🤔 Who are you when no one’s watching?

📸 And who are you when everyone is?

We talk about the gap between who we are and who we post.

Why we only see the highlights.

Why validation isn’t wrong — but pretending might be.

Oversharing. Lying. Parasocial relationships.

And the quiet pressure of living life according to social media timelines.

This episode dives into the real self vs the online persona — validation, oversharing, curated lives, and the quiet pressure to live life by the feed.

Messy. Honest. Necessary. 💥

Aagh you know where the links are bestie x

Two VERY different things, but ag… life will mos teach you until you learn properly.

We spoke about naming your boundaries, setting them, and actually keeping them — even when it feels kak uncomfortable 😅.

Early detection is ALWAYS easier… for you and for the guilty parties 😂.

Family, friends, romantic partners — nobody is exempt.

Boundaries aren’t disrespect 🙅🏽‍♀️

They’re clarity.

They’re care.

They’re the difference between connection and full-blown chaos 💥.

And babes — watch for the vibes, but not whole time whole time 👀😂. LISTEN instead.

That’s the important part.

Because as usual… the technical grinch got us 😒😂

Don’t vesuip in the boundaries. Hold them with softness, but HOLD THEM.

This took 7 years. Osss is MOEG.

The technicals still have us in a chokehold and honestly… at this point? It is what it is, maaan. 😭🎙️

But we made it. And we’re coming in HOT with something I legit never heard of before: Limerance.

Wat is daai even? 👀

All I’m saying is… once you know, you can’t un-know. And suddenly?

HARD RELATE.

Skat, we’ve ALL been there… maybe. 😅

Come laugh with us, at us — ek care nie.

Just listen, and maybe learn something new about yourself… or someone you smaak. 👀💛

🎧 Linky links in the bio.