In “Deeds, Not Creeds: A Heaven Without God,” psychotherapist and Self-Love Recovery Institute founder Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., tells the personal story of how he came to see heaven differently. He was raised in a non-religious Jewish family and as a teenager bought his own “heaven insurance” by trying to be good. He then went through a phase of spiritual searching before science and Carl Sagan led him to humanism. From that journey he offers a vision of immortality that costs nothing and needs no membership: heaven is the sum of the ripples we create.

Ross shows how small, everyday acts of kindness reach outward and last for generations. A smile, an open door, or a word of encouragement to a stressed parent can all start those ripples. His message is that actions matter more than intentions, that we are not our mistakes but the growth that follows them, and that every life, however small it seems, leaves a lasting mark on the world.

His presentation occurred at the Unitarian Universalists of Pensacola. For more information: https://uupensacola.org/

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ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a treatment program that permanently resolves the issue. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.

In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel, with 30 million views and 297,000 subscribers, and the sale of 190,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com.

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In this episode, Ross explains antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), better known as sociopathy or psychopathy: no empathy or remorse, chronic dishonesty, and harming others without learning from consequences. Psychopaths enjoy inflicting pain, while sociopaths hurt people simply to get what they want. Unlike narcissists, sociopaths know exactly who they are, and they hide behind a "backdrop," often a partner and family, to appear normal.

Ross covers the warning signs, from scripted charm and expert gaslighting to the rare "shark eyes" moment when the mask slips. He also explains why people with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency) are targeted and why leaving takes careful protection. To work with Ross, visit selfloverecovery.com or email help@selfloverecovery.com.

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ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a treatment program that permanently resolves the issue. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.

In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel, with 30 million views and 297,000 subscribers, and the sale of 190,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com.

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Why do so many codependents and people with Self-Love Deficit Disorder live in constant fear, even when they're safe? In this episode, I talk with Dr. Todd Burstain, an internist who spent 30 years treating patients, about how chronic fear changes the brain and hides behind "masks" like anxiety, codependency, and narcissism.

We get into why narcissists cope by controlling others while codependents cope by giving in to control, and how PTSD and gaslighting make it hard to tell real danger from old trauma.

Dr. Burstain also shares his 10-step path for quieting "fear's voice" and reconnecting with your authentic self, which he covers in his new book, Fear Itself, out November 10.

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ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering contributions to codependency have provided sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developed a treatment program that permanently resolves the issue. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.

In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel, with 30 million views and 297,000 subscribers, and the sale of 190,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com.

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Instagram (@rossrosenberg_slri)
Twitter (@RossRosenberg1)
and now…TikTok! (@RossRosenberg1)