experiencing and encouraged him to give himself time.

Sometimes the most spiritual thing a friend can do is ask how you're really doing.

3. You need friends who can laugh, cry, and get angry with you.

Not every relationship needs to be professional.

Charlie reflects on his friendship and partnership with Trevor, co-founder of Epiphany Baltimore, and why pastors need people who can be honest, advocate for one another, and share the everyday realities of ministry without pretending.

4. You need friends who have no skin in your game.

People who aren't depending on your church's attendance, budget, reputation, or success.

Friends who knew you before the titles. Friends who know your story, your family, your failures, and your humanity.

People who love you whether your ministry succeeds or struggles.

The Bigger Conversation

In this episode, Charlie also explores why the isolated-leader model can be damaging, how relationships help clarify a church planter's calling, and why Maroon House exists to create community, coaching, and care for urban ministry leaders.

The Bottom Line

You weren't called to figure everything out alone.

Find people who will challenge you, care for you, walk through the trenches with you, and remind you that you're a human being before you're a ministry leader.

Connect and Explore

Explore Maroon House:
https://bemaroon.com

Urban church planting resources:
https://bemaroon.com/urban-church-planting

Connect with Charlie Mitchell:
https://charliemitchell.me

About The Urban Pastor

The Urban Pastor explores faith, culture, cities, and real life through honest conversations about urban ministry, healthy leadership, and the communities we're called to serve.

Hosted by Charlie Mitchell.

No one changes a city alone.

Nobody’s going to put this on a conference brochure. But somebody needs to say it.

Here are 10 hard truths about urban church planting that most people don't tell you before you start.

In Episode 3 of The Urban Pastor Podcast, Charlie Mitchell shares the lessons he wishes someone had handed him before he moved to Baltimore, started raising money, and discovered what church planting actually costs.

This ain't about discouraging future church planters. We're leaving bread crumbs.

Every truth in this episode comes from the realities of planting, leading, and staying faithful when ministry doesn't go according to plan.

What You'll Learn

1. Not everyone gets funded. Don't count other people's pockets or assume the system is fair. Cast your vision, build relationships, and run your own race.

2. You only make some of your own rules. Church planters can shape style, expression, and format, but Scripture establishes non-negotiables.

3. Heart starts it. Resolve sustains it. Launching takes courage. Staying when things get difficult requires something deeper.

4. Success won't happen overnight. Maybe ever. Don't compare your beginning to someone else's well-resourced ministry. Pursue faithfulness and fruitfulness.

5. Fundraising works, but it takes work. One email or conversation won't fund your vision. Learn to communicate, follow up, and cultivate supporters.

6. Where you plant matters. The inner city, underserved neighborhoods, and economically disadvantaged communities present different financial realities. Understand your context and educate your donors.

7. You may need to surrender your dream outcome. The building, budget, salary, and timeline you imagined may not materialize. Learn to work faithfully with what God provides.

8. Church planting isn't always fun. It's not a crystal staircase. Think long-term: disciples made, lives transformed, and communities served.

9. You must learn to market your church. People can't connect with a ministry they don't know exists. Communicating your mission is part of the work.

10. You become a planter by planting. The title isn't what makes you a church planter. The process does. And some of God's most important work happens in the planter along the way.

The mindset behind it all: Think like a farmer.

Farmers understand that meaningful growth requires preparation, patience, persistence, and trust.

Memorable Quotes

“It takes a lot of heart to start a church. But it takes resolve to keep going after you started.”

“Where you start your church does matter. I’m going to say that again slow.”

“You become a planter by planting. Nobody is a planter when they show up. A planter becomes a planter through the process of planting.”

“The most important work that’s happening in the life of a church plant is what God is doing in the church planter himself.”

Watch and Explore

Watch this episode on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/enonyXbFQOY

Explore more urban church planting resources:
https://bemaroon.com/urban-church-planting

Connect with Charlie Mitchell:
https://charliemitchell.me

About The Urban Pastor

The Urban Pastor explores faith, culture, cities, and real life through honest conversations about urban ministry, healthy leadership, and the communities we're called to serve.

Hosted by Charlie Mitchell.

No one changes a city alone.

Before you plant, you need to know what's already planted.

The Black church isn't one thing. It never was.

In Episode 2 of The Urban Pastor Podcast, Charlie Mitchell explores four types of Black churches and the changing landscape of urban church planting.

This isn't an academic classification. It's a field guide for church planters, pastors, and ministry leaders who need to understand the communities they're called to serve.

Too often, we talk about “the Black church” as though every congregation shares the same history, culture, worship style, leadership approach, and ministry philosophy.

But the Black church ecosystem is far more diverse than that.

And if you enter an urban neighborhood without understanding the churches already present, you may spend years misunderstanding the people you're trying to reach.

The Four Types of Black Churches

1. The Traditional Church

The historic Black church expression many people associate with their parents' or grandparents' generation. Baptist, AME, and other established congregations with recognizable traditions, structures, worship practices, and pastoral leadership.

2. The New School Church

Traditional foundations with a more contemporary approach to connecting with people. Familiar preaching traditions and theological roots, combined with updated presentation, cultural engagement, and ministry programming.

3. The Contemporary Black Church

Churches emphasizing contemporary worship, production, cultural relevance, digital communication, and reaching younger or more diverse audiences. Often characterized by high-energy environments and a strong media presence.

4. The Outsiders

Churches and church plants shaped organically by hip-hop culture, urban neighborhoods, and different leadership formation pathways.

These aren't necessarily churches trying to look culturally relevant. Their leaders and communities are already products of the culture they're serving.

This is the world Charlie experienced through Epiphany and the broader network of urban church planters connected to Maroon House.

Why This Matters for Urban Church Planting

In this episode, we also explore:

• Why the decades following the Civil Rights Movement matter for understanding today's Black church landscape.
• How different generations have experienced and defined church.
• Why cultural familiarity doesn't automatically translate into community understanding.
• How to recognize the ministry expressions already present in your city.
• Why church planters need to understand their own identity and formation.

The takeaway: This isn't a ranking. It's a map.

All four expressions may exist in your city, often alongside even more diversity.

Know which expression you represent. Understand which churches are already there. And pay attention to the cultural and spiritual formation of the people you're called to serve.

Memorable Quotes

“We keep thinking about foot-stomping, hand-clapping church when we think of the Black church. And a lot of times people are referring back to their grandma’s church as if there hasn’t been a 30-year gap in between.”

“The Outsiders, they’re not putting on anything. They’re just themselves. Because they’ve been shaped by hip-hop and urban culture.”

“There’s even more diversity than what I just said. I just gave you a few. Keep your eye out.”

Watch and Explore

Watch this episode on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/celyNHcTQkU

Explore urban church planting resources:
https://bemaroon.com/urban-church-planting

Connect with Charlie Mitchell:
https://charliemitchell.me

About The Urban Pastor

The Urban Pastor explores faith, culture, cities, and real life through conversations about urban ministry, healthy leadership, and the communities we're called to serve.

Hosted by Charlie Mitchell.

No one changes a city alone.