You've probably been told to manage your stress. Breathe more. Sleep more. Do less.

But nobody really talks about WHY it's so hard to actually get there. Why the body stays braced, why rest feels impossible, why you can do everything right and still feel like you're running on empty.

This episode is about that. The thing underneath the thing. Fourteen years of guiding people in the work on themselves has shown me one pattern more than any other, and today, it gets its own episode.

If you've ever felt like calm is a place other people get to live, this one's for you.

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If you've ever been curious about energy work but not sure where to start (or whether to believe any of it), this one's for you.

In this episode, Courtney sits down with her friend Katie Walton for one of those conversations that starts with "wait, but what even is energy?" and ends somewhere surprisingly tender. Together, Courtney and Katie wander through some genuinely big questions: what reiki actually is and how energy healing works, why so many of us live almost entirely from the neck up, and what happens in the body when we finally slow down enough to feel something. They talk about the culture of emotional repression, the 60-90 second window of pure emotion, cannabis and social connection, mindful recovery, and what it means to be in good relationship with the world around you. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, Courtney receives a great reflection: that her own challenge and struggle is exactly what makes it possible to transmit peace to others, not in spite of it, but because of it.

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In this episode, Courtney names something that's long been foundational to her life and work, but rarely spoken about publicly: her spiritual self.

She gets into what it actually means to live a spiritual life without performing it, why she's been hesitant to share this part of herself, and how American culture tends to struggle with spirituality that doesn't fit neatly into religious boxes or trend-driven wellness aesthetics.

She also shares her perspective on the rise of psychedelic therapies and spiritual spaces and why tending to your foundations first isn't optional, it's everything.

If you've ever felt spiritual but couldn't quite name it, or found yourself somewhere between faith and skepticism, this one's for you.

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In this episode, Courtney explores The Art of Intentional Living—not as a rigid structure, but as a fluid practice of self-trust, authenticity, and alignment. She reflects on the power of slowing down, recognizing cognitive dissonance, and the difference between being honest vs. judgmental with ourselves. Through personal stories and insights, she highlights how true intentionality helps build resilience, prevent burnout, and even strengthen community. Tune in for a grounded perspective on showing up for yourself and others in a world that thrives on distraction.

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The final months of the year can feel hectic, leaving many of us feeling off, dysregulated, or simply exhausted. In this episode, Courtney shares why this time of year can stir up funky feelings and offers support through the Self Care Creature lens.

With personal reflections on what she’s been navigating lately, Courtney provides insights on holding space for yourself, finding connection, and moving through this season with intention. Tune in for grounding encouragement and a reminder with tangible tips for stepping into the new year with curiosity, compassion, and hope.

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In this episode, Courtney takes a heartfelt and reflective journey through the past year—both in the podcast and in life. From meaningful conversations and highlights on the podcast to personal lessons, growth, and challenges, this episode is a deep dive into what the year brought and how it’s shaping the path forward. Plus, Court invites listeners to reflect on their own year with three fun and thought-provoking questions, perfect for end-of-year contemplation. Exciting announcement at the end of the episode! Tune in for an honest, lighthearted, and grounding episode that wraps up the year with gratitude and curiosity for what’s to come.

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In this episode, Courtney dives deep into cultivating sustainable practices to support us during moments of hardship, emphasizing the importance of holding space for hard emotions and understanding how self-care is intricately tied to collective well-being. Drawing inspiration from the work of Brené Brown, C.R. Snyder, Audre Lorde, Barbara Love, and her teacher, Dr. Tee Williams, Courtney offers insights, tools, and reflections to help you navigate challenging times with compassion and resilience. She also shares her personal journey of shifting perspectives, which led to her passion for bridging self-care and community care.

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In this episode, Courtney dives deep into the concept of integration, breaking down what it truly means and how it differs from simply building habits. Together, we explore the mainstream obsession with habit formation and why this focus doesn’t necessarily lead to real growth or sustainable change. Through personal practices, resources, and insights, Courtney ties it all back into the Self Care Creature lifestyle, offering a more meaningful path towards embodying self-care as a way of being. Listen in to challenge conventional ideas about self-improvement and discover a deeper, more holistic approach to integration.

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