What happens when you’re grieving something other people don’t even recognize as grief?

In Episode 3 of The Reset, Prestina, Shannon, and Danielle talk about grieving the life they thought they would still have after 50.

And this time, nobody has to die for grief to be real.

Shannon is navigating the end of a 21-year career with one company—and the identity, routine, relationships and future that came with it.

Prestina looks back from a different stage of grieving the loss of her corporate career and what she can recognize now that she couldn’t recognize while she was in the middle of it.

Danielle shares what it means to grieve changes in mobility, independence and the freedom of being able to move through life the way she once did.

In this conversation, we get into:

• Career loss and professional identity
• Losing mobility and independence
• The grief other people can’t see
• Anger, sadness, denial and acceptance
• Why grief doesn’t happen in a straight line
• Trying to recreate the life you had before
• Missing an old version of yourself
• Learning to live differently
• Who you become when you can’t go back

We don’t have this figured out—and that’s the point.

We’re three women in three different places, talking about what it actually feels like when a part of the life you expected is gone.

Now we want to hear from you:

What are you grieving that the people around you may not recognize as grief?

Tell us in the comments.

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For years, work wasn’t just what we did. It became part of who we were.

The titles. The routines. The authority. The paycheck. Being needed. Being the one who had it together.

Then the job changes, layoffs, and career transitions happened—and suddenly we had to confront a much harder question:

Who are you when work stops defining you?

In Episode 2 of The Reset, Prestina, Danielle, and Shannon get into the complicated relationship between career and identity. We talk about what corporate life gave us, what it took from us, what we actually miss, and what parts of our old ambition and identity we’re willing to carry into whatever comes next.

This isn’t a career-advice episode. We’re not giving résumé tips or pretending we have the next chapter figured out.

We’re talking about the part people don’t say out loud:

when you’ve spent years building a professional identity, losing or changing the role can feel like losing part of yourself.

So what do you keep?
What do you release?
And who are you when nobody is impressed by the title anymore?

Three women. One reset. What TF is next?

If this conversation sounds familiar, tell us in the comments:

How much of your identity became tied to what you did for work?

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We thought our first episode was going to be a simple catch-up.

Then we started talking about layoffs.

Career identity. Recruiting. Corporate life. What it feels like when the career you spent years building suddenly changes—and what you understand differently when you've been on both sides of the hiring process.

Things got more honest than we planned.

So instead of cleaning it up, we're calling it what it is:

Ripping Off the Silence.

This is the pilot episode of The Reset—three women figuring out what happens when the lives, careers and roles that once defined us stop fitting the same way.

Prestina. Danielle. Shannon.

Three women. One reset. What TF is next?