Are you tired of repeating yourself and feeling like your partner just doesn’t hear you? Whether it’s dad guilt, lack of boundaries with the kids, inconsistency in parenting, or not feeling prioritized in your relationship — this episode is here to validate and support you.

In this episode, Alicia breaks down why communication feels so hard in blended families, why your partner may not respond the way you hope, and how being "too close" to the situation can make you the least effective person to bring up these issues.

You’ll learn:

• Why it’s normal for your partner to shut down (and why it’s not about you)
• What really causes that defensive reaction when you try to talk about the hard stuff
• How to shift the conversation without walking on eggshells
• Why outside support (like couples coaching with Alicia) can be a game-changer

If you're exhausted from having the same conversations that go nowhere, this episode will give you clarity, relief, and a path forward.

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In this deeply honest episode, we’re getting into the emotional weeds of what happens when the ex’s belongings, photos, or influence are still showing up in your home. From hoodies and framed photos to never-ending texts between your partner and their ex, it can start to feel like you’re suffocating in someone else’s life.

Especially for childless and childfree stepmoms, the presence of “her stuff” can stir up major discomfort—and lead to fights with your partner, emotional shutdowns, or resentment toward the kids.

Alicia shares her personal experience and helps you reframe the issue so you can set boundaries without guilt, protect your peace without controlling the narrative, and finally start to feel at home in your own house. This episode offers validation, strategy, and a healthy dose of real talk for any stepmom who’s ever felt like a guest in her own home.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “her stuff” hits different when you’re childless or childfree
• How to avoid explosive fights with your partner about the ex
• Reframing the discomfort as part of your stepmom growth
• The difference between setting boundaries and controlling the space
• Tips to stop feeling like a stranger in your own home

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Is your partner’s past still taking up space in your present-day relationship? You’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. Whether it's memories of the ex, old traditions, or constant reminders of “how things used to be,” retroactive jealousy and emotional triggers are real in stepmom life.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the emotional weight of feeling like you’re competing with the past—and how to move forward with confidence. We’ll talk about:

• Why retroactive jealousy is more common than you think
• How your husband’s past relationship can affect your present
• The real reason these feelings sting so deeply
• Tangible tools to process your emotions without shame
• How to create new memories and reclaim your space in the blended family

This episode will leave you feeling seen, validated, and empowered to take back your role—not as a replacement, but as a renewal.

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When you thought things would finally get easier once they were grown… but your adult stepkids still make you feel like an outsider. In this episode, Alicia digs into what’s really going on when adult stepkids won’t accept you — and how to stop tying your peace to their approval.

She shares the emotional layers behind this rejection, why it’s not actually about you, and the exact mindset shifts to help you feel confident, calm, and back in control.

Whether your adult stepkids are cold, distant, or flat-out disrespectful, this truth-telling pep talk will help you release the guilt, stop overcompensating, and reclaim your power — without turning bitter or backing down.

Listen in to learn:

• Why adult stepkids struggle to accept you (even years later)
• How loyalty binds and family guilt still play a role
• The biggest trap stepmoms fall into when trying to “prove” themselves
• What you can actually control (and what you can’t)
• How to detach from their approval and find peace on your terms

Free resource:
10 Tips to Get Through the Holidays

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Are you a childless or childfree stepmom feeling like a broken record? Alicia gets real about the exhausting cycle of repeating yourself to your stepkids—whether it's chores, routines, or basic expectations—and feeling like it's never enough.

She opens up about her own realization that forgetfulness and resistance aren’t about being a stepmom—they’re just part of how kids grow and learn. With practical tools and empowering mindset shifts, this episode will help you release the guilt, drop the unrealistic expectations, and approach those “reminder moments” with less stress and more confidence.

Whether you're constantly asking them to take their shoes off, clean up after themselves, or simply follow through, this episode is your reminder that you're doing it right—even if it doesn’t feel like it.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why kids need repetition, no matter who’s parenting them
• How childless and childfree stepmoms often misinterpret forgetfulness as disrespect
• Mindset shifts to reduce frustration and resentment
• Practical strategies to stop feeling like a nag
• Why needing reminders doesn’t mean you’re failing as a stepmom

Free resource:
10 Tips to Get Through the Holidays

Set Your Stepfamily Up for Success (House Expectations)

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In this truth-telling episode, Alicia pulls back the curtain on one of the most common (but least talked about) emotions in stepfamily life: resentment. It doesn’t show up overnight—it builds quietly from all the unspoken expectations, invisible labor, and bottled-up feelings that come with being a stepmom.

Alicia shares why resentment creeps in when you’re doing everything right but still feel unseen, unappreciated, and exhausted. You’ll learn how to spot the early signs before they blow up, how to set boundaries that protect your peace, and how to rewrite the story you’re telling yourself so resentment stops running the show.

This isn’t about pretending to be okay—it’s about taking your power back and showing up for yourself, guilt-free.

What You’ll Hear:

• What resentment really is and how it starts
• The five sneaky ways resentment builds up in blended families (how many of these are ways it builds for you?)
• Why “invisible labor” and unmet expectations make stepmoms feel stuck
• How to catch resentment before it turns into burnout or bitterness
• Simple ways to set boundaries and reclaim control of your role
• Alicia’s personal story of realizing she was drowning in resentment—and what helped her finally let it go

If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “Why do I feel so angry when I’m trying so hard?” — this one’s for you.

Free resource:
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If you’ve tried to co-parent with someone who thrives on drama, control, or straight-up chaos… this episode is your safe space and wake-up call. In Episode 122 of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia breaks down what to do when co-parenting feels impossible because the ex just won’t cooperate.

We’re not here to sugarcoat—we’re here to speak truth. Co-parenting takes two willing adults. And when that’s not happening? You need to stop wasting energy trying to fix what you can’t control. Tune in for tough love, real talk, and actionable steps that will help you reclaim your peace—even if the ex keeps lighting fires.

Whether you're knee-deep in high-conflict drama or just need a sanity check, this episode will leave you feeling validated, supported, and back in your power.

Resource mentioned:

Podcast episode #98: Feeling Powerless as a Stepmom? It Might Be the Victim Mindset

Free resource:
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When the holidays roll around, so does the pressure — to make it fair, to make it magical, and to not lose your mind when the ex goes overboard or your stepkids start comparing gifts. In this episode of The Stepmom Side Podcast, Alicia unpacks the gift-giving grief that shows up for so many stepmoms — the quiet, unspoken frustration of trying not to compete or control while still wanting to be thoughtful.

You’ll hear how to:
✨ Break the pattern of comparison between homes
✨ Stop feeling like the “gift police” when boundaries get blurry
✨ Reconnect with your real intentions behind giving
✨ Manage your emotions when stepkids brag or gifts feel one-sided
✨ Find peace, presence, and joy without overspending or overcompensating

Whether you’re navigating an over-the-top ex, trying to set spending limits, or just want to make the holidays less stressful, this one’s for you.

Listen to get your peace (and sanity) back this holiday season.

Podcast episode mentioned:
How to Give Better Gifts with Patrick Kucharson

Free resource:
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