Roxanne Murray - aka the Multiple Sclerosis Fashionista - has spent nearly two decades transforming personal pain into powerful advocacy.

After eight years of misdiagnosis rooted in medical racism, Roxy finally received her MS diagnosis at 26. Now she's on a mission to reclaim pleasure, joy, and visibility for disabled communities. "I want my pleasure back," she declares. Through her work, she's challenging systems, breaking taboos, and insisting that disabled people deserve it all - pleasure, access, and representation.

From quickfire questions about porn and nudity to deep conversations about racism in healthcare, Roxanne shares her journey from misdiagnosis to becoming a powerhouse voice for change. Discover why disabled people are "hot as f***," how orgasms are part of wellness, and why the remote control proves accessibility benefits everyone. Expect mesh, latex dreams, hot vampire vibes and radical pleasure advocacy.

Keep up to date with Roxy's work by following her on IG @multiplesclerosisfashionista

Hear Roxy's episode on Myelin & Melanin here

And catch Roxy's monthly column 'Roxy's Radar' on New Pathways

Interview and portraits by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2

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This week, we're joined by Inu, a shibari enthusiast and inclusive kink advocate who's shattering myths about asexuality, desire, attraction, and pleasure.

Tune in to hear Inu discuss why being Ace doesn't mean being a robot, how asexuality exists on a spectrum within kink spaces, and why "friends with benefits" means exactly what you think it does.

From navigating dating apps to finding liberation in rope bondage, Inu shares his journey of unapologetic self-discovery, the power of communication, and why being a "power bottom" is all about earning respect.

Expect myth-busting, philosophy, and some seriously sassy quick-fire rounds about what it really means to be asexual in alternative lifestyle communities.

Follow Inu on their IG account @xshibarinux and find him on fetlife at xPuppy_Princex for more sassyness.

Interview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2

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Bethany sits down with kink educator and content creator Alice Lovegood (Better Sx Blog) for a candid, funny, and deeply honest conversation about polyamory, pleasure, kink, going viral online, and creating real-life spaces for people to connect. Alice shares her journey from OnlyFans to education, the challenges of visibility, and how she’s reshaping conversations around sex—one video, one workshop, and one event at a time.

Since recording this episode, Alice Lovegood has her her ig account @bettersx.blog wrongfully suspended. You can help by appealing directly via IG. Find out here.

Get to know Alice's work below:

Follow her new IG @alicelovegoodwho

Website - bettersx.blog

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Interview by Bethany Burgoyne

@bxsassy2

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