Are you tired of repeating yourself and feeling like your partner just doesn’t hear you? Whether it’s dad guilt, lack of boundaries with the kids, inconsistency in parenting, or not feeling prioritized in your relationship — this episode is here to validate and support you.

In this episode, Alicia breaks down why communication feels so hard in blended families, why your partner may not respond the way you hope, and how being "too close" to the situation can make you the least effective person to bring up these issues.

You’ll learn:

• Why it’s normal for your partner to shut down (and why it’s not about you)
• What really causes that defensive reaction when you try to talk about the hard stuff
• How to shift the conversation without walking on eggshells
• Why outside support (like couples coaching with Alicia) can be a game-changer

If you're exhausted from having the same conversations that go nowhere, this episode will give you clarity, relief, and a path forward.

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In this deeply honest episode, we’re getting into the emotional weeds of what happens when the ex’s belongings, photos, or influence are still showing up in your home. From hoodies and framed photos to never-ending texts between your partner and their ex, it can start to feel like you’re suffocating in someone else’s life.

Especially for childless and childfree stepmoms, the presence of “her stuff” can stir up major discomfort—and lead to fights with your partner, emotional shutdowns, or resentment toward the kids.

Alicia shares her personal experience and helps you reframe the issue so you can set boundaries without guilt, protect your peace without controlling the narrative, and finally start to feel at home in your own house. This episode offers validation, strategy, and a healthy dose of real talk for any stepmom who’s ever felt like a guest in her own home.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “her stuff” hits different when you’re childless or childfree
• How to avoid explosive fights with your partner about the ex
• Reframing the discomfort as part of your stepmom growth
• The difference between setting boundaries and controlling the space
• Tips to stop feeling like a stranger in your own home

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Is your partner’s past still taking up space in your present-day relationship? You’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. Whether it's memories of the ex, old traditions, or constant reminders of “how things used to be,” retroactive jealousy and emotional triggers are real in stepmom life.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the emotional weight of feeling like you’re competing with the past—and how to move forward with confidence. We’ll talk about:

• Why retroactive jealousy is more common than you think
• How your husband’s past relationship can affect your present
• The real reason these feelings sting so deeply
• Tangible tools to process your emotions without shame
• How to create new memories and reclaim your space in the blended family

This episode will leave you feeling seen, validated, and empowered to take back your role—not as a replacement, but as a renewal.

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Want a specific topic covered? Let me know here.
After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!
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